In modern relationships, these things shouldn’t flatter you

Don’t be flattered by the one who loves your family’s photo.

Be flattered by the guy who wants to meet them.

Don’t be flattered by the guy commenting on a selfie.

Be flattered by the guy who always makes you feel beautiful to the point that you don’t need validation from someone else.

Don’t be flattered that he liked your profile photo that you changed.

Be flattered by the guy who wants to change your love status.

Don’t be flattered by the fact that you both swiped your profile right and you had a match.

Be flattered by the guy who doesn’t need an app to confidently take the lead.

Don’t be flattered and keep calm if he sent you a flower or heart emoji.

Be flattered by what he sends, like your favorite flowers to show that he cares about you.

Do not be flattered that he answers and does not make you wait only a little while.

Be flattered by the guy who responds immediately.

Don’t be flattered by a conversation of more than an hour.

Be flattered if this happens IRL.

Don’t be flattered if he sees your post first.

Be glad he doesn’t need it because you’re together.

Don’t be flattered when he says he misses you.

Be flattered when he shows up at your door because he couldn’t take it anymore.

Don’t be flattered that he took the time to text you.

Texting takes 3 seconds.

Be flattered that he took the time to see you.

Don’t be flattered that he said hello.

Be flattered that he wanted to wake up next to you to say it.

Do not be flattered that he was the first to wish you a happy birthday.

Be flattered when he wants to spend the day with you.

Don’t be flattered to have this relationship over the phone.

Be flattered by the person who makes you forget to watch it.

Because the right kind of relationship is not being bonded and bonded over the phone.

It’s just two people who connect emotionally, not virally.

These are two people who choose to prove that the other person counts.

And they show it by more than a “like”.

Don't be flattered by the guy commenting on a selfie