Many marriages end because of ingratitude.
Over time, couples forget to appreciate the little things in life. But being grateful every day helps couples in love stay happy.
Observe and appreciate the things your husband does to help you see what really matters, instead of focusing on his flaws (what everyone else has). Your spouse is the most important person in your life, so be aware of all the things they do for you and thank them.
No one is perfect, but if your husband does these 15 things, he’s a really great husband:
1. He simplifies complicated life
He offers solutions and seeks to avoid conflicts.
2. He helps you maintain the house
He washes the dishes and takes care of the children without you asking him to.
3. He comforts you when you are sad
He doesn’t like to see you upset and goes out of his way to help you get better.
4. He loves your smile
He tries to see your smile every day.
5. He remembers the holidays
He is always up to something special for the holidays that are important to you.
6. He helps you be better
He does not accept that you put yourself down. Instead, he helps you build your confidence and encourages you to pick yourself up when you are discouraged.
7. He laughs at your jokes
… Even when they’re not funny.
8. He believes you
He knows you are being honest with him.
9. He laughs with you
He makes you laugh and you have fun together.
10. He values your feelings
He always takes into account how you feel.
11. You feel loved
You know you are the love of his life.
12. He trusts you
He does not doubt your actions.
13. He is loyal to you
He has nothing to hide. You have access to everything in his life and you know what he is doing.
14. He knows your tastes
He knows your favorite chocolate, the kind of movies you like to watch, and your hobbies.
15. He leaves you time for yourself
If you want to hang out with your friends, get a new haircut, or watch a movie, he doesn’t mind. He knows that sometimes you need to be alone.
