Having trouble letting yourself be loved is not what you think. She is neither difficult, demanding, nor mean, she is just complicated and she has been injured in the past. She needs to know that you are different and this is why you will hold out until she trusts you:
1. SHE WILL REQUIRE YOU TO BE BETTER OF YOURSELF
No, it will not make your life easier but it will greatly improve it. She wants to be at her best so she expects the same from her partner. She will never lose faith in you, your potential and your dreams. She believes in you even when it’s hard and when you believe it no longer.
2. SHE WILL MAKE YOU RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR ACTS.
We relax and easily give up on our goals when no one “watches” us. The best thing about a partner who finds it hard to be loved is that they are more concerned with doing what is right for you rather than just being content all the time. If by being a little harsh with you, she knows you can excel in the long term, she will be.
3. SHE HAS DIFFICULT THINGS AND SHE NEEDS YOU GIVE IT MORE THAN AVERAGE EFFORT.
She finds it hard to let herself be loved because she has been hurt many times. You too would be careful if you had experienced the same thing. Yes, it will expect a lot from you, especially at first, but it is definitely worth it.
4. SHE WILL NOT STOP FIGHTING FOR YOUR LOVE.
Once you have earned her trust, respect and love, she will be by your side forever. She is well aware of the value and rarity of a good man who appreciates her. She is there for the duration of the trip, as difficult as crossing the finish line can be.
5. SHE TAKES TIME TO GIVE TRUST BUT TRUST IS WORTH IT.
Yes, it will take time to open up to you. But honestly, with someone worth it, it always is. It doesn’t open to anyone so the fact that it allows you access means that you are sharing something special together. Know how to appreciate the value of their trust and respect it.
6. ONCE YOU SHOW HER SINCERITY, SHE WILL ALWAYS BE LOYAL TO YOU.
Yes, it will be difficult for her to take you seriously. When you are frustrated, try to see things from their point of view. If countless guys had let you down, you’d do the same. Continue to prove to her that you are here to stay and believe me, the reward will far exceed the effort.
7. SHE WILL ALWAYS TELL YOU THE TRUTH, EVEN IF IT IS DIFFICULT.
It will not sweeten the truth or just tell you what you want to hear. She really cares about you, enough to get to the point. It’s the best thing we can do for you, even if it upsets you and she knows it. At times, you may hate her for that but you will eventually realize that she is right.
8. SHE HAD TO MANAGE ENOUGH DIFFICULT THINGS TO BECOME CAREFUL, BUT SHE WAS ALSO LEARNED A LOT.
At first it will be difficult to gain affection, but once you do, you will have won a partner who will know how to love you. She made a lot of mistakes but now she knows the value of a good man when he shows up.
9. SHE WILL CREATE IN YOU DEPTHS OF WHICH YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW THE EXISTENCE.
She finds it hard to let herself be loved simply because she is not like other girls. She is wild and intense, honest and vulnerable. Once you pierce these parts of it, it will open your mind so much that you will be shocked at it yourself – and stunned by your own abilities.
10. SHE KNOWS THAT EVERYTHING WORTH PENALTY REQUIRES A JOB.
She is fully eager to make the effort necessary for an extraordinary relationship – she just needs to be sure that your whole heart is engaged. This is why, at the start, she finds it hard to let herself be loved, but keep trying; you will get everything you hoped for and much more.
11. SHE IS COMPLICATED BUT THIS IS WHAT MAKES IT DIFFERENT.
Yes, she is not like the other girls. She knows how to preserve her autonomy and independence while investing herself deeply with someone. She is not perfect but she knows exactly who she is. Once you have crossed its barriers, you will have a very special person in your life.
12. HER PENALTY AND VULNERABILITY ARE DEEPLY ANCHORED IN IT BUT IT IS WORTH YOUR PATIENCE.
Breaking its shell is difficult – it has spent years building it, protecting itself from those who did not understand or appreciate it. This is what makes it hard for her to let herself be loved because at the beginning, it is difficult to see who she is really at the bottom. Keep trying and be interested in it.
13. SHE KNOWS THAT IT DESERVE A DEEP LOVE BECAUSE IT IS WHAT IT HAS TO OFFER IN RETURN.
It is in no way superficial and will wait for depth from you. Loving it will take a long time, but it’s normal – who really wants superficial love? She will demand from you what she deserves.
14. SHE WILL SUPPORT YOU AS LONG AS YOU WILL BE IN HER LIFE.
Once you have accomplished the necessary work and gained her confidence and her affection, you will no longer have to be worried that she will tire of you. If you have her heart, it is because she has yours and she is sure of it. You will no longer need to stress about anything once you have it by your side.
15. SHE WILL REWARD YOUR PERSEVERANCE OF THE LOVEST LOVE YOU HAVE EVER KNOWN.
Yes, She is complicated to love. Tearing down the walls she built is, in a way, the most difficult job you will ever have to do in your life. On the other hand, if you give up and go, you will lose a truly extraordinary love. Hang in there and thank you for doing it.