Don’t worry, we’ve all been there.
Even though you think it’s easy, it can actually be harder than you think.
Because?
Because through WhatsApp you cannot rely on body language or social interactions to help you.
It’s just his texts, his responses, and how long it takes him to respond.
But fear not, there are certain tricks that will allow you to get a better idea of whether he loves you or not.
You just need to know what questions to ask, what to look for, and what to do.
So in this article, I’m going to go through all the different signs he likes you through text.
How to know if he loves you via Whatsapp?
See if he is always texting you on WhatsApp. If he spends several hours of the day talking to you, giving you attention, affection, and worries about you. This can be a great sign that he is really in love with you.
But there are also many other signs! So let’s start!
1. He talks about what you would be doing if you were together
Let’s be honest: this is a pretty clear sign that he likes you.
If he’s saying things like, “If I were with you right now, we’d be doing this
or “I wish I was there with you right now, we would be having so much fun!” So there’s a good chance he likes you.
Because?
Because of course, he’s thinking about being with you.
Not only that, but he WANTS to be with you.
We can all agree that feeling like spending time with someone else is a sure sign that you like that person.
2. He is using A LOT of Emojis
Now, that’s a bit of a generalization.
Clearly, some people are liberal with emojis, no matter which one.
But if you’ve seen him texting other people, or seen how he talks on platforms like Instagram and Facebook, and he seems to be using a lot of flirting emojis specifically with you, then that’s a good sign he’s interested in you. you.
So what kind of emojis is he going to use if he likes you?
The most common: the emoji with the eyes of the heart, the smiley face with ,the tongue out or the playful lips that mean a kiss.
If it looks like it doesn’t always use it’s clearly making an exception for you, that’s a great sign.
He’s trying to let you know he’s interested in more than just conversation.
Sure, you’ll laugh and try not to roleplay too much, but that’s the point – read on!
Quick note:
Beware of slippery and slippery players who flirt with every girl they can talk to
One way to find out if your guy does this is to ask one of your friends to chat with him too.
Then you can analyze how many flirting emojis he uses with them.
3. He’s in love with you
Why do men fall in love with certain women over text but not others?
Well, men do not choose women for “logical reasons”.
As dating and relationship coach Clayton Max says: “It’s not about ticking all the boxes on a man’s list of what makes his ‘perfect girl.’ The woman cannot “convince” the man to want to be with her”.
Instead, men choose women they are in love with. These women arouse a sense of excitement and desire to go after them through what they say in their texts.
Want some simple tips to be that woman?
Passion is triggered by a primal urge deep within the male brain. And although it sounds crazy, there is a combination of words you can say to generate feelings of burning passion for you.
4. He lets you know when he’s busy
He doesn’t want to miss your messages or make you worry, so he goes out of his way to let you know that he won’t be available for whatever reason.
But really, he’s probably just trying to make you jealous or use that as an excuse to ask him out together.
Hanging out with your friends?
It’s so easy to simply ask you to come along, so if you join the game, you’ll be invited in no time.
“Sounds like fun, I’d love to hang out with you guys sometime.” – casual but inviting. And then he’ll be inviting you before you know it.
5. He takes time with his texts
A lot of people don’t understand this, but stay away from the guys who give one-word answers!
Believe me, it’s not worth it.
But when a guy gives you thoughtful answers and shows he really wants to get involved, he probably likes you.
After all, when you’re on the phone, you have unlimited opportunities for what you can do and who you can talk to.
You can be watching Netflix, he can spend time chatting with any other girl, and he can be up to date with the news.
But no, he decided to spend time talking to you.
If that doesn’t indicate he likes you, then I don’t know what does.
6. He initiates the conversation
Is your man the first to text you?
So give me another five because it’s a great sign.
You don’t need to look for him – he’ll text you every morning like clockwork.
He wants you to know that it’s the first thing he thinks about and sets the tone for the day.
When you’re the one who always starts the conversation, it’s usually a bad sign that you like him more than he likes you.
See, wait for a little, and have a little patience. If he texts you first, you can bet your last dime that he’s into you.
7. He responds back quickly
Don’t you hate guys who take YEARS to answer?
Well, that’s a good thing, because they probably don’t like you.
Unless they’re desperate and trying to look nice by not texting for days.
