And how will you react? How will you do without him/her in your life? Will you be able to move forward, or will you allow yourself to wither away? In short, this kind of question is recurrent within a couple. So don’t feel guilty about having these kinds of thoughts! Very often, this means that you hold dear to your darling, and hope that your story will last as long as possible! In the meantime, don’t waste your time too much with these kinds of thoughts, and enjoy the happiness that you share every day!
2 / What if our children were stupid?
This is a question often asked by couples of intellectuals, who fear that their offspring will shatter the many hopes that are placed in them! Instead of a future Einstein, Mozart, or Picasso, you fear having a toddler who spends more time trying to eat sand or pulling the tail of the neighbor’s cat … Anyway, everything a worthy parent will love their children as they are And know how to avoid putting too much pressure on your children, they will have plenty of time to grow and develop!
3 / If we separated, who would recover the TV, and the dog?
This kind of question does not mean that you risk separating! No, it is normal to imagine all the possible scenarios imaginable in your head, especially if you are the type to have a prolific imagination! Thus, all the objects that make your daily life, as well as your animals, will be screened by your questions! For my part, I will keep the dog … Then I will do everything in my power to win back my darling.
4 / What if I had a preference for one of our future children?
A rather unpleasant thought to have, and yet so common! The preference for a child concerns many parents, even if few will admit it … It is natural to feel a little more affinity towards certain people. Anyway, don’t dramatize in advance! Parent/child relationships evolve throughout life, and your preferences may vary overtime … Nothing is set in stone!
5 / Which of us will remain the most glamorous as we age?
Ahhh the question of time passing … It concerns us all without exceptions! So within a couple … You have probably already projected yourself into the future, imagining yourself wrinkled, white hair, loose teeth! And quite naturally, you try to guess which of the two of you will age best … Knowing that, whatever happens, you will continue to love your partner as on the first day!
6 / Will one of us end up becoming incontinent?
Should I then change her diapers? Do I love him enough to get there? Can I bear his moods, his rheumatism? Etc … For some, old age is almost as scary as death! Aging as a couple is an art, and it is normal to worry about your future, however distant it may be … But it’s a good thing! Indeed, this means that you are projecting yourself far enough to hope to make things last between you!
7 / would we both survive a zombie apocalypse?
Between “The Walking Dead”, “World War Z”, “Welcome to Zombieland” etc … The zombie has become fashionable again !!! And therefore inevitably, one cannot help projecting oneself and imagining oneself in an apocalyptic future filled with thirsty monsters of human brains … Would you be able to remain sufficiently united and cunning to survive? Or will you fail miserably in the first week? As an extension of this question, you are surely asking yourself many other existential and ethical questions such as “And what would I do if he/she was bitten?” »…
8 / What if he/she lived a double life?
Has it never crossed your mind? That instead of going to the office every day, your sweetheart is in fact a secret agent at the head of a super organization that fights crime? And if in fact … Sometimes it is fun to leave in a delirium a little paranoid, or downright perched, just for the pleasure of imagining frankly incongruous situations to spice up the daily grind! And then, as long as it doesn’t jeopardize your relationship…