In matters of love, some people wholeheartedly believe in the concept of “soul mates”, in the fact that there exists on earth a person who is specially intended for us.
If you have found your soul mate, then you know how wonderful it is to have found someone who is so perfectly suited to be with you. But other people are constantly searching for their soulmate , without realizing that it is right in front of them.
Here are 4 things to watch out for because they are real signs that your soulmate is closer than you think.
1. Who you are is more than enough:
When you find the right person, they will love you for who you are, not what they want you to be. Being in a relationship also means realizing that we are all different and have our own imperfections. If your spouse accepts these, it is because he is truly in love with you. Your spouse should not try to transform you into something that you are not, if he tries it is that he does not love you as an individual.
2. Best friends:
You are, without a doubt, made for each other when your spouse is also your best friend. Do you feel free to let your wildest and most stupid sides express themselves when you are with your spouse or even to do the craziest things together? If the answer is yes, then you can be sure you are made for each other. The most extraordinary relationships are those based on sincere friendship and respect. Being friends allows you to do things together as a team, which will help you strengthen your ties. Being friends also allows you to learn more about each other and get to know each other better. Breaking up is unimaginable because you would lose both your lover and your best friend.
3. Little or no melodramas:
Disputes and disagreements are the lot of the healthiest couples. Disputes and disagreements are normal, even if you are with the one who is intended for you. Finding your soulmate does not mean that your relationship will be free from arguments. It only means that when they arrive, you will do your best to play it fair play.
You will listen to each other with patience, without shouting, and you will never hesitate to apologize for your mistakes. Great melodramas and arguments are red flags when it comes to the success of a long-term relationship. All couples argue and fight but when you are with the right person, your “fights” will not last long, and arguing with your spouse will just make you feel sad.
4. You are unable to imagine life without him / her:
When your relationship reaches such a stage, you can be sure that you and your partner are made for each other. When you meet “the good” (or “the good”), it is important that you are on the same page and that it is the one on which you have all of them want to be. You’ll laugh the same stupid things, you’ll finish each other’s sentences, and you’ll love everything else. You will literally be unable to imagine a life without him or her.