We can find guys. But finding the perfect guy who really suits us 100%, it’s more difficult … Yep, not easy to find Prince Charming among all the real toads … It’s often too late that we realize that ‘we would have done better to take our legs from our blows in the first months. So, to be sure you don’t realize too late that your guy is in the “toads” category, here are the questions you should ask yourself:
- Do I see myself spending my life with this man?
- Does his lifestyle suit me?
- Could he be part of my circle of friends?
- Do I see myself offering to participate in activities with my family? Will it please my friends and family?
- Am I proud to be with him?
If you answered “yes” to all of these questions, it means that you are on the right track… and that you can move on.
Then come a few more targeted questions, which it is essential to ask to know if we have found the perfect guy.
1. Does it make my life easier?
Think about it seriously. The main objective of a couple is to share a human experience with someone. Together, as a team, two people can conquer the world (well, so to speak…).
The question is whether you are a team or whether you are each on your own. So?
2. Does he have a future?
Yes, it is a very pragmatic question, but when you plan to spend your life with someone, you also have to think about the future.
I do not advise you to focus on rich men – though …;) – but rather to choose a man who has potential.
If it’s so that your guy still lives with his parents in five years, thank you! If he is not very motivated in his professional life and he is not really enthusiastic, he risks treating your relationship in the same way …
3. Do I like Him intellectually?
Are you on the same wavelength? Do you like to discuss the same things? No need to waste your time with a man who is unable to discuss what interests you. You will eventually tire.
Choose a man with whom you can have long conversations!
4. Do I like s**xually speaking?
Let’s not hide our faces, it’s better to be alone than accompanied by a man who gives us as much effect as a mop – that is to say “nothing”, or, ultimately, a slight disgust.
If you are not s**xually compatible, your couple is likely to break your face soon. Yes, s**x is essential in a relationship. It is the glue that binds two partners. So don’t neglect this aspect!
If you answered “yes” to all of these questions… Congratulations!
You’ve found the perfect guy for you, the one who suits you. But, obviously, that is not enough …
It’s up to you to keep it and preserve this bond that binds you.