So are you in a new relationship?
Then you have found a new relationship. It’s probably a bit stressful and you probably think that this person feels exactly the same way. Well, you are probably right. Sure there are many things to consider when starting a new relationship. Basically, you have to think about the positive and the negative. Of course, you will never meet a person until you have spent some quality time with them, but some people are very good at projecting the type of person they are and showing their true colors from the beginning of the relationship. Some people talk about getting out of bad breakups when they first get into a new one. Some enter a relationship simply because they need a distraction from their life or from an ex or for some kind of personal gain. No matter how long it takes to meet someone there are always signs. Signs that determine whether or not this relationship will last or will be broken.
So she / he says that you are the only boy …
So this person is telling you that you are the only guy they are talking to. Well, this one is always a bit “iffy”. Like I said before, you never know what someone’s intentions are. Those are pretty private intentions. It is something that someone tests with actions. So if all these actions are positive, you can assume that this person’s intentions are good. Obviously, if a person shows negative actions, it is more than likely that this person’s intentions with you are not the best. They say you’re the only one But have you noticed that they mention someone else? If it is someone from your past or present, Have they mentioned someone in a romantic or possibly romantic way? Do you realize that you are not the only one who has their attention? How long until it’s okay to ask them if you are the only one they say you are? Would that be too confrontational? I feel that anyone who is unwilling to discuss or at least mention the circumstances of being with them and what they are currently going through obviously does not care enough based on their relationship. So take note of when they express it to you.
14 signs you’re the rebound type in that relationship
There are always signs to determine if something will change or if that action is taking place. I’m sure the signs can make a person a little paranoid or a little confused, but sometimes they are great for prevention. If you are seeing signs in your relationship and you can’t get past these thoughts and ideas that you are the rebound, then perhaps there is a message. It’s definitely time to start paying a little more attention to the signals that are given to you. Here are 14 signs that you are the rebound type in that relationship:
1.She / he is newly single
Did you just get out of a relationship about a month ago? Was it a long-term relationship? If that’s the case, you are more than likely a rebound. They could say that they have gotten over their ex and will never get back together, but sometimes it is nothing more than a lie. If a couple breaks up, both of them will need a good amount of time to heal.
2.She talks about her ex … a little too much
Okay, so this is completely straightforward. If you are constantly talking about your ex, raising your ex, or doing anything to relate the relationship that you guys have with your ex, or even compare it to your ex… It is almost definitely a kind of rebound.
3. She / He acts very bitter
If this person speaks nothing but negative things about their ex and emits terrible energy when it comes to their ex, obviously there are still strong feelings that this person is channeling. This is a sign that he / she is still connected to your ex.
4. Social media statuses are still sad
If the person you are dating is sharing content or posting statuses on social media platforms that they are really sad or moving towards some kind of desperate relationship, they could still be struggling with the consequences of their last relationship. This is a great sign to determine whether or not you are a bounce guy.
5.Projecting intense emotions
This person seems too much into you too soon. He tells you that he loves you and it’s only been a month. Perhaps this person is trying to fill a void in your heart. I’m sure the feelings are genuine, but maybe not too much for you. Sorry.
6. Too distant …
This is another good sign to watch out for. If he / she is too distant, avoids growth in your relationship, avoids talking about the future or even showing off, it is more than likely a rebound. Obviously this person is not trying to move on too soon. Space and time is being created between the two of you in case the ex comes back into your life.
7 Make your ex jealous
If this person is constantly using you to get back at their ex or making them jealous, I think that sign is a huge red flag that you are a rebound guy. I’m going crazy with your partner, but if it’s deliberately aimed at a specific person, it’s petty.
8. Nothing in common
Are you sitting there wondering why you are with this person? I’m pretty sure it’s because you’re realizing that the two of you have absolutely nothing in common. Sure they are attractive…
9 being compared to an ex
Comparisons can always be a good thing, but sometimes too much comparing can drive a person crazy! Who wants to be like everyone else except themselves! They all have great qualities, but if your partner constantly compares you to an ex, I hate to say this, but maybe you are a rebound and they prefer to be with them.
10. Are you out of everyone?
“It’s funny that you should ask, because I don’t remember” – The Front Bottoms Do you ask your partner “why did they choose you” and they just don’t remember or have no idea why they chose you out of all? It’s probably because you were carelessly chosen. If you feel this way, you are most likely in rebound territory.
11over exaggerating
I feel like some people tend to overdo the lack of something. Like happiness, for example. Love is another example. An exaggeration or main lie, if you will, is created when it comes to breakups. If it seems like this person is telling a story of a lie about their breakup, maybe it’s because they don’t want to be honest with you about who they really are.
