If you want a man to respect you, you seriously need to stand your ground.
You need to give him fair reasons to respect you for you.
Otherwise, the best thing to do is break up with him and move on.
Never… Put everyone first!
If you want a man to pay attention to and respect you, you shouldn’t put everyone else before you.
Please tell me if this makes sense to you.
When you choose to ignore your man and put your friends and family in front of him, you are showing him that you don’t appreciate and respect him.
Please stop comparing yourself to other people.
No doubt girls do it all the time.
This has to do with that conversation about wanting to have what you don’t have.
Just don’t venture down this path, because you’ll have no respect for the man you’re trying to capture all of his attention.
Don’t wear too much makeup
If you’re trying to look like Pablo Vittar, you’re way out of the way if you want some positive attention from a man you want.
Most men think you’re wearing too much makeup because you’re not happy with yourself, you’re insecure, and you’re trying to hide something.
This is no good.
Other men think you’re wearing too much makeup because you’re an easy woman.
Damn it!
If you want to earn respect, you need to relax your makeup and not hide behind your mask.
Choosing makeup means you’re giving him the chance to choose not to respect you.
Not a good start to building a solid relationship for sure.
Don’t be a crybaby
One of the worst things you can do when you’re trying to earn a gentleman’s respect starts crying in front of him.
This is not allowed, regardless of how you look at it.
Crying shows that you are weak, insecure, and unable to cope with life in general.
Ask yourself if a man should want a girl who can’t handle the basics of life without drama?
Drama is not a good thing when you try to get a man to respect you, and if you’re crying, you’re showing him to his face that you’re sensitive to drama.
Just try not to cry in front of him and you’re on your way.
Here are some other tactical moves to make sure he respects you.
respect him
Without a doubt, the boys’ number one desire is the respect of that girl in their lives.
All relationship experts know this and if you don’t believe it, just ask your man!
So how do you respect someone?
All that means is being true to yourself and taking a second look at his feelings.
Don’t judge and be supportive and you’re on the right track.
Show him with your actions that you think he is important and that you are on your way to helping him respect him.
Keep your tone pleasant
Undoubtedly, women like a pleasant and inviting tone of voice.
We all want an inviting and pleasant tone when we talk, right?
A pleasant voice can only mean good things.
Make sure you give him the nice tone of voice he deserves and you’ll be fine.
Independence
Undoubtedly, guys love independence.
Just to clarify, this doesn’t mean they want to fly alone all the time, but they do like to do some things alone.
Some girls are so needy they border on madness.
Don’t forget to let your man hang out with his friends.
Do that and you’re earning a lot more than you think.
show recognition
Any man worth his salt wants a little recognition.
Take time to let the man in your life know that you realize how fantastic he is and that you want more.
Most guys don’t get the recognition for their worth that they think they deserve and that totally sucks.
Take the time to show the man that you have your eye on him and that he is important to you.
Show him with words and body language that you think he is awesome.
You are seriously primed for success from there.
be supportive
I don’t care who you are, you need support from time to time.
Let your man know that you are there for him and you will help him to the best of your ability.
Make sure he knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are on his side.
This will communicate to him that you are an amazing woman.
Without a doubt, if it’s important to your man, he wants it to be important to you too.
Make sure he knows you cover for him, no matter how crazy his idea is, that’s what loving support is all about.
He wants the trophy woman
What man wouldn’t want a super hot girl on his arm that attracts looks from every other guy in the room?
Serious…
It shows him that you care about your appearance and that you also want to be attractive for him.
No matter how much he softens to try to relieve your pressure of wanting to be physically well all the time, deep down he does want you to look good at all times.
And please understand, you don’t have to be a size zero stick supermodel to be happy.
Just put some effort into your hair, makeup, and wardrobe and you’ll dazzle him with your inner beauty.
Tip – Don’t be afraid to take off that little black dress every now and then.
Also, pay attention to what he likes to see in you and remember to wear it from time to time.
Why wouldn’t you want to wear something your boyfriend thinks makes you look hot?
Have a little fun here, but make sure you put a little effort into your overall appearance if you want to take home some respect from your boyfriend.
Offer Incentive 24 hours a day
Yes, most men like to play tough and difficult and act like they don’t need anything or anyone to succeed.
But that’s not true.
Studies show that men love and need to be encouraged by their partners.
It can even mean kicking them in the ass if they aren’t doing what they need to.
Believe in him and you will earn his love, admiration, respect, and trust for as long as you want.
Don’t be afraid to be his true mate
Truth – Guys enjoy the company of the woman they are dating.
Maybe he wants to watch a football game or just relax on the couch after work watching a movie.
In short, he likes you two relaxing.
Of course, he also needs some alone time, but that doesn’t mean he still doesn’t need to hang out with you.
You need to focus on that and look to open more doors of opportunity to spend time with him.
