Should I tell you how you feel?
So you have feelings for a guy and you wonder if you should tell him or not. Well, you absolutely should! Here are fifteen reasons why you should tell him that you have feelings for him.
1. You probably can’t tell
Frankly, guys don’t always see things, even when they’re in front of them. Whether it’s a friend or someone you’ve only seen from afar, they probably can’t tell that you like him unless you directly tell him how you feel. Don’t walk away from the possibility of a relationship without telling the guy you like that you like him. There’s no way he’ll make a move if he doesn’t know you like him, so you have to tell him!
2. It will make him like you more
A guy will like you more if you tell him how you feel. Guys are more likely to leave if they don’t know that you feel the same way about them as they do about you. By telling him that you like him, you are confirming your feelings for him and that will make him like you even more than he already liked. Guys like girls who take the initiative, so he’ll get totally turned on if you tell him you like him. He will like you so much more knowing that you are not afraid to admit your feelings for him. Show that you are the type of girl who knows what she wants and does it!
3. So you can go out
Whether it’s a friend or a guy you don’t know very well, there’s no way you’re going to start dating someone if you don’t tell each other how you feel. If you want to turn friendship into something more, you have to tell him how you feel. He probably doesn’t know it yet, so you won’t be able to date him without breaking the ice and letting him know that you have feelings for him. You need to take the initiative and tell them, in person, so they know you’re interested and can ask you out properly!
4. It’s better than waiting for him to make a move
Guys are not good at telling you how they feel. Worse still, sometimes a guy will take forever to make a move and finally ask you out. He’ll drag his feet and put it off for a long time before he finally makes his move and tells you how he feels. The way to counter this is by telling him before he has a chance to tell you. If you wait for him to make a move, you will be waiting a long time. Tell him how you feel and you will end the waiting game for both of you. Once he knows how you feel, he can make his move, and neither of you will have to wait a million years to be together!
5. Games are boring
If you play with a boy, he will definitely walk away and you will remain his friend instead of becoming his girlfriend. Games are unconvincing and no one likes to play when it comes to relationships. You don’t want him to mess with your feelings, so you shouldn’t. Instead of beating around the bush and playing games, be direct. Otherwise, he won’t be able to tell if you have feelings for him or if you’re just trying to play with his head. Taking the initiative and telling him how you feel will show him that you are going to play with him and that you care enough about him to tell him that you like him.
6. He should know
Your boy should know how you feel. He deserves to know that you like him, and hiding it from him is not fair to either of them. You should tell him because he should know that you have feelings for him. You want him to tell you if he has feelings for you, so you need to tell him. You can walk away feeling good because he deserved to know that you have feelings for him and you will feel better for telling him.
7. It will help you move on
Just because you like him doesn’t mean he likes you too, unfortunately. You can tell him how you feel and find that he doesn’t feel the same. It’s fine! Not knowing if you have a chance to have a relationship with him would drive you crazy. You better know that he is not interested in being more than your friend because that can help you move on. They would have hung you from him if you hadn’t told him how you felt. Once you tell him, you can move on.
8. Why not tell him?
There’s really no reason not to tell the guy you like that you have feelings for him. The worst that can happen is that he says no, and then you can get on with your life. Keeping your feelings to yourself will not help anyone, so you should go ahead and let him know that you are interested in him as more than a friend. Don’t fear rejection or what might happen if he feels the same way about you. Just tell him how you feel!
9. You will feel better
Keeping a secret like this can affect you and your relationships, especially if you are hiding your feelings from someone who is a friend. By telling the guy that you like him, you will get that big secret off your chest that will make you feel so much better. You cannot hide your feelings forever. You’ll have to be very careful to make sure you don’t let it slip that you feel more than friendship for him. Letting him know that you like him avoids all the pain and heartache that you go through every time you pretend that you don’t like him. Tell them and you will feel much better!
10. Clarify things
If you’re hiding your feelings from him, you’re probably acting a little weird to him. You can laugh at things that aren’t funny or hang out with him when no one else is. His behavior will probably worry you and you will wonder what is wrong with him. Telling him how you feel will clarify his behavior and explain why he has been acting so strange. It will also explain other things, such as the fact that you don’t seem to be interested in other guys or that you get jealous when he’s with other girls. Tell him that you have feelings for him; will explain things to you, so you understand!
11. You may lose your chance
There are a million things that could happen that would prevent you from telling the person you like that you like him. You could move out or start dating someone new. You could walk away Something terrible could happen to one of you and you will never have a chance to share your feelings with him. If you don’t want to risk missing your chance, you need to tell him how you feel. The only way to avoid losing the opportunity to be with the person you like is to tell them that you like them.
12. It could make you both happy
You probably want to be happy, and you definitely want the guy you like to be happy too. You may be able to make both happen by walking up to him and telling him how you feel. He may have the same feelings for you and you won’t know it if you don’t tell him that you like him. Once you do, both of you will be happier because you will be able to start a relationship that you both have secretly been wanting. Telling him how you feel is a great way to make sure both of you are happy!
13. You’ve always been waiting to tell him
As with a guy who shuffles his feet and can’t bring himself to tell you how he feels, you’ve probably been waiting a long time to tell him that you’re interested. Either out of fear or because there hasn’t been a chance, too long has passed. Tell him how you feel and stop waiting to do it! It shouldn’t wait forever for all the reasons on this list. All you have to do is tell him how you feel and the long wait is over!
14. You will earn a lot of respect
Respect can go a long way. You will respect yourself for taking the initiative and telling your guy how you feel about him. Nothing feels better than being the one to take a big step and tell the guy that you like him. You will also earn the respect of your friends. They will see you as the strong girl who stood up and admitted her feelings. It will also probably encourage them to share their feelings with their friends. The boy and his friends will also respect you even more. He will respect that you were what you wanted and his friends will see that you are serious with his boy and that they can trust that you will not hurt him. Telling him how you feel will earn you everyone’s respect!
15. You can’t keep it any longer
Keeping it a secret is probably driving you crazy. Every time you see him, you’re desperate to tell him that you have feelings for him just to see if he feels the same way about you. One day you will see him and you will no longer be able to stay with him. That’s a big reason to spill the beans. You don’t have to keep it a secret, and you will feel great relief sharing your feelings with him and everyone around you. Once you realize that the secret feelings you have for him are too much to keep inside, tell him how you feel!
Tell him how you feel!
Being the one to tell a guy how you feel can be very difficult, but it will be worth it once you do. These are just fifteen of the many reasons why you should tell him how you feel. Take the initiative and let him know that you like him! You will not regret it.