Why don’t you talk to me on WhatsApp if you like me? We know that a message from that special person is enough to warm your chest and make a smile come out on its own. But time goes by and your heart dries up waiting for him to write to you, especially when you know he has feelings for you.
In this article, we will help you discover the cause, but before you start to analyze the reasons, you should do the following:
1. He may not like you
If he shows your interest in other ways, outside of WhatsApp, you shouldn’t even worry about whether he writes to you or not. It is clear that it has an interest.
When you’re not sure how he feels about you, proceed carefully. You may not be genuinely interested.
2. He may be distracted, not realizing that he also likes you
After seeing if he likes you or not, it is super necessary to rip out of your head that idea that you have that he thinks or acts in the same way as you.
Men and women are very different in many ways. We tend to be much more loving, attentive and detailed, they are drier, simpler, and also tend to be too distracted.
We can unravel in a conversation and give the subject a thousand laps, they are generally much more specific and do not delve much into details.
3. This is him, he is one of those who does not write so much on WhatsApp
It is a bit difficult to understand this reason because with how tied our generation is to technology, it is difficult for us to understand that someone is not a lot of talking very often through messages.
If you want to know if this is his case, take a good look at how often he uses his cell phone when you are with him. If you stick to it as if it were an extension of your body and check any notifications at the first beep, it is not your case.
If, on the other hand, he leaves his cell phone for a long time on a table, it can ring and he does not flinch, there you have your reason. Your crush just isn’t as tied to his cell phone as you thought.
4. Men are much less emotionally mature than women.
This is nothing new. Women have greater emotional maturity than men. Little emotional maturity causes them to get carried away by feelings without knowing where they are going.
Therefore, it is much easier for us to be empathetic and to be able to have details with them. In addition, we can know what we want and what we do not want more easily than a man.
Unlike us, guys sometimes make pretty strange decisions. If you add to this that they do not cope well with some situations, you have as a result of their infrequency to write to you.
5. It is your defense mechanism
Yes, they are scared too. Some of them also think that there should be an app that alerts you when they are about to break your heart.
But since there isn’t, we just have to be careful. Keep in mind that you make strange decisions when you are afraid. If he fears you will hurt him, he will probably put up barriers, in his own way.
Writing to you less can be his way of taking care of his heart. For this, you just have to be patient and show him little by little that you will not hurt him. Understand it and don’t push it too hard.
6. is playing with your feelings
This option is not pretty, but let’s be honest, you are not silly at all. You can really tell if he is playing or not. If you think it’s going to break your heart, it will break it.
Here it is your turn to activate your defense mechanism. Stay away a bit, see how he behaves with you if he looks for you and how often he does it. Pay attention to what he wants from you when he writes to you and analyzes well if he is worth pursuing.
If you realize that he is playing, say goodbye. You have to learn to say “No” more often so that it hurts less when we hear it.
7. He wants you to take the next step
Love is sometimes a wait. One expects the other to do something and vice versa. Our generation is breaking gender roles and I couldn’t be happier. But one of the disadvantages of this is that they are no longer obliged to be the ones who move everything for a relationship to take place.
And it is not that he does not want to advance, but his maximum signal that he likes you is to see how much interest there is on your part when he stops looking for you. Sometimes to fly you just need someone to move the ground.
8. It’s his way of knowing if he likes you
This is related to the previous point. Like you, he may be in the situation of not knowing how you feel about him. Stopping writing and seeing your reaction or how hard you search will help him figure out if you really like him.
And it is that love is very complicated. But once we understand that you don’t learn to walk by following the rules, but by walking knowing that you can fall, everything will be a little easier.
We need to be less afraid and so do they.
9. It’s a boost for your ego
Sad but true. Sometimes men ignore you knowing that you are going to look for them again. Writing to him when he has stopped looking for you increases his self-confidence and boosts his ego.
Careful! If this is the type of man you are dealing with, writing to him is just what he expects you to do, and not for the reason you think, but for sheer selfishness.
10. Maybe you did something that pushed him away
95% of the things that concern us have not happened and will not happen. But sometimes it doesn’t hurt to recap our relationships. Analyze if we could have done something wrong.
11. He lost his interest in you
This is another sad reason, but it doesn’t hurt to consider it. Has it happened to you that you don’t know how to give someone bad news? It’s hard.
Well maybe he is in that situation – He lost interest, he does not know how to tell you and the only way he can think of is to gradually reduce his interactions with you.
12. He has not even realized that he is writing to you less
Here comes the part we talked about how distracted they can be.
Maybe he didn’t answer you because he’s so excited about the new video game that he fell asleep with the Xbox controller in one hand and the other in a Doritos bag.
Men tend to focus their attention on one thing at a time, so there’s a good chance he didn’t realize they’re talking less or that you feel weird about it.
Lastly, it may also be that you don’t know what to say. There are men who are quite painful and do not know how to handle small talk.
Anyway, as you can see, the reasons are many and varied. Since it was a little clearer to you why he doesn’t talk to you on WhatsApp if he likes you, let’s move on to the action plan.