I want a man who does whatever is necessary to be with me

I have often dealt with men who made the minimum living to keep me while pretending to want to be with me. I am not difficult to live with and I do not ask for the moon; I’m just looking for a man who I really like and who makes a real effort to testify. I honestly don’t think it’s asking too much!

1. I AM TIRED OF MAKING EFFORTS FOR THOSE WHO DO NOT DESERVE IT.

I’m tired of taking risks by allowing men to take over me and take advantage of my sincere kindness. I would be more than happy to do my best to make a man who deserves to smile, but so far this guy has not shown up. I spent a lot of energy doing things for the bad boys and I can only imagine what I would be able to do for someone who deserves it. He will be lucky!

2. I WANT A MAN WHO SHOWS HIS LOVE TO ME BY HIS ACTIONS.

I’m tired of beautiful speakers who sell me a perfect future that doesn’t really exist. From now on, I want him to show me by his actions that he is worth it – I can recognize the good.

3. I WANT REAL BUTTERFLIES IN THE BELLY.

I want to wake up every morning full of joy and enthusiasm because I know for sure that the man I hang out with is really interested in me. I want my days to start with “Hello my beauty” messages – or better yet, I want to wake up next to a man who spent the night with me, kissing my forehead and saying hello to my beauty in person.

4. I KNOW HOW TO RECOGNIZE THE COMEDIANS WHO SAY JUST ENOUGH TO HAVE WHAT THEY WANT.

I lived and learned and I know exactly how the comedians work – and I’m done with them. If a man looks too perfect or leaves me without news for several days hoping that I will still remain at his disposal, he is wrong. I have no time to waste with assholes unable to take charge and make a real effort to go out with me.

5. I DESERVE A MAN WHO SHOWS THE SAME AFFECTION AND THE SAME EFFORTS AS THOSE THAT I TELL HIM.

I am an incredibly sweet and caring girlfriend. When I go out with a boy, I give him my full attention and my loyalty. If he does not show me similar respect, loyalty and affection, I escape by taking my legs to my neck. I am beyond this type of small games.

6. I WANT A GENUINE AND SUSTAINABLE LOVE, NOTHING LESS.

I am looking for a man who wants a real future. No bullshit like “come what may” or “we’ll see.” I am looking for a man who is an adult, who wants love in his life and who has projects for him and for the one who will accompany him. I’m tired of half-counting – I want to be important or nothing else.

7. IF IT IS NOT EXCEPTIONAL, IT IS NOT WORTH THE PENALTY I INVEST.

If I’m not crazy in love, if it doesn’t make me lose my head, if it doesn’t give me butterflies in my stomach, if I’m not impatient to find it, if it’s not intense, why bother? Life is far too short to waste time in a poor relationship. I invest a part of myself, my time and my heart and he has an interest in deserving each piece of what I have to offer.

8. I’RE TIRED OF THE FAINANTES.

The plans where we organize an outing every two weeks and where I am treated as a ridiculous option, it’s over. And I’m tired of having to explain it to this type of men. Do whatever is necessary or return to the sidelines. Better yet, go back to the locker room, pack your bags and go – you are no longer an asset to my team if you are unable to give the best of yourself.

9. I AM READY TO WAIT FOR THE GOOD BOY.

I have come to a point where I am no longer impatient in my confusing and exhausting quest for love – I want something worth the wait. And in the meantime, I will live for myself and will not allow a lazy person, whatever it is, to exhaust my energy. If a man wants a chance to be with me, he has to do whatever is necessary.