For you, it’s love at first sight – a blink of an eye and you’re in love . As he bends down to give you a first kiss, you stop him to tell him “I love you”. And when you fall in love, you hang on with ferocity, sometimes to the point of being criticized for your possessiveness and jealousy. But if the man you fall in love with doesn’t realize he’s the luckiest in the world, he won’t stay long.
You can fall in love with someone before you even meet them. You are in love with the very concept of love. Dedicated, passionate and committed, love is what moves you. When you fall in love – which happens very quickly – you swim in an ocean of love. Love develops in you at the speed of light and takes root more deeply than the earth itself in the universe.
You are governed by Venus, the planet of love. You fall for pretty faces and as soon as a charming man smiles at you, you run to buy the wedding rings. You are also very vulnerable to beautiful speakers. Some would say a little superficial, more likely to fall for a man with a well-drawn jaw and just out of prison than for any guy with millions in his bank account. But what do they know about love, anyway?
You have a lot of hiccups but what about love? I don’t think I am wrong in saying that you hate faster than you fall in love. To truly fall in love, you have to court yourself. A candlelit dinner and a glass of wine. Pampered in maintenance. Maybe you never fall in love completely. But if you ever really fall in love, you will have a hard time staying that way.
To you, love is a game , a game in which you prefer to arbitrate. Your sensitivity and your independence prevent you from venturing into the shady terrain of love. You don’t like to lose control of your feelings and yet this is what happens when you fall in love. Have you noticed that we use the term “fall” – we don’t “fly” towards love, as if we had some control over our wings. No, we fall from the edge of a precipice.
Here is one of the most s exual signs, lust is often more important to you than love is. You like to feel powerful and falling in love leaves you vulnerable. Love is important to you, but not enough to run the risk of losing your autonomy and independence. It takes you time, but when you fall in love, you surrender to the fall. But if a man betrays you in any way, you will have no trouble chasing that love away as quickly as it comes.
You are a little more on guard than the other signs and your dominant character supposes that you protect your feelings. Strong and self-centered, you are not that impatient to give in your heart. You do not like “weak” men and it would almost take a man who arrives on his white horse to make your head spin. Falling in love takes time for you. Then it happens … Gently … Then suddenly. Once you fall, you really fall … As you would fall in the Grand Canyon.
A solid shell protects your heart so it doesn’t break. It also covers a pot of boiling feelings, because you want to love and be loved more than anything in the world. But, the deep fear of being hurt pushes you to stay on guard. The fear of rejection prevents you from immediately sinking into the endless abyss of love. But when you fall, you fall entirely. The man you fall in love with will be a lucky man.
It takes longer than most people because of your great shyness. You need someone to heal your ego before you can give your heart to it. You are like Rapunzel in its tower – protected by stone walls, you will extend your long hair and allow the one who is the right one and for whom you will have feelings to climb. He has to be persuasive before you let him go to your heart.
For you, love settles slowly … but not surely. You value friendship more than love. You probably also value appearance and s ex more than love. Even if he is already madly in love with you, you will certainly still present him to your loved ones as a “friend”. The idea is that you lead your own boat … If you fall in love, it will be neither deeply nor too long.
You think with your reason and not with your heart. Above all, you are looking for security, which is more pragmatic than romantic. For you, love does not present itself as a powerful and explosive wave, but rather like the drip of a tap. You fall in love easily and get on with it in less time than it takes to say it.
Just like a virgin, you take your time. It is likely that you lost your virginity before falling in love for the first time. The main problem is not that you have a cold heart but rather that you are difficult – some would even say that you are looking for the little beast. You look for faults in him, like a sergeant would inspect a military barracks. You are a perfectionist, maybe even a little bit bitchy. It takes so long for you to fall in love that the men are waiting for your whistle behind a line!