Winning over our partners every day and worrying about their concerns can be one of those proofs of love that will help keep the relationship alive.
At the start, everything is euphoria and passion. But when this phase passes, it is important to strengthen the couple relationship by showing love.
We all sometimes “predict” the failure or breakdown of a relationship other than our own. This is because with the right perspective things look a lot clearer.
However, when it comes to our own relationship, we are pretty blind and lost. With the following proofs of love, we can strengthen our relationship as a couple.
How is communication going in the couple?
One of the pillars of any relationship is communication. However, even today, in couples considered to be monogamous, there is a significant lack of interaction between the two members of the couple.
It is one of the most important proofs of love. Without communication, there is no trust. It should be honest communication and not communication based on the following examples:
- We say ‘yes’ to things and then, at the last moment, the answer is ‘no’. For example, having a child, getting married …
- We have a desire for others and may even, if given the opportunity, be unfaithful. But we do not communicate these wishes to our partner.
- One of the couple expects the other to change certain attitudes, although they do not clearly show this. He expects him to realize it for himself (to read his mind).
These are just a few examples of a great lack of communication. And this can lead to many conflicts and other issues within the couple.
We don’t have to be afraid to communicate with our partners. But this is normal, because our reference models have always failed in this regard.
The proofs of love in the small details
Another of the proofs of love that we can give to our partner is related to the details. It is not about material details, but rather about other types of details.
It is true that some people find it difficult to show their love in public, kissing, hugging or even giving their partner a hug.
However, a look that says it all. An unexpected phone call during a break from work to tell your partner how much you think of him or her. A mischievous message, chocolates or that flower that he or she loves so much …
There are a lot of details that show how much we love the other person. Without these details, the magic is lost, the love is not watered, and in the end, it eventually dries up.
The couple relationship does not require a lot of effort. But, sometimes the accommodation and not having to win over our partner because we already have it, makes you forget the little details.
In fact, a couple must win back each other every day with proof of love. Because we have nothing insured. Because you have to strengthen your relationships and, among them, you also have to strengthen the couple relationship.
The litmus test
This is the last of the proofs of love that we are going to talk about. But it’s not about how the work went or how the kids are doing. It is about being concerned with how the partner feels.
When you really love someone, you care about their emotions. We want that person to be doing well and, if they are not doing well, they have our ears to listen to them and, at least, to let off steam.
However, sometimes we become selfish. We become so aware of our own concerns that we forget to care about our partner.
We fall into mundane conversations about work, everyday problems, routines, family. But what about feelings?
Relationships aren’t strong just because there is love. Love cannot handle everything. It is a feeling that must be cured through communication, listening, understanding, caring, sincerity, and attention to small details.
It all pays off to build a solid foundation and therefore a healthy relationship.