It teaches you to love again after being broken.
It teaches you that love still exists, that you are able to love again and love more strongly. That you can still believe in love no matter how much your first love hurt you. This love is there to pick up the pieces.
It gives you hope.
That this sorrow is not the end of the world and that there are better things to come. It shows you what happens when you move on, when you give up, when you try again and when you never give up hope. This love shows you light after dark.
The second love is more courageous. It means you know how to forgive, how to risk hurting yourself again because it’s worth it. This means that you are prepared for the worst, but hope for the best. This love makes you stronger.
The second love makes you believe in the timing.
Why things didn’t work out the first time around, why you fell in love with the wrong person, why you were heartbroken, and why someone left you when they promised to love you.
He’s here to tell you that there is always a valid reason behind your pain and that loving someone doesn’t always mean they’re good for you. It answers all of these questions.
The second love makes sense.
It is not based on childhood fantasies or lust or infatuation. He is not blind, reckless, or poisonous. This love is not based on unrealistic expectations or a simple obsession.
This love comes after you have learned to listen to your intuition, to look at the red flags, to choose someone because they will add value to your life, and when you have learned to make decisions out of solitude.
It shows you that you can be someone’s first choice and shows you what it really means to be loved.
