During our single life, we have the opportunity to meet many men. But, once we think we have found the right one, doubts often invade us. We ask lots of questions about the sincerity of the feelings of his new companion and the stability of our relationship. Does he really love me Is he frank with me?
These questions are quite natural. This does not mean that you lack confidence in yourself or your partner. Only you are aware of what you have and are afraid of losing this good man.
To help you answer these questions, we have prepared a list of 20 signs that prove, without a doubt, that he is truly sincere with you.
Sincerity and love
These 20 signs will allow you to verify if the person with whom you are at the moment is really frank and sincere with you. If your partner really loves you, you can identify these signs in their behavior.
He is happy and proud to see you express your opinion in a clear and determined manner, to your friends or to complete strangers that you have just met. When you get carried away by the passion and explain your point of view, you will surely see him smile.
2. The meeting
When he introduces you to his family, friends or colleagues, you blush. Why? Because he always says nice things about you and presents you in your best light. He is not ashamed of you and seeks to put you forward because he is proud of the person you are and of having been chosen as the lucky one.
He likes to learn new things from you and always listens to you carefully when you talk about things you know better than him. Besides, he also likes to share his knowledge with you without being pretentious.
He motivates you and sometimes pushes you out of your comfort zone because he wants you to achieve your dreams. He is not afraid to take second place in your life sometimes if it means that you will feel more fulfilled, fulfilled and happy. For him, your happiness comes first.
5. Adorable little faults
He thinks it’s adorable when you mess up or have trouble accomplishing something. For him, this is not a sign of weakness. On the contrary, it proves to him that you learn from your mistakes and that you give yourself the means to achieve your dreams.
He takes great interest in your pleasures, just like his own. But, it always focuses first on your pleasure. He knows perfectly well that lovemaking is an essential part of the relationship. Besides, he is convinced that if he is attentive and passionate, he will succeed in keeping you by his side. So don’t forget to congratulate him on his efforts!
He tends to be a little jealous when you mention another man you respect or when you talk about a guy you see often. And, it is not because he does not trust you but because he knows what you are worth and that he is afraid of losing you.
He always uses superlatives when he compliments you. For him, you are the smartest, the most attractive, the most beautiful and the most wonderful. You are chosen by his heart and he sees no one else, except you. This man is not one to look discreetly at other women when you turn your head or when you are not there.
9. The perfect gentleman
He prefers to do boring household chores or chores with you, rather than letting you do them alone. For example, it will help you take out the trash. For him, this is something normal because he wants to establish a balance and a relationship of equals. You are not his good at everything and he knows it!
He wants to hear your opinion on everything: a career change, politics, the weather, the choice of clothes, movies, books and even rumors about celebrities … Everything goes there! He is very interested in what you have to say, even if sometimes your views are different.
11. Unconditional love
He lets out sentences like: “you are everything for me”, “you are my universe” or “I am so happy to have you in my life”. And, even if these words may seem silly and harmless, for him, they have a real value. He does not say these sentences just to boost your ego but also because he needs to let his true feelings show through.
12. The photos
He posts ridiculous photographs of the two of you on his social media accounts and always accompanies them with hashtags like #pourtoujours, #monamour or #montout. He does not hide your relationship from others and is not ashamed to appear in love in front of the whole world. For him, it is a strength and not a weakness, despite what his friends may think.
13. The passions
He sends you photos or articles that he knows you will love even if these subjects did not interest him at all before meeting you. He knows your passions and interests. Plus, it’s a subtle way to let you know he’s always thinking of you.
14. The fan
He is your biggest fan and your most ardent supporter. This man always shares words of encouragement and is not afraid to appear silly. He is there if you have a competition and awaits you with flowers when you have a presentation to do at work.
15. He forgives easily
If you say something hurtful in the passion of the moment, it lets things calm down by itself. He is not going to change his mind about you because of this because after all, he knows your true heart and knows that everyone can say something out of control during an argument.
16. He begs forgiveness
If he hurts you in one way or another, he will take your pain seriously and sincerely apologize. Then, in the future, he will pay more attention to your feelings. As mentioned above, everyone can say something hurtful from time to time. This does not necessarily mean that he weighed these words.
17. Quality time
He does everything possible to spend time with you because it is at your side that he feels the happiest. He’s going to cancel a soccer night with his friends to watch a pink water movie with you. He will miss a gym workout to accompany you walking the dog.
18. Is tactile
It caresses your back, it kisses the tip of your nose … All these little gestures that can seem trivial speak volumes. He needs physical contact to feel good. It’s proof that he really loves you. Touch is an essential aspect of the relationship; it is a way of showing affection and tenderness.
19. He accepts you as you are
He’s not trying to change you. He loves you with your qualities and your faults. He’s never going to say something like “this dress makes you fat” or “are you incapable of doing that?” He knows that no one is perfect. Nor is it and you accept it as it is, so why wouldn’t it do the same?
20. He plans for the medium and long term
He’s not talking about marriage yet, but he’s already planned to take you on vacation to Spain next summer. Besides, he also invited you to his grandmother’s birthday in two months. He gradually plans your life and includes you in important decisions that could impact his future and the common future he imagines.