Even if we all would like to know if a man loves us in secret, finding out is not easy.
In reality, it takes a lot of effort to find out if someone is interested in you or if they just want to have fun and leave you when they find another girl.
On the other hand, men often never reveal their true feelings and they are not as open as women when it comes to their emotions.
But there is a way! You can learn a lot about them and how they actually feel about you by looking at their body language.
So if you want to know if he secretly loves you, just look at your man and his behavior when he is with you.
I am sure you will learn a lot about him and find answers to your questions.
To help you out, I’ve made a list of the things men do most often when they’re in love with someone, so I recommend you keep reading.
1. He is on time
When a man is secretly in love with you, he will not take you by boat.
If he says he will be there, for example, at 8:00 p.m., he will be there, at 7:50 p.m. Just so you don’t have to wait for him.
It is a sign that he respects you and wants you to feel good. He wants you to feel special and will do everything to provide you with what you need.
If you’ve had the chance to spend a little time with a gentleman like him, you will know that he knows what he is doing and that he is really a good guy.
In fact, you can see if someone is a good guy or not from the start and this one is very promising, isn’t it ladies?
2. He keeps his eyes on you
Sometimes when you’re on the first date, it can be a little annoying if a guy is watching you all the time, but you should know that this is actually a good sign.
If he looks you straight in the eye, it is because he really likes you and he likes spending time with you.
If he goes further and holds your hand while talking to you and looking you in the eyes, it means that he is madly in love with you and that he can do nothing about it.
So now it’s up to you to decide whether to make it happen or ignore it.
If he’s really a good guy, I suggest you give him a chance. I am sure you will not regret it!
3. He touches you “accidentally”
Boys can sometimes be pretty deceitful, you know. If he touches you and then tells you that it was not intentional, it may be a sign that he secretly loves you but is afraid to admit it.
Guys often do this just to get close to you and feel your skin against theirs, but they can’t find another way to do it.
So the next time a guy who’s been watching you for a while does something like that, you can be sure that he’s preparing something and that he sees you as more than a friend.
Don’t be too hard on him and don’t tell him you know what he’s trying to do, but just pretend you don’t know anything and let him do his best to convince you. It will be a lot of fun to see that!
4. He asks questions
When a man secretly loves you, he will ask you so many questions because he will want to know you better.
Not only will he ask you questions about yourself, he will also share with you the things in his life.
You can hear him tell you about his friends and the places he traveled with them.
If he’s trying to tell jokes about himself, it’s a sure sign that he’s all about you and now he’s just investigating to find out more about your feelings for him.
He will constantly try to make you feel good about yourself when you are with him, just so that you agree to go on a second date with him.
You have to admit that he is intelligent and that if he continues to use his brain for good things, you should stay with him.
5. He’s awkward when he’s with you
Guys tend to be clumsy in front of the women they love. The catch is that they want to look their best, but they can’t do it because they’re too nervous.
If your man is clumsy in front of you all the time, it may be a sign that he is secretly in love with you but doesn’t know how to tell you.
I know this is madness. But the fact is, he can’t do anything about it and he can’t control his emotions.
So don’t make it harder for him because he’s already having trouble impressing you.
6. He is leaning towards you
If you catch him leaning in while he’s trying to explain something to you, you should know he’s doing it without even knowing it.
Men do this when they are secretly in love with someone, but do not have the courage to admit their real feelings.
What I mean is that it’s not the easiest thing in the world to approach a woman you love and tell her how you feel about her so you need to understand her situation.
Just keep this thing in mind: he really loves you secretly, so if you see that nothing is going on, try to make it easier for him and help him take the first step.
7. He remembers the smallest details about you
Does he remember your dog’s name even if you only mentioned it once?
It means he cares about you, your surroundings and things that concern you, so he will try to find out more about you.
When a man has a crush on a woman, he will want to know more about her.
It doesn’t matter if these things don’t make sense or if they’re super important, when a man is all about you, he will try to remember everything.
And you will be very surprised when he mentions something that you told him a long time ago.
It’s just a sign that he was listening to you carefully and that he made you his priority a long time ago.
8. He doesn’t talk to or look at other girls either
When you are on the first date, it is very important for any girl that her partner does not look at other girls.
Can you imagine a situation where you go out and have your rider watch this attractive waitress all evening and seduce her by sending her kisses?
It would be a date from hell, but believe me, guys like that exist.
Thank goodness your man is just the opposite and he can show that he considers you more than a friend.
If you’ve been lucky enough to meet someone like him who can make you feel special, you shouldn’t think about it and do everything to keep it.
9. He behaves like a real gentleman when he is with you
You enter the restaurant with your rider and he hurries to go to the table first to take the chair out for you.