12 The breakup was a shock to them
Most mature, mindful people coming out of long-term relationships can agree that it was both parties that caused the relationship to break down. If your partner refuses and denies their part in the breakup, this person may not be mature enough to have a relationship in general. For them, their breakup may have come as a shock to them, but for their ex, it was probably to be expected.
13 A fickle mind
First they love you and then they don’t. This person has a case of a fickle mind. Are you sure of something? What you need to be sure of is that you are a potential rebound, my dear.
14 they don’t know themselves
This sign goes along with having a fickle mind. After a breakup, it is possible for a person to get lost. They may forget what they like, what their hobbies are, and what makes them who they are. If your partner has no idea who they are, they may be using you to recover or find a new you.
To be or not to be a rebound
Okay, so you went through all the signals and came to an illustrated conclusion that you really are a bounce guy. This type of news can be a great distraction. I’m sure you can’t get over the idea that you are the rebound type in this relationship. I bet you have a lot on your mind right now. I bet you ask yourself about all of these signs and kick yourself over how alien you weren’t when you noticed them in the first place. Perhaps for the few who enjoy a dramatic affair, this idea of being the rebound type in the relationship appeals to you. Maybe you like helping a girl pick up the pieces of a bad breakup. Maybe knowing that a girl will always love her ex but decides to spend time with you instead of him tickling you. Who knows. Everyone has their problems. I guess you should stop and ask yourself: to be or not to be a rebound. Exam Time: Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself: How long have you wanted to be with your ex? How long do you expect to be a rebound guy in the relationship? Could it be nothing more than a distraction for this person? Did you mention a recent breakup? Do you talk about your ex a lot? Are you still friends with your ex? Can you get over the fact that this person really wants someone else despite how good you are to them? Are you the type of person who is not looking for a serious and committed relationship? These are just a few questions to ask yourself and ask yourself when trying to decide whether or not you want to be in the relationship. How long have you wanted to be with your ex? How long do you expect to be a rebound guy in the relationship? Could it be nothing more than a distraction for this person? Did you mention a recent breakup? Do you talk about your ex a lot? Are you still friends with your ex? Can you get over the fact that this person really wants someone else despite how good you are to them? Are you the type of person who is not looking for a serious and committed relationship? These are just a few questions to ask yourself and ask yourself when trying to decide whether or not you want to be in the relationship. How long have you wanted to be with your ex? How long do you expect to be a rebound guy in the relationship? Could it be nothing more than a distraction for this person? Did you mention a recent breakup? Do you talk about your ex a lot? Are you still friends with your ex? Can you get over the fact that this person really wants someone else despite how good you are to them? Are you the type of person who is not looking for a serious and committed relationship? These are just a few questions to ask yourself and ask yourself when trying to decide whether or not you want to be in the relationship.
You deserve more
This is plain and simple: You deserve more! If you! Regardless of whether or not you believe that this girl or boy is the person of your dreams, if they are unwilling to put you first and not use you as a distraction or rebound from someone else, then they are not worth your time. I’m sure you’re a great boy or girl if you cross-read this, and you may not know how long it will take you to go ahead and find someone else, but I guarantee that you will find someone. Or find more self love! That is always great. You never know that you can continue to examine yourself and think about your relationship and come to the conclusion that you want to be this person’s rebound type. It may be distracting, but on the bright side, you are really helping this person.
There are so many fishes in the sea
In addition to being someone’s bounce guy, you can also consider dating other people. I am sure that if you discuss and explain the situation to the person you are currently dating, they will understand and notice that you are the type of rebound in your current life. If being a rebound guy isn’t who, what, where you’re trying to be in a relationship, then maybe you need something more serious in your life. Explain that exact thought to them and emphasize that being a rebound guy is not attractive to you. When you decide or if you decide to date other people, I think it is always a good idea to be on the same page as the person of interest and, if you are not, move on to the next person. It is better not to waste your time if you spend it on someone who obviously does not want the same in your life as you. For instance, Do not try to date someone knowing that he is not ready for something serious, it does not matter if you think you can convince him, it will most likely end in disaster if you are looking for a committed relationship. Let’s get over our crush (person who is not in serious relationships) and use common sense and our logical people! Also, there are a lot of fish in the sea, so don’t feel rushed or forced to choose someone. Keep looking. I promise you will find someone great! so don’t feel rushed or forced to choose someone. Keep looking. I promise you will find someone great! so don’t feel rushed or forced to choose someone. Keep looking. I promise you will find someone great!
