Listen and pay attention – because Virgos are masters at it.
They spend their lives noticing all the little details that most people don’t notice.
His approach to life and everything else is so methodical, that it can seem cold.
The Virgo man’s warmth shows his kindness and love for animals.
He will act with all indifference and serenity at first, but be patient, the wait will be worth it in the end.
Virgos are complex creatures, so here are all the secrets you need to decode so you can learn to love them.
1 . If you stay with him, he will stay with you
He’s the guy you can count on when it really matters.
If you call your knight in shining armor, he will come running without asking questions.
What’s more attractive than a guy you can trust?
You might catch his eyes wandering to see the girl he just walked by, but rest assured you won’t catch him in bed with her.
2 . It might take a while to get comfortable with his friends
Don’t mistake his quietness for rudeness when you first approach him with his friends.
He is more introverted than extroverted.
He needs the space and time to open up to everyone.
Give him some time to get to know your friends too.
Make sure his friends know he just needs time to warm up.
First impressions are everything.
Once his friends label him as that idiot who thinks he’s better than others, it’s going to be hard to change his mind.
3 . He is very hardworking
Sometimes he just doesn’t know when it’s time to stop.
He gets so caught up in doing the work and doing it right, that he loses sight of what’s going on around him.
You might even have to call him at the office to remind him it’s time to go home.
But don’t let his focus get you down.
He invests time in what he considers important.
If he is in a relationship with you, it obviously means that you are important to him too!
4 . As he works hard, he will find it difficult to relax while on vacation
All the work and no play make him a bit of a bore, but he doesn’t know it.
Relaxing and resting are not something he is familiar with.
All your friends are going on a romantic vacation, but you know it would be a struggle trying to convince him why you should go to the beach for a few days.
Instead of trying to plan a whole weekend, just plan a day trip.
This is much more realistic.
Go to a local vineyard for a wine tasting.
You leave the house and he drinks some wine so he can relax.
5 . He’s Totally Crazy About Health
He’s not a meat and potatoes or processed food guy.
He eats red meat every now and then, usually on holidays, but the rest of the time he stays away from it because he knows it can lead to heart disease.
If a new natural food restaurant opens in town, he’ll be the first to know.
He will also try to convince you that you need to try delicious kale, spinach, avocado, and flaxseed smoothie.
He’s not the kind of guy who’s going to pick on you every weekend, but don’t hold it against him.
He’s just looking out for you.
6 . He is the voice in your head that says no
Reality is hard to swallow.
You’ve been wanting after a $2000 Kate Spade bag for months, the only reason you haven’t bought it yet is that he reminded you that you could save that money and use it for a trip.
You tell yourself you hate that side of him, but in reality, you’re grateful every day.
If it weren’t for him, you’d be living in a cardboard box with just your bags and shoes.
7 . He’s the kind of guy who really enjoyed reading books in school
He probably read more books than most people in their lives.
He doesn’t discriminate between genres, he just reads what sounds interesting to him.
If you question him, he will probably surprise you with everything he knows.
Your favorite books are a kind of material asset.
Don’t be offended if he’d rather finish the sci-fi novel he’s currently reading than take you out to dinner.
8 . He Won’t Ask For Help (Even If He Needs It)
There are two types of people in the world, those who ask for help (perhaps a lot of help) and those who never ask.
He’s the second.
It would hurt his ego to admit he can’t do something alone.
He thinks he’s superman and can’t face the reality that sometimes we need a little help from our friends.
If you see him struggling, the best way to handle the situation is to offer help in a different way.
If you make him think it was his idea, it’s going to be a win-win situation.
9 . It’s all about keeping things clean
You woke up late and spent a lot of time putting on makeup and choosing your outfit for the day, now you’re late.
Why does it matter that you left your plate dirty and didn’t clean and put it away?
There’s no time for that!
Lucky for you, he’ll probably end up doing it for you, because he’s neurotic about cleanliness and just can’t contain himself.
When he’s not working, he spends his time cleaning and tidying up wherever he can.
It is in those moments that you will love him the most.
10 . Wild Nature Is Where He Finds Peace
He’s the perfect boy scout.
With all the knowledge and wisdom he’s gained from the books and his tactical approach to life, he has everything he needs to get there on his own.
You won’t find him sitting around the campfire or fishing all day.
You’ll find it hiking, mountain biking, rock climbing, or kayaking.
That’s his idea of relaxing and resting.