Why be kind to be loved? Let’s face it that he/she is not always pleasant? But the truth is, a lot of us aren’t kind at all. Imagine a small child? A child is always lovable. Why? If we can’t answer this question, we’ll solve the puzzle of whether or not we are lovable.
BE KIND TO FIND LOVE
A child is innocent. Doesn’t know anything and is totally helpless. You love a child, because he/she wants you to protect him/her. You love a child because of innocence.
You like the child because of his smiley face. You love the child because the child has no mischief towards anyone.
He doesn’t want something bad for anyone. He does not point to enemies and trusts everyone.
The kid is totally free from all negative emotions. This is why we all love children.
How many of us are like this? How many of us can keep a smile on our face forever? How many of us are free from negative emotions? Not a lot.
It is agreed that we are thoughtful enough to raise the issue but you are kidding us we are not as innocent, naive as a child.
HOW TO BE KIND TO FIND LOVE?
We can however borrow some good qualities from the child.
How about forgiving your neighbor? How about not getting angry at all? How about having faith in everyone, unless proven otherwise?
How about loving everyone? How about not having too hasty judgment?
Once we acquire some of these qualities, we will become lovable. Believe me, finding love is that easy.
All your friends and colleagues will start to like you more. You will get unexpected attention.
It could be that your darling self in a short time, subjugate by your tolerance vis-a-vis the events of life.
So if you want good advice on how to be loved more or how to find love, be kind!