To maintain a solid couple relationship in the long term, it is sometimes necessary to put a little of your own. Here are some tips to put into practice for a strong and lasting love.
Love is not everything. To allow a relationship to continue, it must be maintained and solidified on a daily basis. And there are several ways to make it beefier, as experts reveal on the Bustle site.
1- Shake up your relationship
Boredom is one of the couple’s biggest enemies. To get in his way – because you shouldn’t be fooled, the routine will end up trying to interfere between you – take the lead by planning something together, something new.
Talking, but also being attentive, will allow lovers to stay close, accomplices and for a long time. Indeed, this avoids nourishing resentments accentuated by the unspoken or by the lack of listening to the other.
3- Keep your independence
For the good of your couple, it is necessary to develop each one on your side by having hobbies and activities separately but also by having time just for you. “Taking time for ourselves may seem selfish as if we avoid our partner but in reality, brief periods of loneliness recharge our batteries and allow us to give even more to our spouse and the relationship itself,” says Rachel Astarté hypnotherapist, author and life coach at Bustle.
4- Spend time with family and friends
Maintaining social relationships, seeing your loved ones regularly is both entertaining and nourishing. If we stay locked in our couple, in the long run, and even without realizing it, we will stop pulling our relationship up. In addition, seeing others act and listening to their advice can also be beneficial for the couple. Finally, having had a good time, it is revitalized and happy that we will then join our other half.
5- Put quality above quantity
No need to spend all your free time together if it is to spend it doing nothing attractive, almost forgetting that the other is by your side, caught up in the TV, your book or your smartphone. Obviously, you don’t have to do duo activities: a bit of shared calm and tranquility is also appreciated. The main thing is that this time is of quality, aware of the presence of each other.
6- Continue flirting
Just because your relationship is established doesn’t mean you don’t want to pick up on each other anymore. To be seduced is even fully advised to keep the spark in the couple and make everyday life more attractive. In addition, it will help maintain good s exual energy and a beautiful bond. What if you are planning a regular date for example?