After several disappointments in love, you can quickly come to question yourself. What is wrong with me? Why have all my romantic relationships failed? The problem may lie in the way you choose your partner.
Many women are afraid of celibacy. They see this period as a failure, as a testimony to their inability to be loved and accepted for what they are. Other women simply think that they cannot survive without a male presence by their side.
They feel completely lost and are afraid of being independent. They question their decisions or their choices and are not able to remain alone because they have a wrong image anchored in their heads. They think that a woman is single because she does not deserve to be loved.
But, ladies, it’s time to wake up. Women are the strongest gender! We are strong and independent. We are intelligent, thoughtful and resourceful. So why are we putting ourselves in the dark?
The period of celibacy must be reserved for work on oneself, improving one’s capacities and personal development. It should not be a time of depression or questioning. Celibacy and being alone are not negative things. On the contrary …
Knowing how to be alone means that you are able to build your own path and your own future. It is also a sign of your independence and your pride. Imagine: you can devote this time to your passions and give your life the direction you dream of without having to pay attention to what someone else thinks or wishes!
Women who are afraid of celibacy or who are just too lazy to go back to the market often choose partners who do not match them. Indeed, as they want to spend as little time as possible alone, as soon as a man they like a little flirts with them, they embark on a romantic relationship with him.
Then they wonder why they are unhappy in love. To have healthy and long-lasting relationships, you must take the time to know yourself and find out what you are looking for in a partner. And, the period of celibacy is the best time to do this.
It’s a perfect opportunity to focus on yourself and work on what you think you need to improve at home. It is only after you have fully understood what kind of person you are that you will be able to find a man who suits you.
The ideal man
You must fall in love with a man who chooses you with as much sincerity and confidence as you chose him. You should only commit if you find someone who gives you wings, a person who fights to make your couple work. After all, life is not always rosy.
The path to happiness and success is filled with traps, difficulties and discouragement. So you must fall in love with a man who is fully aware of the inner battles you are fighting but who chooses to stay with you to help you win them. You need a warrior with a heart of gold!
Your partner should be someone who accepts your dark side and shines in your light, someone who chooses to be your better half when you yourself are not feeling your best. You need a man who will remind you of how strong you are and list all of your qualities whenever you feel depressed.
You must fall in love with a man who will prove to you that you are not difficult to love. Give your heart to someone who is not going to tell you that you are weak because you feel all of the emotions very deeply and very intensely. Your man must worship your sensitive side and fight to protect him from all the hardships of this world.
Fall in love with a man who challenges you, someone who inspires you to think and feel. This partner must feed your wild side, your heart and your mind. You have to choose someone who respects the changes you make because it means that you grow and mature.
Dedicate your heart to a man who is amazed by the way you present yourself and the way you flower. You must choose someone who loves you not only for who you are but also for what you have the potential to become.
Never settle for a man who is not worthy of you or who does not deserve you. Keep learning about yourself and keep fighting to do justice to this warrior heart you have. Nourish and cultivate your passions and always seek to find out what your needs are.
When the time comes, you will fall in love with a man who will appreciate everything you represent and who will complete you in a way you could never have dreamed of. With a little patience, you will find what you deserve: a man worthy of you!
But, if you don’t take the time to think about it and continue to choose your romantic relationships over your fear of being alone, you will always find yourself in unhealthy relationships with no future. You have to stay strong and wait for the right moment, and the perfect partner, before embarking on a new romantic adventure.
If You have taken the time to know yourself well and if you have dedicated your life to your accomplishment and your happiness, you can only attract men who appreciate these qualities and who think in the same way as you. Success will therefore be there!