Don’t Stop Being You!
In the social media feed, it’s incredibly frustrating to see the people we hate the most in relationships, especially long-term ones.
They have bad personalities that only men from hell can handle because the women they are dating ice hearts balance them out and create a “neutral” for them.
But you just don’t understand.
How can someone like that find love, while once again you’re left alone and heartbroken?
The only comfort you have is with your blankets and old stuffed animals that you can’t throw away.
“Why does this always happen to me?” The question always crosses your mind, but you don’t know why.
I will tell you exactly why.
YOU ARE A GOOD GIRL.
Good girls are seen as weak by other people, in a fragile state of mind, whose personality is more sensitive.
They are always seen as the ones who would never hurt anyone but accept the suffering others give them with a smile on their face because she doesn’t want to let them down.
They always think “you understand” because you are an understanding person.
People think because you’re so nice that you won’t do anything mean and you’ll easily go through a heartbreak.
But the truth is, if they think you’re that sensitive, wouldn’t they know that it would hurt you?
You will cry in secret and spend the whole day as if everything is fine, because you don’t want attention or sympathy.
That’s because you are a warrior.
You are not weak, you are a fighter.
And they’re too blind to see you.
No matter how many times you may be slapped in the back, betrayed, disappointed or hurt, you always get up off the ground.
When people doubt that you’ll move on or can love again after the pain you’ve been through, your faith in humanity holds you back.
Although at times you may feel discouraged and doubt that you will ever find the kind of love you desire and deserve, you will never give up on that desire.
You’ll find yourself heading back there when you’re ready and you can give it your all until you find the person you want to pamper with all your love and undying affection.
I know it’s hard to hope that a nice guy is out there in today’s society, especially in a makeout culture and in a generation that is dedicated to fabricating their feelings to avoid getting hurt or using people just for making out while keeping the same. that looks like a relationship.
But there is one out there that you will find and change your mind.
It’s hard to get over the automatic preconceived notion that he too will be just like the rest and that this charming man you once knew is fake.
But you cannot allow the disaster caused by someone else to affect your future forever and prevent you from moving on to someone better.
Show the next guy that you won’t tolerate being treated like you used to and that you expect and deserve better.
Nobody said good girls couldn’t defend themselves respectfully.
Don’t be the shy good girl he’ll automatically think you are.
Be the good girl who owns who she is and is proud of it.
Keep rereading your favorite love stories over and over again to give you chills like it was the first time you read them, light your favorite candles to give your cozy nights a spark of excitement, and cry every romantic comedy ending you can watch. because you love it.
But most importantly, keep loving the way you loved before and never stop.
Good girls know how to love.
So take the opportunity to redefine what it’s like to be a good girl and change someone’s perspective on you and the kind of woman you are.
And even if it doesn’t work out, you will always be remembered for being a fantastic partner and for being a good girl.