Is your relationship on the brink of the precipice? Take stock by considering these ten things below: If you think you are the source of the confusion and you want to keep your home, then try to correct your attitude. If, on the contrary, these behaviors come from your spouse, bring him to have a frank discussion with you to rectify the situation otherwise it will be too late.
The lack of respect
A couple who is going well is two partners who respect each other. There are no insults, no violence, no one belittles the other, everyone has understood that the other must flourish as a person and everyone, therefore, has their private space, their secret garden.
When respect is lost, there is usually no turning back.
Jealousy is a feeling that comes from the fear of losing the other and from a certain lack of confidence (in oneself and in the other).
It is not a sign of love, however, it can happen to everyone to feel jealous, it does not matter.
But be careful not to let jealousy take control until it turns into obsession and shatters the couple.
Lack of support
Support is essential in a relationship. When we are in a relationship, we share a lot of things, so it is important that the other listens and can support us and support us in strong moments, sad as well as happy. If the other doesn’t show compassion and is never around through hard times, the relationship goes bad.
Constant dissatisfaction and complaints
Complaining constantly and demanding more and more is exhausting for the other and for oneself.
When you find yourself in this situation, you have to ask yourself why you complain all the time: is it a bad habit or is it a symptom of general dissatisfaction?
Do you really like him, or do you like being in a relationship?
It is normal for the relationship to be fused at the beginning, during the “honeymoon”, to feel that you are one, to see the other as you would like him/her to be, as someone who completes us.
Only, during this period and after, it is important not to respond to all the desires of the other and not to put his needs before our own, in order to make the fusion last.
True love is when we really love the person for who they are, and not for the emotional void, they fill in us.
Lack of communication
Many couples separate because of a lack of communication.
You have to talk about what is going and what is not, you have to express yourself about your desires, your desires, your feelings, listen and take into account the opinions, desires, desires, and feelings of the other.
Anyway, when you keep what you have in your heart to yourself, it always ends up coming out!
Don’t spend time together
This is all the more true in the case of a couple who have children: you have to keep time as a couple.
A couple should, to keep the flame alive, take care to keep marks of affection, moments of tenderness, and activities outside of everyday life … In short, spending time in love.
No longer have joint projects
Having common projects is essential to move forward together. Even if all our projects do not have to be common!
A couple who are doing well has plans, short or long term. They talk about it, imagine it, make plans, modify them together …
No longer having any common project means moving away little by little.
Being two also means asserting yourself as a whole person and knowing how to say no.
A couple doesn’t have to want the same things at the same time or always have the same view of things.
A couple is formed by two people and neither should be forgotten to try to be one or to leave more room for the other.