Ok, you’ve got your sights set on a guy you like, but you’re not sure he feels the same for you. Or maybe you’ve caught a man looking at you and wondering if he’s interested or not.
Here are my tips on whether a guy is interested and likes you.
1. OBSERVE HIS GESTURES AND LOOKS
A study shows that a woman will have more than 50 different gestures which shows that a man pleases her. For men it is much easier. They only have about ten gestures.
One of the most obvious signs is that he’s looking at you… a lot! If he pretends to look somewhere else when you catch him, then you like it!
If he’s looking you straight in the eye, that’s also a sign that he wants you. Another sign is that he touches you discreetly. For example by taking you by the arm, or by placing his hand on your shoulder.
If he’s also trying to dress up (like re-styling, for example) when you’re together, that’s a good indication that this guy likes you as well.
2. DOES HE LOOK YOU EYE-TO-EYE?
The eyes and the looks mean a lot of things. If a man looks you straight in the eye and doesn’t look away after just a few seconds, it’s in his pocket!
If you want to try and find out if he’s attracted to you, take this little test. Try to look him in the eye. If he looks away, he’s either very shy or not interested. If he looks you eye-to-eye or looks at your mouth, then he’s attracted to you.
If you catch him looking at you in secret, discreetly, that’s also a good sign. It’s a method shy men use when they don’t dare look at you directly. In this case, try to make a joke to relax him. He may look at you differently afterwards.
3. PAY ATTENTION WHEN HE TALKS TO YOU
What are men who are attracted to a woman talking about? It’s very simple, they speak for themselves. A lot of men want to impress women by talking and showing that they really are perfect.
He will “boast” that he plays football well, that he has played the guitar, etc…
It’s not just because his ankles swell. It’s just his way of trying to impress you in order to win your heart.
If he’s standing close to you when he’s talking to you, that’s a good sign too. This shows that he feels comfortable around you and that he is trying to get closer to you physically.
4. OBSERVE HOW HE REACTS WHEN YOU TOUCH HIM
A hand on a knee, a shoulder or even on the back can reveal a lot of things.
Try discreetly, or rather naturally, to touch it with your hand. You can start by just touching her hand, but also directly touching her shoulder or arm.
Watch how he reacts. If he walks away and distances himself a little, that’s not a good sign. But if he smiles, or touches you as well, that’s a very good sign. It shows that you attract him and that he is interested.
Be careful though. If you run into a shy guy, he may be startled and surprised by your advances. This does not mean that all is lost. He is just shy and it may take longer.
5. DOES HE BEHAVE DIFFERENTLY WHEN HE IS WITH YOU?
Try to observe this man when he is with other people and then when he is with you. Is he talking about the same thing? Does he have the same gestures and movement?
If a man behaves differently with you than with other people it can show that he takes you seriously and tries to do his best to show his best side.
If he also “protects” you when he is by your side, for example by standing up for yourself in a conversation, it is a sign that he loves you. He is a protective and undoubtedly romantic man.
6. ASK FRIENDS DIRECTLY
How can you be sure that a guy wants you? Go talk directly with his friends. He must have told them about you, so they know if the guy in question is attracted to or just wants to be friends with you. It’s simple, and his friends will surely tell you the truth. You can even take the opportunity to ask them what he likes so that you can have a better chance of flirting with him.
7. DOES HE GIVE YOU COMPLIMENTS?
A guy who gives compliments is a guy who gets it all. He knows that women are very receptive to this kind of romantic gesture.
If a guy compliments you on your outfit, or your new hairstyle, he’s paying attention to you and trying to win your heart. He is also a romantic man who will undoubtedly do everything to soften you.