How to stop thinking about someone you love very much

When you love someone

When you love someone that you will know just when they hit you, it is something that you will feel and it is something that you will not be able to understand. Soon, however, you will be able to live, breathe, and love the person you are with. Falling in love or falling out of love is never easy, but one thing is for sure: love makes the world go round! Love like all things in life has its ups and downs. It is notable for the great efforts we go through to test and keep our lovers within our grasp. We show our loved ones that we love them through meaningful actions and acts of love. These acts of love vary from one to another, but all involve expressing our affection and love through emotions, physical actions, or forms of support. Something that you will definitely notice that you are doing when you are in love is changing, hopefully for the better, of course. (Those who are affected otherwise sorry. I’m sure that amongst all the clutter and darkness you will find the light at the end of the tunnel.) Wonderful and chaotic, love is just beautiful overall. You learn a lot of lessons and honestly a lot about yourself, regardless of whether your experience with love is positive or not.

The signs

Just like there are signs of falling in love, there are also signs of falling in love. Sometimes these tough times during a relationship are never pretty or easy, but we all get through. Stop and think for a second about your current relationship, about your special someone. Are you happy? Most people begin to notice that they are no longer happy with their relationship and partner when they start to wander. These could be your eyes, your mind, your heart. This person is no longer the center of your attention. You start to wander and wonder. You wander through different places and people. You wonder about all the possibilities and results that could take place if you were no longer in your current relationship. A great sign I would pay attention to is giving us space. Everybody needs their “I Time” from time to time, But if you constantly distance yourself and basically don’t want to be around your girlfriend or boyfriend… I mean, come on. You don’t really feel them anymore. Another sign is the fact that you want to cheat on your partner. I honestly feel that if someone wants to cheat and throw away their relationship, that means the person doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. It’s plain and simple and that person should move on. Please be civil and peacefully withdraw from that relationship. Let someone else try to love each of you as you deserve. Keep in mind that these are just some of the obvious signs and that everyone is in a different situation. It may take someone longer than others to realize and determine if someone or a relationship is healthy and positive for them. It’s not easy to let go of someone you care so much about


Time to start focusing on yourself

Now that you have come to the conclusion that you are no longer in love with your partner, you should go ahead and focus on yourself. Stop everything you are doing now and reevaluate your life. You must be in a crazy and chaotic state of mind with so many emotions and thoughts running through your mind, it is almost as if the world is against you more than it is with you. Don’t worry dear, because things will really change once you stop being depressed. Start focusing on yourself and what makes you happy and content. A good place to start is to ask yourself, what do you love? What makes you happy? etc. Someone like you deserves all the time in the world to heal yourself and your wounds. So please, try not to worry about wanting to let go and stop worrying about others and what they may be thinking. It’s okay to be selfish sometimes, especially when you’re hurt. How else do you think you will ever improve? It is important to think of yourself in general and put yourself first in the necessary situations. It is healthy even. It’s the only way to stay sane.


Helpful Tips on How to Stop Thinking About Someone You Love Very Much

Getting over someone is never easy, much less taking the necessary steps and actions to stop thinking about them. Stopping thinking about someone you love is like quitting a bad habit. Old habits die hard. Don’t you think? Loving someone with all your heart leads to you and more. Trust me, I know. The hardest part is realizing that they are not good for you or that you are, in fact, not good for them. It hurts to know and it hurts, even more, to have to let go, to be honest, it won’t stop hurting for a while. On the positive side, there is always something or someone who can fix or ease the pain, and the process moves on. In fact, there are things you can do to prevent yourself from thinking of someone. It is better to keep your mind occupied and occupied with other things that do not include the person you love. Focus on something else and that person won’t even cross your mind. Here are some helpful tips and ideas on how to stop thinking about someone you love very much.

Look for closure

Sometimes closure is all it takes to stop thinking about someone you love. No matter the situation, if you want to stop thinking about them, all you need is a simple explanation. Talk about what happened between the two of you. Come to an agreement on why you need to go your separate ways and why it didn’t work out. Some of this information may hurt, but it’s better to know to move on.


Don’t pretend you have memory loss

How crazy is it to act like this person never existed? Pretty crazy if you ask me and I even know that sometimes it hurts to say this person’s name. It always kills the mood, but this person is still detached from your memory and is part of your life story. You will never be able to erase this person completely, no matter how hard you try. You can block this person on social media, you can record all the images you have of the two of you burned together, or you can try to remove them from your life, but it’s difficult. Your friends may ask about him or her and you will act like you have no idea who they are, but of course, you still do. Only the sound of their name brings back memories because they were once a part of you and who you were, but not anymore. Seriously or not, you let them into your life and there is no going back. From here you can only move forward and it is wonderful once you remember to do it. Stop being mean and angry and appreciate the lessons you learned, the memories you created, and the moments you had with this person. Accept it for what it was, let it be, and move on.

Find someone else to think about

Sometimes it is better to think of others in difficult times like this. Whether it’s another romantic love interest, your family or friends don’t hesitate to hang out and enjoy. Socialize with others to keep your mind from wandering to that person you are trying to forget and not thinking about.


Don’t stay idle

A wise person once told me that an idle mind is the devil’s playground. Make sure you do your best to keep busy because you will most likely stop thinking about this person and you will soon be able to move on with your life. Pick a new activity, visit new places, or host a holiday event. Find a comfortable chair in the library and immerse yourself in a new book. Do what you have to do to avoid the blues and stop negative thinking.

Remember this too will pass

Nothing is forever and this is something you must understand to move on with your life. Look and think on the bright side and eventually, this will be considered part of your past. It will no longer affect you and that is why you should not let it affect you. Just think of it as a video game, something or someone that you have to beat and pass to get to the next level of your life.


Send love, kindness, and positivity

Always send love, kindness, and positivity to the person you love but want to stop thinking. No matter what harm or pain they have brought or caused you, you should never wish negative things on anyone. It is best to let the past be past and go your separate ways peacefully. Wish them well, but know for future reference that you must not associate with that being again.

It gets better

These words are from a line from my favorite Pat The Bunny song: “But it gets better. It gets better. It gets better. Honey, it gets better, I promise. ”Don’t worry my sweet, it will get better in time, and so will you. None of us like change, but change is good. It can be a bit scary at first and you may think that you can’t get over someone that significant, but you can, and you will. You lived your life without before and you certainly have the courage to do it again!


Stop and smell the roses

After all the chaos, sadness, and drama, I think we can all agree that it’s time to stop and smell the roses. It is a beautiful day outside, you are alive, you are fine and you are breathing. Why not go outside for a moment to reflect on the events in your life? You’ve been through too much to be locked up anyway, so think of it as another positive step you should take to heal your pain. I know you probably think it might be a bit selfish to celebrate, but if you really think about it, all of this can only offer positive possibilities. You don’t have to think twice because it is definitely a gift from the universe. Abundance and prosperity come to you when you set out. Be prepared for life to leave you speechless and in awe for the next few months and, please remember to be patient. Think of the little things that make your day-to-day so happy and content. For example, be sure to stop and smell the roses. Seriously, stop and smell the roses, or even buy yourself some roses. After all, they are beautiful, and you are beautiful too.