When The Pisces Man Ignores You (5 Reasons)

Is there a special Pisces in your life who constantly ignores you?

Maybe it’s a potential love interest – or even worse, a boyfriend or husband – who’s suddenly gone cold?

If so, read on because this guide explains the top reasons a Pisces might be ignoring you, plus what you can do about it.

Why is the Pisces man ignoring me?

1. He’s Being Overly Sensitive.

We need to remember that Pisces is a Water Sign before we start looking at what we mean when a Pisces ignores you.

Water signs are incredibly sensitive to the emotions of others.

Water signs are intuitive and empathetic.

They are deep thinkers and spiritual beings.

Your feelings can be as deep as a bottomless ocean.

Pisces are dreamers too and their abstract thoughts can feel like a refreshing wave from the ocean of possibilities.

They may have supernatural abilities and will often know what you are thinking without you saying anything.

However, despite daydreaming and fantasizing about the future, these ultra-sensitive personalities need to feel safe.

Think of water without a container or cap.

He scatters and runs away.

So it is with Pisces.

They crave the enveloping comfort of Earth signs such as Capricorn, Taurus, or Virgo.

Water nourishes the Earth and in the right amount brings new life with new possibilities.

But water dampens Fire signs like Aries, Leo and Sagittarius.

Water combined with Air signs like Gemini, Libra and Aquarius can be destructive.

Imagine the powerful forces of water and air together in a tsunami.

So why is it important that Pisces is a Water sign when it comes to why he is ignoring you?

It’s all a matter of your sensitivity and emotional state of mind.

Of all the zodiac signs, Pisces is the most caring and the most fragile.

He is easily overwhelmed by the emotions of others.

He feels them as deeply as if he were in their shoes.

Remember that water brings relief to the thirsty, as such Pisces are the healers of the Zodiac.

So, one of the main reasons your Pisces ignores you is that he needs some space to gather his own thoughts.

Just think of those ocean waves, crashing against the shore, over and over again.

This is the mind of a Pisces man.

2. He Still Might Not Know How He Feels About You.

This is a typical reaction of a Pisces who is in doubt at the beginning of a new relationship.

Once Pisces men commit, they commit fully and unreservedly.

However, they need to be absolutely sure that they are committing to the right person.

Pisces belongs to the mutable signs.

There are three types of categories: Cardinal, Fixed and Mutable.

Cardinals are the movers and the starters, the fixed are the doers, the workers, and the mutable are the adaptors, the ones that shake things up.

The word mutable comes from the Latin for mutabilis, which means ‘change’.

So Pisces struggles with changing their own opinions.

They find it difficult to make a decision and stick to it.

For them, there are simply too many variables to consider.

Now compare this to the cardinal signs of Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn.

These signs kick off the seasons and they have to be decisive or we would never move forward .

The fixed signs of Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius and Taurus are workers, those who dig deep and get things done.

Now the mutables look at what the cardinal and fixed signs have achieved so far and decide whether to mix things up or leave it as is.

You could tell they tie up loose ends left by others.

But they can also be destructive and chaotic.

Picture them at the end of each season; autumn is a good example.

The Mutables are responsible for ending and interrupting each respective season to make way for the next one to emerge.

Since they can see all the possibilities and perspectives, they have a huge amount of information to process before making a decision.

3. He’s Being Passive-Aggressive.

The symbol of Pisces is the two fish.

These represent the two sides of fish that can be very different but complementary.

Think of the Chinese symbols for yin and tang; they are opposites of each other, but also balance and combine.

Now, Pisces sometimes struggles with these two opposing forces.

On the one hand, Pisces is not known for being blunt and confrontational, however, once they explode, they go full steam ahead.

It’s not in Pisces’ nature to bully or use aggressive behavior towards their loved ones, but those emotions need to surface somehow.

And that’s when the Pisces man will become totally passive-aggressive.

When a Pisces ignores you, it’s because they’re struggling to control their emotions.

This silent treatment is an indication that he is afraid to say how he really feels.

The symbolism of the two fish indicates the two separate worlds that Pisces is able to inhabit.

For example, the conscious and the subconscious or heaven and hell.

As a result of living in these two worlds, the Pisces man can find it extremely difficult to know what is real and what is fantasy.

And if you’ve recently questioned him about his goals and ambitions, he himself will be confused and back off.

This is his way of not attacking your accusations and your sarcasm.

Remember that the Pisces man needs that comfort and shelter to thrive?

Have you started questioning where he’s going and what his plans are for the future?

He’s likely to backtrack and dive into your bottomless ocean to stop himself from attacking you.

4. He’s Dealing With His Own Anxieties.

Neptune, god of the sea, the wise and all-powerful deity who rules over turbulent and chaotic oceans.

So anyone born under the sign of Pisces can be as unpredictable as the seas.

But the deep oceans also symbolize our emotions, especially our subconscious mind.

Therefore, Pisces is particularly affected by underlying stress and anxiety that has yet to surface.

In fact, when a Pisces ignores you, it may be because they are struggling with their own demons and anxieties.

And the fact is that the passionate Pisces man will not want to burden his partner with his own problems.

Don’t forget, the Pisces man is a healer.

He is used to helping others, not gossiping about his own problems.

So instead of talking about what’s been bothering him, he’ll come out and try to heal before you know it.

Another thing to remember is that Pisces is the 12th and final sign of the Zodiac.

That means he knows everything there is to know about life, emotions, and spiritual journeys across the universe.

It’s not up to anyone to help and help people in this messy thing called life.

It is the work of Pisces.

When we reach Pisces, we reach spiritual enlightenment.

We learn the rules and laws of the Cosmos.

One of the reasons the Pisces man fell in love is because they want to share all this wonderful knowledge.

It is your job to impart and teach so that the next time we are on this spiritual plane, we will be blessed with the lessons of our past.

5. You Hurt Him.

The most obvious reason why a Pisces ignores you is that he is upset in some way and you are the one who hurts him.

It’s very easy to hurt a Pisces.

We already know that they are the most emotional and sensitive of all the zodiac signs.

So, what harms a Pisces man?

Our Pisces guy needs constant validation, not just from him, but from his intentions.

He longs for the security we talked about earlier and needs to see physical evidence of his love and devotion.

You have to let him know that he is your absolute priority in life.

Our Pisces is like a sea sponge, greedily soaking up all your love.

Hold it and it won’t work properly.

So what does he do?

He ignores you because it’s the only way he knows to hurt you back.

Pisces men need to step back and work on their feelings and emotions.

Are they with the right person?

Can they change their minds?

Is there hope for the future?

Can they forgive and forget?

What To Do When A Pisces Ignores You?

1 . Give him his space.

It’s no use overcrowding it, it will only make things worse.

He will feel claustrophobic and you can push him away for good.

2 . Send him a gift.

Send him a thoughtful little gift to remind him how much he means to you.

That way, you still keep your distance, but he knows he’s on your mind.

3 . Send him a photo.

Upload a photo of you as a couple to show what your relationship was like and what it could be like.

Use social media to update him on your feelings without contacting him directly.

He can see what you’re doing, but he doesn’t need to talk to you just yet.

final thoughts

Nobody likes to be ignored, but it is important to understand that Pisces men in love act in a certain way.

Once you know the reasons why a Pisces thinks and acts a certain way, you can better handle the times when your man ignores you.