4 behaviors that are difficult to tolerate in a relationship

Here are some behaviors you should not tolerate in your relationship

Lasting relationships are based on mutual trust, love, and respect. These are relationships where everyone agrees to make concessions. When one person is always the only one who has to make concessions or sacrifices, it can lead to resentment.

If your partner constantly puts their needs before you, is egotistical, or doesn’t care how you feel, they probably don’t deserve you.

We often repeat that we don’t know what we have until he’s gone. No matter how hard you try, you can’t change someone.  If he can’t appreciate you for who you are, he doesn’t deserve your love.

Your partner is unfaithful

A partner who cheats on you doesn’t deserve your love. Cheating is a sign of true selfishness . Not only does this destroy your trust, but it also destroys your communication, your intimacy, and just about every aspect of your relationship. Someone who cheats will probably never change. Walking away can be difficult, but it’s important to have enough self-respect to know it’s time to move on.

He or she is unreliable

When the need arises, you hope that the person you love the most will be there for you. Whether your car breaks down on the freeway, or you’ve had a bad day and just need a shoulder to cry on, your partner is often the first person you want to lean on. 


If your partner isn’t there when you need them most, it’s because they’re too focused on themselves to care about your happiness.  He may forget important dates, cancel your party at the last minute, or miss special events. 

He or she spends his time denigrating you

If your partner continually criticizes or belittles you, not only does he not care about your feelings, but he also likes to hurt you. Someone who makes fun of your looks, your weight, your job, your dreams, or your beliefs is not worth your time.

His mean comments are meant to hurt you. A person who loves you will never want to hurt you. He will strive to motivate and support you to give you joy.

He or she is lying to you

Without trust, a relationship cannot last. Someone who deserves your love will understand how important it is to build a relationship of trust. 

A partner who deserves you will always be honest with you. He will have nothing to hide from you, he will have no reason to lie to you.