Here’s How You Know You Found Your Person

Think of the person who makes you laugh as if you have never heard a joke before. You burst hysterically with the most odious sniff known to mankind, but you do not feel embarrassed in the least. You feel comfortable.

Think of the person who encourages and supports your goals in good weather. You cancel your plans well in advance, but they understand your vision. So they bring you coffee and sit by your side to support your dreams. They appear when the lights are not so bright. They appear when the lows are amplified compared to the highs. They appear when the gray skies do not escape from the sun. They appear when fear trumps force.

Think of the person who can understand your insecurities without telling them verbally. The person you can tell your deepest and darkest secrets to. You feel awful, you feel embarrassed, you feel lonely, you feel weak – but you know that the words were spoken to them, whether in anger, excitement, sadness or grief, will be taken without judgment. You never even think of a millisecond before talking around them. You are free around them. You are exactly who you are.

Think of the person you don’t hesitate to introduce to anyone. Not a single thought makes you think of what they might say or what they might offend. You want them to be exactly what they are around everyone since you constantly see in them a light that illuminates your world. You are sure that their hearts value humanity and take responsibility for their actions to know that it will always make others around them feel at home.

Think of the person who looks straight in the eye and who is able to teleport into your soul. You feel the opposite of confidence and you cannot look in the mirror. This person grabs your face, your hands look deep into your eyes and you are immediately on top of the world. You know you are beautiful around them. You know they are intrigued by your being.