Get Away From These Men And No One Will Get Hurt
Dating men can be quite an experience.
Online dating apps like Tinder have opened up a new space for women to meet all kinds of men, including a plethora of guys they really shouldn’t date.
With all these opportunities, the best dating advice I can offer women is that it’s extremely important not to waste time chasing men who will never be right for them.
To achieve this, you need to know what signs indicate that any relationship with certain men that you encounter will lead nowhere and may even be toxic for you.
If your goal is to find a good man, build a healthy relationship, get married, and have kids, there are guys you just can’t waste your time with.
Keeping that in mind, if you encounter any of these three types of guys, consider all the signs pointing to nothing but toxic relationships.
1 . Immature men
This one is tricky because immature men are often charismatic.
They are a lot of fun and generally very cute.
The problem is that they like to live in the moment so much that they don’t want any pressure.
They want to “see how things go”.
In other words, they have no plans for the future.
This type of guy wastes women’s time.
They always have excuses and usually seem so close yet so far away.
If a guy seems too good and too charming to be true, he probably is, and a lack of plans for the future is an indication that a relationship with him isn’t going anywhere.
2 . Too successful
You definitely want a hardworking guy, but sometimes, especially when a guy is young, he’s so focused on his career and making money that having any kind of relationship other than dating probably won’t be on his radar.
You can tell a man is like that if he’s always busy…except when he calls or texts the occasional late-night call.
Every now and then, he might take you on a real date, but he’ll only do the bare minimum to keep you in line.
I have many male clients who are busy, career-oriented men.
They don’t have a lot of free time, but they do find the time when they’re really interested in a woman.
The problem is, they just don’t understand how important this is until it’s too late.
And perhaps the saddest part is that when they commit and get married, they often don’t have time to see their kids often, and that’s not good for anyone.
3 . A Player
Needless to say, a man wouldn’t be called a player if he wasn’t playing with anyone.
Women tell me all the time, “I wouldn’t date a guy who doesn’t want anything to do with anything.”
But as much as I hate to say it, it’s not always like that in real life.
The reason for this is that these players do not normally advertise themselves as players.
They are adept at telling women what they want to hear.
However, if you listen carefully, you will hear a common theme in your conversation with these men.
They don’t have plans that include you and they don’t have plans for the future.
This is all good news for you because now you know what signs to look for
Notice how I used the word “listen”.
I didn’t say “search”.
If you want to be with a quality man, listening is the most important part of the business.
What a man says must sound good to you.
You’ll know a man is ready and interested in having a healthy relationship when he makes a real plan with you.
For example, he’ll say something like, “I’d like to hang out with you on Friday.
I’m thinking of going to this new Japanese food restaurant at 8 pm. What about?”
Or he makes unsolicited statements such as, “I am working on my financial assets to have a family and children” or, “My plan is to get married and have children within the next three years”.
That’s what a mature man sounds like.
Immature men can be a big obstacle for you because they tend to look really good.
They may be good in bed, but they have no plans for the future.
Gifted people may seem like good footprints because they are career-oriented and focused on making money, but they often lack the heart for healthy relationships or successful marriages.
They are more likely to see dating as a game and women as challenges to be overcome.
Gamblers are the guys that women tend to get involved with by accident.
Dating them can start late at night when you’ve had too much to drink.
It’s okay, we all need to have fun once in a while.
But, if you really want to be at your best game, these are three types of guys you should never date because they’ll just waste your time.
And honestly, who wants that?