6 principles that show that your couple is in danger

Is your couple in danger?

I chose to write this article because I often hear too many people say to me ”  I wonder what I still do with him or her, this relationship no longer brings me anything, it no longer makes sense “

It is a subject on which you must be aware even if it is difficult to admit. Too many people endure in couples that wear out and above all destroy each other.

Of course, there are a lot of fears associated with this.

It is true that it is not always easy to recognize that your couple is no longer connected, that the relationship is coming to an end, despite this feeling of having tried everything to make it work.

Today, I can say that I am one of those women who thinks that it is better to face reality, rather than to stay and lock oneself in a relationship that will ultimately destroy us.

By taking the risk of staying, you take the risk of losing self-esteem and especially the ability to rebuild something better for yourself.

So if you are wondering what you are doing in this relationship, if you are overcome by the fear of being alone while you are unhappy in your relationship, it is very likely that the relationship will come to an end.

Here are 6 principles that show that your relationship is coming to an end:

1- Feeling that your relationship is falling apart.

This feeling that your relationship has been struggling for a while despite your efforts; repeated arguments, moral fatigue, violent remarks, nonexistent s exuality or on the contrary, this impression that it is the only thing that remains between you. Anyway, in both cases there is more privacy, more complicity. With or without, you no longer feel in your place!

Conclusion: your environment becomes tense, toxic and your words go beyond your thoughts for little.

So if you have the impression that you have tried many times alone or in pairs, but very quickly these same situations come back, these same patterns, you cannot deny that this is a reality.

2- Feeling of wasting time and energy.

You feel frustrated, sad and angry. You tried to give your spouse and your relationship a chance, but nothing has changed!

You feel like you are wasting your time and energy unnecessarily.

You blame yourself for having believed it when deep down, you feel that this relationship does not bring you anything anymore.

3- Everything about him/her annoys you.

You have arrived at the stage where everything annoys you at his place, and at the slightest misstep it explodes.

Everything about him/her annoys you, even his presence. You have negative thoughts about looking at him to the point of judging him morally and physically.

You realize that the good times you have are often without him.

This is distressing, but you can no longer take a kind look at your partner.

4- The distance is established between you.

You find yourself in a situation of unsaid.

This time, there is no conflict, no shouting… Apparently nothing shows that something is wrong or that nothing is right.

However, you feel that your relationship no longer suits you. Then installs a distance between you, as if you were invisible to each other.

In appearance, your family life seems satisfactory, fulfilled, but in intimacy your life as a couple is nonexistent. Each leads his life, his activities, his hobbies on his side, but everything that constituted “the couple” his meaning and the soul of your relationship is empty.

Everything seems fine, but nothing is happening. And often those around you, your loved ones will not understand and will tell you: you have everything to be happy! They will then find you too demanding, never satisfied.

5-  You fantasize about a new life!

You can’t plan for the future with your partner. There is nothing more that motivates you, makes you want to move forward with it.

You often project yourself alone into the future, consciously or unconsciously using “I” rather than “we”.

Clearly, you dream of freedom.

Again, this is a sign that it is no longer working.

6-  What if it had to be done again?

Ask yourself the following question: If you had to do it again, would you re-choose your partner today?

If the answer is NO, it is clear that you have exhausted your vitality, well-being, and patience in your relationship!

6-  What if it had to be done again?

Ask yourself the following question: If you had to do it again, would you re-choose your partner today?

If the answer is NO, it is clear that you have exhausted your vitality, well-being, and patience in your relationship!