It is almost impossible to escape the need to find your own soulmate, the person for a long-term relationship or a partner that you will marry in the future, especially since fairy tales are all around you: from books and movies to loving couples in the city parks Whatever you do, your whole life has the feeling of being on a mission to find the right one and marry him one day. It doesn’t even help the fact that you are probably in the years when all your friends and acquaintances announce an engagement, and wedding photos are blocking your social media profiles. That’s when anxiety kicks in. In trying to find “the right one,” you are prone to lowering your standards. But keep in mind that you cannot be in a relationship or even marry someone,
Unmistakable signs to look for
1. You weren’t looking for him
Nothing comes into our life when we seek it, so relax. Your life partner will only appear from somewhere in your life as if the two of you are connected by destiny. Maybe you already know him, but you still don’t know that he is the one for you.
2. Always honest with each other
If a dress does not hold you well, your true love will be sincere to tell you. But he won’t tell you to offend you, but because he wants you to look beautiful. He will also tell you honestly what he thinks about your friends, and admit that he ate fries that you were looking for in drawers at night. And you also have the freedom to tell him everything honestly.
3. He knows how to make you laugh
You had a bad day at work or maybe a fight with a friend/family member, and the last thing on your mind is putting a smile on your face. But with a partner who is “the one” for you, you will feel relaxed, content, and comfortable. He is the person who knows how to make you laugh at any moment, even if you had a bad day or were feeling depressed or anxious. With him, you are always natural.
4. He listens to you
Before a man opens his heart, he must open his ears. If your man wants to be with you in the long run, he will listen to you well when you need him. He will listen to your problems and will not ignore you, just because some of your problems are too big. Even if you don’t know the solution, it will try to help you solve the problem.
5. Try to make you happy
A real man is someone who tries to make his partner happy and wants to get closer to her. It is related to the feeling and cares for others that a person may or may not have in himself. The true man is the one who respects you, your character and individuality, and who solves your problems with you, not your mother or friends. Women want men who carry a lot of themselves and know how to enjoy life, but it doesn’t have to be proof that he’s the one for you. If he is unhappy, you are also unhappy and vice versa. The right person will go out of their way to make you happy because if you have a bad day, their day will be bad too. Their connection is so powerful that they are experiencing emotions together.
6. The only one for you is someone you really know
What are their flaws and can you live with them? What kinds of behaviors will you tolerate (for example, smoking or obsessing over a bucket), and which ones simply cannot be tolerated? Remember that in a few years it will not be significantly different and that you cannot change it. You must have realistic expectations and accept that a real man does not mean an ideal person because that does not exist. Even if some of his habits bother you, think carefully, do you really feel like you can’t be with him? And keep in mind that it is not perfect, and that, especially if he is aware of it, he tolerates it. And tolerance is a sign of love. The true sign … The only one for you is someone you really know, knows their flaws, and can live with them for the rest of your life.
7. You two are very compatible
They are personally compatible with each other and understand each other without saying a word, then he is most likely the one for you.
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8. The relationship is relaxed.
Together with the real man for you, you will almost always be relaxed, careless, you will feel perfect in your skin and you will never have to play and pretend. Of course, you must have confidence, self-assurance, and have a positive energy that will affect the relationship. Once you find a partner who suits you, natural chemistry defines your relationship. You don’t need to force, pull, or repair something for the relationship to work well. The relationship brings you lightness and relaxation, and you become aware not only of yourself but also of those around you.
9. You don’t have to change who you are
If you need to change so that he loves you, then he is not the right person for you. You need to feel good in your skin when you are with your partner. With him, you should feel good and he should encourage you to be a better person. If your partner does not feel good about your company, it will be difficult for him to change that.
10. You trust
When you trust a partner, you open your relationship to many opportunities. Without trust, the relationship cannot develop and is doomed to fail. To trust a partner, you must believe that he is trying and wants the best for you. The secret to trusting is not the partner’s expectation of being perfect. Maintaining realistic expectations is the key to understanding your roles. You will know that you have found your life partner when going out at night with friends is not a problem. ‘The one’ will believe that you will do nothing to hurt him, just as you will go to sleep carelessly when he goes out with friends.
11. He improves your life
Falling in love should work productively in your quality of life. “The one” should encourage you to have dreams and wishes. A good partner will support you in your professional, private, and spiritual life.
12. You have a lot in common
You have common and unique spiritual, social, financial, and economic attitudes, and this creates your companionship. If you can’t agree on basic values, you probably won’t walk away. It is not enough that they are together. You need to want to develop the relationship together.
Pay attention to their behavior towards you
13. He makes sacrifices for you
A true man will regard sacrifice as an honor, not a burden. When he wants to give you something that belongs to him, before you ask for it, you will know that he wants to have a serious relationship with you. If administered with the heart, you do not consider yourself a victim, but rather by investing in a common future. Whether it’s time, money, or energy, he will provide you with what you need.
14. You are part of his world
When you meet his family, work colleagues, and friends, you will see who he really is. If he wants a serious relationship, he will not only want you to be part of his world, but he will open the way for you to enjoy his world, along with his friends and family.
15. takes care of you
Don’t mix this with spoiling. He shows you with his behavior that you mean a lot to him. Whether you cook dinner or massage his feet, you show him your affection and take care of him.
He does these things for you
16. He supports you
As much as your dreams may not be realistic, ‘the real one’ will support you in their realization. When you go to study for the exam at midnight or prepare a project for a job, he will be with you to encourage you and help you overcome your anxiety, because he believes in you and knows that you can do it. that. When you look at your life, you will realize that your person has always pushed you forward and helped you progress. He will be the one who will keep you by the hand on the road to success.
17. Besides being your lover, he is your best friend
In addition to giving you indescribable romantic pleasures, the right one for you will also be your best friend, who will always be with you.
18. You have created your best memories with him
When you return to the past, the most precious moments in your life will be those that you have spent with the chosen one. Best of all, after that, you will even create countless wonderful memories.
19. They accept each other’s strange habits
Snoring, biting your nails, or gnashing your teeth – he will accept all your weird habits. Your bad or strange habits will not be repulsive to him, but unique.
20. You wouldn’t be the same without him
When you find the right one for you, your life will change. You will not change your personality because he will love you as you are, but you will change your vision of the world. You wonder how you could live without it.
You have been in a relationship for a while and you still feel the butterflies in your stomach when you are with him, but not sure if he is the right man for you? There is a lot of risk in love, so watch these 20 signs in time that will tell you that you are on the right track with your partner. Let’s be honest: even if your partner is perfect, sometimes you will wonder, “Is he really the man I want to spend the rest of my life with?” “Do I want to marry him” or “Isn’t this all a big mistake?” So put your anxiety aside and use the few tips above in this article, which are sure to help you find out if he’s the right man for you.