It’s a fact, your friends tell you all the time: You are single. It’s been several months or even years since you last met a guy or a girl. You want that to change of course. But you don’t know what’s wrong. What are the reasons for your celibacy? Here is a list of 5 reasons why you are still single.
1. TOO BUSY TO THINK ABOUT LOVE.
Between your job, your friends, your family, your health, you don’t have much time for yourself. And even if there are proverbs that say that love comes when you least expect it, you still have to provoke it and make yourself available for it. So go to a restaurant with friends to flirt… or if you don’t have time, try online dating.
2. TOO FEAR OF BREAKING UP.
Don’t think negative before something even happens. If you start out negative and pessimistic then you will never come to enjoy your relationship and it will be doomed to failure. So take a deep breath and tell yourself that most relationships bring more happiness than pain.
3. NO ONE HAS VALIDATED ALL YOUR CRITERIA.
Making a list with a few mandatory points that your partner should have is a good idea. But don’t be too restrictive. Don’t ask to find the perfect man or woman. Let yourself go to new experiences and discover things that you would not have suspected to like.
4. I CAN’T MISS THE FRIDAY NIGHT SOAP.
When was the last time you went out? As already mentioned in the first point, love does not fall from the sky. So shake up and get out! If you’re not dating because of a lack of self-confidence, it might be time to take charge. Learn to love your body and exercise if necessary. But it is mostly in the head!
5. I’M STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX.
How can you start a new relationship if you still have the old one in mind? So draw a line on your past and your Ex. Concentrate on the present and the future. If you’ve found love once, you will most likely find it quickly. But for that, you have to be 100% available for your new partner.