Trust me… this will help him to respect and adore you more.
Guys need you to admire them
Admiration is intertwined with respect.
Men really love admiration, but you need to be careful.
They want to make sure it’s not fake, it needs to be sincere.
Otherwise, this will never work.
Tell him things you really appreciate and love.
Start filling him with the nonsense that you think he wants to hear and you’re on your own.
It just won’t work.
Make the effort to appreciate
Everyone on the planet wants to feel appreciated, right?
Seriously, it doesn’t take much to show someone that you appreciate them for who they are.
It has to do with attitudes.
Never forget to have good manners and say “thank you” and tell the truth.
If he bought you flowers or took you out for coffee, you better make him feel like he just bought you a new car!
No matter the “size” of the appreciation.
What matters is that you appreciate him for the gesture of affection.
When you show him and tell him over and over again how much you appreciate your man for who he is, you earn respect.
Make him feel needed
It doesn’t matter whether or not your boyfriend knows that you want him, you need to show him whether or not he knows.
Men like to feel wanted and you need to be honest here.
If you want to kiss him, just say so.
If you’re looking for his confidence, you need to show him.
No matter what level you are at in the relationship, you just need him to know exactly what you want.
How you do this is entirely up to you, of course.
Continue with the plan
You need to do whatever it takes to show a man that he can trust you if you want to earn his respect.
And one route to do that is to follow the plan.
What does this mean?
Well, that means if you’re scheduled to go out for dinner or coffee, don’t break the appointment.
Guys don’t want a girl who can’t be trusted with these important details.
Men need to feel respected for their time, and if you’re changing plans all the time, you can’t expect him to give you the respect you want.
That makes sense, right?
Never throw a child’s tantrum
All I’m going to say here is: seriously? Do you still have a tantrum?
If you think throwing a tantrum will get you the attention and respect you want, you’re totally misinformed.
Tantrums will never in a zillion years earn you respect.
Think about that for a minute…
Have you ever seen a grown woman throw a tantrum?
Do you respect her for that?
If you want to get out of control, emotionally out of control, and throw a tantrum, it’s best to take an acting course.
Don’t be afraid to mess up
When you mess up and admit it, you’re showing your guy that you’re human and you’re willing to confess when you make a mistake and learn from it.
This is an extremely attractive feature for anyone.
Nobody wants a perfect person who knows everything and never makes mistakes.
Or rather, he never admits when he makes a mistake.
Take control and take responsibility for your blunders and you are communicating to your partner that he should love and respect you from the inside out.
Never have a child with a man to make him love you
I can say that this is the worst decision you can make.
Never try to get pregnant just to make a man love and respect you.
Just talk to the millions of single moms and ask if they made the right decision.
Never prove your love to a man or seek to gain his respect by suddenly impregnating him.
You’re on your own if you do this and I can tell you it’s a stupidly difficult path to follow.
Challenge and be a challenge
A man likes a girl who challenges him from time to time because it shows who you are and that you care what he thinks.
Just don’t go overboard on this one, because if you challenge him at all, it’ll get tiring quickly and he’ll start fighting you.
Keep everything in moderation and you’re showing him that you deserve his respect!
Please don’t try to make excuses for your mistakes
Apologies don’t get you anywhere fast, and if you’re seriously trying to capture a special man’s undivided attention, don’t you dare start making excuses for your messed-up life.
It’s not that you need to be proud of your mistakes.
But you need to be responsible because it shows your man that you are willing to accept responsibility for your messes and move forward in a positive way.
Integrity and honor will only bring you positive things in the future.
Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself
When you laugh at yourself, you’re showing everyone that you’re comfortable in your skin and that you’re nice no matter what.
Some say laughter is the key to a man’s heart.
It might be!
Don’t do every little thing your boyfriend says
Understand that the man you are with is not the king of the world!
Maybe he might be in a bad mood, but it doesn’t matter, don’t let him get away with it.
Take control and show him that you deserve his respect.
Final Words
When you’re looking to get a man to respect you, it’s important that you show him you deserve it!
And unfortunately, with many men, it takes a little effort on your part to show him that you deserve it.
* Be confident in who you are.
* Make sure you are positive and understanding.
* Show him that you will be there for him and can be trusted.
* Don’t be afraid to step out of comfort and be uncomfortable in getting comfortable.
* Don’t stay away from conflict and be a positive girl.
Get feedback from him to find out what he needs from you to give you the respect you crave.
That means you have to ask the questions so you can create a plan of action to get it.
Where there is a will, there is a way!
Keep your mind open and follow his advice.
Think positively and take steps to always try to improve yourself and your strategies to earn his respect.
If it’s meant to be, it will be.
Believe it.
Show the man you want to be with that he needs to understand and respect you for you and it will happen.
Take action today.
Good luck!
