Have you ever wondered what goes through a guy’s mind the first time he meets you?
Do you wonder if he noticed something or noticed you?
Don’t worry, he’s noticed you.
Here are the top 10 things people notice about you instantly.
It’s not always easy to know what a guy thinks, but it’s easy to know what he notices first.
Men are very visual creatures and a guy is very quick to notice little things that you might not even realize you’re paying attention to.
Before you head out on that blind date or head to the bar looking to meet someone, here are ten things guys notice about you instantly.
1 . Your Smile
Probably the first thing a man notices about you is your smile.
While not all men are picky about women’s teeth, your smile tells you almost everything he needs to know about you.
Do you genuinely smile?
Is it a friendly smile or a sarcastic smile?
Maybe you have a hesitant smile?
Whatever the case, he’s going to notice, and if you’re not genuine and open to him, then he’s going to be hesitant to meet you.
2 . Your Interactions With Other People
Have you ever seen a guy interact with other people?
Did you judge him based on his kindness, his manners, his generosity, or good attitude?
In that case, you are not alone.
Men also notice this aspect of women.
If you’re rude to the waitress, he’ll notice (and won’t like it).
If you apologize for something you didn’t do, he’ll notice and think you have very low self-esteem.
Guys notice how you are with others.
3 . Your Hair
Yes, he notices your hair.
He sees the color, the shine, the style, and, if he gets close enough, the smell, so it’s extremely important that your hair is clean and tidy and at least presentable at all times.
4 . Your Eyes
Men notice your eyes.
First, they notice your eye color and then your eye shadow.
Also, they notice whether or not you are looking them in the eye when you speak.
Eye contact is an absolute must for a man.
Also, he definitely wants to get lost in those beautiful eyes of yours.
5 . Your Laugh
A man will notice many things in a woman, but her laugh can be what keeps him interested.
If you laugh and laugh at every little thing he says, it’s going to get annoying.
Laugh at their jokes, laugh when appropriate, but your smile will get you further than a schoolgirl laugh or constant nervous laughter.
6 . Your Confidence
People wear confidence like a comfortable sweater.
Either you have it or you don’t.
While many of us go through days when we feel less than confident, a man will notice a woman who is self-confident.
You don’t have to be arrogant or rude to be confident; you just need to be comfortable with who you are.
Confidence is always attractive and exciting (for both genders).
By the way, here are some cool songs to instantly boost your confidence.
7 . Your Top Or Blouse
Okay, they say clothes make the man, but that’s also true for women.
I’ve noticed that men tend to look at me more when I’m in a soft, feminine top, and I’m much more attracted to me when I look a little overdressed.
However, I get more friends or “friends” when I’m in jeans and a Captain America shirt.
Trust me, ladies, he’s noticed your top or tank top.
This also brings up the point of not wearing shirts that are inappropriate, stained, tattered, or unflattering if you are looking for a man.
8 . Your Ways
Just like your interaction with other people, a guy will also notice your manners.
Did you chew with your mouth closed?
Do you keep the door open for old ladies?
Did you thank him for keeping the door open for you or for buying you dinner?
Good manners are an important statement of what kind of person you really are.
While you don’t have to be Miss Perfect (because that can actually be a little intimidating), you do have to watch your manners and show him that you were raised correctly.
9 . Your Nails
I’m going to be completely honest here about women’s nails.
Men notice your nails, they really do.
They see the shade of nail polish you use, the length of your nails, and notice if you’ve bitten them or if there’s dirt under them.
Certain nail polish colors can instantly scare a man (long nails painted dark red on a first date are not something I recommend).
They also notice if your toenails are painted and well-groomed (this says a lot about how well a woman takes care of herself).
However, if you have a $300 manicurist and are afraid to touch anything for fear of chipping or breaking a nail, he will assume you need a lot of maintenance.
Also, if you have chipped nail polish that hasn’t changed in weeks, it will assume you don’t care enough about your appearance.
Not having nail polish can be one or the other, but as long as your nails are clean and well-groomed, you shouldn’t have anything to worry about.
10 . Your Shoes
Yes, he notices your shoes.
A man will notice if you’re wearing high heels to a ball game, sneakers to a black-tie event, or flip-flops in the middle of a snowstorm.
Trust me: make sure your shoes are appropriate before going out with him.
There are a lot of things guys notice about us before we even say hello and first impressions are always important.
Keep yourself clean and well-groomed (even if you just brush your hair and apply some mascara).