Even if it does not seem to be the case at first glance, the truth is that this girl is quite simple and easy to live with.
She is just aware of what she needs, what she wants and what she expects, and she will not lie to you or herself about it.
Of course, an immature man will find it too demanding. A bastard will find her too needy.
A manipulative asshole will confuse his independence with self-centeredness. A player will confuse his desire for engagement with despair.
Yes, a boy will find it too difficult . He will think that she is asking for too much and that no man can ever meet all his needs.
He will think that she has standards that are too high and that she breaks too easily.
Let her play the hard part just because she needs everyone’s attention and wants to be chased after her.
None of this is true, however, and only a real man will be able to see it.
A real mature man will see this girl as a strong woman and aware of her value; like a woman who knows what she wants and who refuses to settle for less than she deserves.
He will see that deep inside her, behind all this hard exterior, hides a vulnerable little girl.
That behind all this strength hides a girl who is afraid of exposing her weaknesses. Behind this cold appearance hides a kind and caring heart.
The truth is, this girl wants to be loved more than anything in the world. And more importantly, she wants to be certain of this love.
She doesn’t need you to offer her luxurious dinners, or impress her with big romantic gestures.
She does not expect you to completely neglect your life just because it is part of it now or to forget the person you were before meeting her.
She does not want you to change the essence of your personality just to match her standards or to become someone you are not just for her to love you more.
It doesn’t need you to go against your principles or follow it blindly.
That said, another thing she doesn’t need is to doubt your intentions and question your emotions.
Instead, she wants someone who entered her life with the intention of staying – a man who will give her a love she can count on, no matter what.
You see, this girl is not going to rack your brains to find out if you care about her and try to decode your conflicting signals.
She has no intention of wasting her energy on a relationship with no future and for a man who does not take her seriously.
I know it may sound cliché, but the truth is that the only way to impress this girl is with small gestures.
You can do this by texting her good morning and good night, remembering important dates, noting when she did something with her hair.
By holding her hand and showing her that you are there when she needs you most. By wiping away her tears and doing your best to make her smile.
You can do this by surprising her from time to time without a special occasion, asking her about how your day went, taking care of her when she is sick, and just being there.
Yes, it’s that simple. I know you assume you have to move mountains to win this girl’s heart, but the truth is that she doesn’t need big gestures.
What she needs is someone who will give as much as she does.
What she needs is a shoulder to lean on when she needs support, a pair of hands to grab her when she’s about to fall, and arms to hold her when she needs comfort.
What she needs is a heart that will love her, and a man who will not be afraid to show it.
