The difference between the man who really loves you and the man for whom you are just one more girl
We tend to complain a lot about how men treat us. Our exes did not always appreciate our qualities, they did not give us the support we wanted. These men put us in the background and put their needs first.
Sometimes they were selfish, jealous or they liked to control us.
But do not generalize. We tend to forget the little things that some have done for us. They made us laugh when we were sad, they encouraged us when we had lost hope. They were generous and helped us move forward in life.
Thanks to them, we keep faith in the male gender and we are still looking for Prince Charming.
We have therefore chosen to explain to you how a man who knows what you are worth will behave towards you.
1. He always brings you home
Whether it is near or far and whatever the hour, it will always take you to your door. He makes it a point to give you a feeling of security: he wants you to feel protected!
This kind of man is an example for others. This type of person will walk on the curb that is closest to the road and behind you in the crowd to monitor what others are doing. He wants you to have a feeling of comfort.
2. He listens to all your inconsistencies
Here’s the raw truth: women talk way too much and men don’t listen enough! That is why we are often in the situation where we ask him if he remembers a conversation we had a few days ago.
Generally, he does not remember and does not even know what we are talking about, so we have the feeling of not being valued.
While this kind of man will try to listen to you and show you that he could have been anywhere and with anyone but that he chose to be by your side. He will listen to you sincerely!
3. He calls you after spending the night with you
Unlike others, it does not go away after spending the night with you. He will call you the next morning to check how you are doing.
Even if things don’t go as planned, or if it was only for one night, it will show you the respect that all women deserve.
4. He is not afraid of commitment
This man is mature enough to understand the importance of commitment when he met the woman of his dreams. He does not feel that his freedom is endangered or that he has not enjoyed life enough so far.
When he meets a worthwhile woman, he is not afraid to enter into a serious and stable relationship. Monogamous relationships do not scare him.
5. He strongly believes in girl power
He doesn’t think women should be the stronger gender; moreover, he does not believe that his strong exists. But, at least he doesn’t say “women can’t do that”. He is the kind of person who sees women as their equals and who will not tell them what they can and cannot do.
Even if sometimes we are aware that we cannot do certain things, we do not like that a man reminds us. This man has understood this well and will not point the finger at your weaknesses.
6. You can count on him
He is only a phone call away. This man is going to be more present than your best friend. You don’t have to tell him what’s wrong, he’s there near you as soon as he feels you’re not okay.
You don’t even have to explain your feelings or why you are sad; he will understand everything and support you. And that’s the kind of man you need in your life.
7. He doesn’t make empty promises
You can trust him when he promises you something, he will keep his word. He knows how important it is to you and that he will break your heart if he does not respect his words.
He will not commit to doing something he cannot: he will not promise you the moon if he is not 100% sure he can get it!
8. He is kind to everyone (especially the elderly and animals)
Oh my God! Nothing can melt a girl’s heart more than a man who has all imaginable qualities and who, aside from that, remains humble and likes to help others.
Who is not attracted to a guy who frees up a niche in his busy schedule to volunteer in a retirement home? Who does not love a man who collects an injured animal?
9. He makes you laugh
All women love men who can joke. They appreciate their sense of humor because it dazzles their day. they need this kind of man to make difficult times more acceptable.
This positivity is essential for leading a healthy and joyful life.
10. He helps you believe in yourself
This man can work miracles when it comes to your confidence, your self-esteem or how you are going to achieve your goals. He will be there to support you and help you have faith in yourself.
His words will inspire you. They will allow you to find the strength to fight and walk with your head held high. Even when everything seems to go wrong, one look from this man will put you back on the right track.
11. He lets you be yourself
Even when you behave like a child or when you are stubborn, he sees the innocence behind your facade. He sees you as you really are and that is why he is able to forget your little faults.
He will always love you as you are and not the ideal idea he may have of you. He doesn’t want to change you.
This kind of man makes the relationship much more beautiful and pure. We even say that it is worth having our heart broken once or twice if it will allow us to finally find a rare pearl like this one.
If your man does nothing like this, ask yourself the question: is he really in love?