It is a sign that gallantry is not dead and that there are still men who know how to make a woman feel special.
Obviously he wants to do things right for you, which can tell you that he is in love with you.
Maybe he just needs more time to open up to you or he is waiting for the perfect moment.
But whatever happens, you will know that he has really good intentions for you and that he wants to fight for you.
And unfortunately, guys like him are quite rare these days.
10. He is active on your social networks
If he likes every photo or anything you post, it may be a sign that he’s secretly in love with you.
By liking all these things on social networks, he wants to tell you that he is there and that he supports you.
And yes, he thinks you are beautiful. I am sure he will not take your eyes off your photo once you publish it and admire your beautiful eyes, your smile and your charisma.
Believe me, it’s enough for him to fall madly in love with you, so if you love him too, show him that you care about him.
It will strengthen his ego and he will take the first and most important step. Who knows, it may be the one you’ve been dreaming of all this time.
11. He offers to pay
Like a real gentleman, he won’t let you pay for the restaurant, but he will pay for you two. This is one more clear sign that he has a crush on you and wants to please you.
By doing this, he simply wants to imply that he is a man who always treats women with respect.
Also, it is not stingy and although it is not important that he has paid everything, it shows that he has certain values and that he remains true to himself whatever happens.
12. He compliments you
You don’t remember a time when he didn’t give you a compliment.
A man like him always has kind and warm words for you and he can really make you feel special and good, no matter how bad you feel at any given time.
Now every woman likes to be complimented, but if you get compliments from the man who has a secret crush on you, then it’s even more special.
This is something that all women love to hear, so if you have someone who tells you that you are smart or beautiful, it is a sign that they want more than friendship with you.
13. He acts as a protector
When a man acts as a protector, it is always a sign that he has strong feelings for you.
Because frankly, not all men act in a protective manner with regard to all the women they meet.
He will do it just for a special person and in this case, it is you.
So if he defends you from people who want to harm you, it is a sign that he secretly loves you but is afraid to admit it.
Maybe he thinks he is not good enough for you or maybe he is waiting for you to show him that you love him too.
But for whatever reason, he cannot hide his true feelings and will continue to stay with you as long as you let him do it.
14. He says “we” instead of “I”
When he tells you about a future event, he says “we” instead of “I” because he wants to make plans with you.
It is a sign that he already considers you his girlfriend and that he would happily spend the rest of his life with you.
The truth is, he is secretly in love with you and is trying to find ways to show it to you. He wants to impress you, but on the other hand, he doesn’t want to pass for an idiot in front of you.
So if you see that he is making a lot of effort for you to love him, help him by showing him that you appreciate what he does for you.
15. He is jealous when another man approaches you
Not only will he be jealous when another man approaches you, but he will act like that when you mention a guy you spoke to recently.
He will feel in danger because there is a possibility that another man is stealing from you.
So don’t be surprised if he gets upset when you talk about another guy, even if you’re not officially dating.
It’s just his defense mechanism and he can’t control it. He does his best to give the perfect picture, but he cannot fight his feelings.
So if this kind of behavior bothers you, talk to him and tell him that you are not dating and that he cannot behave like that.
On the other hand, if you think it’s okay, let him do what he thinks is right.
16. He smiles a lot when he’s with you
When a man is secretly in love with you, he tends to smile more than a man who doesn’t love you as much.
So if he smiles, that’s a good sign. This means that he has a secret crush on you and that by smiling more and making you feel good, he wants you to take the first step.
Phrases like: “I love your jokes!” or “I feel so good with you!” enough for him to know that he means more to you than a friend.
If you show him that you like him, he will do his best for you and do everything to make you happy.
You have to keep in mind that it is not easy for a man to reveal his true emotions, so respect all his efforts and his love for you. It will mean a lot to him.
17. He asks your opinion
When a man asks your opinion, it means that you are a special person for him.
It is a sign that he thinks you are smart enough to help him decide certain things that are going on in his life.
Since he is secretly in love with you, he thinks of your future together and he wants to see how you will manage a difficult situation if you were in his place.
Anyway, when he asks for your opinion, it is one more sign of his love for you.
And I am sure that over time, he will find the courage to express his emotions to you and will no longer hide them inside.
18. He respects you
There is an old saying that says something like this: “Where there is no respect, there is no love!”
This means that any man in love with a woman must respect her as much as love her.
You may be wondering why, right? Well, when you’ve been married to someone for a long time, love fades but respect remains.
I’m not saying it’s a bad thing, it’s a natural thing that happens to all of us.
When you are young, you love each other, but at 70, you will see that there are other more precious things, such as mutual respect, support and the time you can spend with your spouse.
So when you have the respect of your prisoner, you have everything, trust me!