This is more common than you might think.
But for now, imagine that if he responds right away, he definitely likes you.
He is talking and wants to spend his free time on the phone with you.
8. You spend all day texting
From breakfast to bedtime, you update each other about lunch, meetings, phone calls, and the sad Deborah from accounting at the end of the day.
You tell each other everything as if you want to share your days together in real life.
9. If a guy has a crush on you, he’ll start texting you a little differently than usual.
This kind of awkwardness usually comes out in the form of weird jokes when he’s texting.
Maybe he puts a little effort into his texts and tries to impress you by making you laugh.
It can also be used in jokes and jokes. If he’s always cracking jokes or joking around with you, then they’re definitely interested in you.
Don’t let it make him weird – just keep playing it cool and he’ll change his mind.
Once he calms down and realizes that you like him too, he will relax.
10. Is he praising you?
Compliments are a great way to know a guy’s interest. Of course, a lot of guys can give compliments when they don’t really mean it if they want to get you fired.
But if they really like you, they’ll probably start complimenting you on subtle things you might not know about.
It could be some rare photos on your Facebook and observations about your behavior.
It could be unique information about your personality or they may notice subtle changes to your hairstyle in your most recent Instagram photo.
In fact, sometimes it might not even be a compliment, but rather the fact that they noticed you changed your hairstyle or wore different makeup.
If they do, it means they are paying attention to you and probably like you.
Also, a lot of guys aren’t good at giving compliments, so pay attention and watch when he says something that could even unknowingly be seen as a compliment.
If you’ve noticed that he doesn’t really compliment others when he texts you, maybe he likes you.
11. He’s Trying To Find Out If You Have A Boyfriend
Now it’s pretty clear that if he asks you, ‘Do you have a boyfriend? ”, so he is clearly interested.
But few guys will be that direct. Instead, they will ask indirect questions to find out.
Maybe they tell you they’re single in the hopes that this will force you to say “me too”.
Or they’ll ask you things like, “Oh, so you went to the party alone?”
If you are attentive, it will be very easy to understand.
You could say you’re single and watch their reaction. If that makes the guy smile, then he’s definitely into you.
12. He remembers little things
Guys aren’t the best when it comes to remembering the little things.
So if he remembers that you threw your brother’s birthday party the night before and is asking how it went, he probably likes you.
He’s thinking about you. He wants to stay connected and develop harmony.
Most people, least of all guys, wouldn’t do that, so take this as a sign that he has sincere feelings for you.
13. What would Sigmund Freud say?
To decide if a guy likes you over text message or if he’s just playing games, you need real, honest advice.
Having studied relationships and psychology most of my adult life, I know a thing or two about this.
But why not turn to the most famous psychologist of all?
Yes, the Vienna psychoanalyst, Dr. Sigmund Freud, can tell if he likes you through his text messages.
Just take this brilliant quiz with my Ideapod friends. Answer a few personal questions and Freud himself will delve into all the subconscious questions that motivate your man to give you the most accurate (and fun) answer of all.
Sigmund Freud was a great master in understanding and attraction. This test is the best thing after talking face to face with a famous psychoanalyst.
I picked it up myself a few weeks ago and was amazed at the unique insights I received.
14. He wants to help you with your problems
Guys are problem solvers. And when it comes to a person they like, they want to find a solution to every problem they hear about.
Also, they want to impress you with their solutions.
So if you mention a problem you have and he likes you, he’ll likely do a brain scan for solutions.
A guy who likes you goes above and beyond. They will want to be your hero who saves the day.
In short
How good is your WhatsApp messaging game?
If you want a guy to love you through texting, you first need to get his attention.
But with so many distractions in the modern world and other women around, how do you really get a man’s attention?
Text messaging with attention hooks is so powerful because it taps directly into the focus system of a man’s brain. Without even realizing it, he will start thinking about you and paying attention to you.
Even if he’s miles away or you haven’t spoken in a while.
I think learning how to properly get people’s attention is important in many areas of life. But especially when it comes to relationships.
Because when a man’s attention is elsewhere, it’s impossible for him to develop deep feelings of attraction to you. Only when you have his full attention will he start to wonder what you are doing, what you think of him, and when he will be able to see him next time.
