Being an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty cool.
The woman who knows who she is.
We are totally independent, and fiercely motivated, and we are passionate about romantic tenderness.
We are also incredibly stubborn, headstrong, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men.
This makes our dating life more of a challenge to navigate.
We are not your typical submissive and loving partners, we are a challenge.
For that reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits of an alpha female is much more difficult.
These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.
1. The Alpha Woman’s Smart Mouth.
We are very sarcastic about almost anything and everything we can do.
This looks bad for men who aren’t brave enough to date us.
2. The Alpha Woman Is Not Afraid To Speak Her Mind.
We don’t hesitate to say exactly how we feel about something, even if it means telling a guy that we don’t like the bad thing they said or did, or how we think about a controversial topic.
Unfortunately, they would rather we dance around their behavior and remain delicate rather than feel the ultimate masculinity.
3. The Alpha Female Takes The Lead And That Makes Most Men Run.
An alpha female knows exactly what she wants and doesn’t hesitate to do it.
She invites the man first, kisses first, and unbuttons her blouse first when the mood is right.
We need a man who can handle this and not feel emasculated by it.
Not only do we take responsibility for intimacy matters, but we’re the kind of girlfriends who will do things, whether it’s scheduling a trip or planning the funniest party we’ve ever had, with kegs of beer.
4. The Alpha Woman Doesn’t Bother With Cliché Romance.
The alpha female favors a passion for romance.
While flowers are sweet and all, we prefer to be greeted with long passionate kisses in the hallway, leading to something a little more creative.
5. The Alpha Woman Is Always Challenging.
We’re not afraid to get into a debate with our men – they hate to lose, and so do we.
This can turn into some pretty aggressive reactions from a man or the cliché logic that we are “just crazy”.
We have no problem having an intelligent debate and we are not trying to be undisciplined.
We have our own opinions and thoughts, and if men can’t handle them, that’s fine.
6. The Alpha Woman Is Brutally Honest.
If we don’t like something, we say so.
If we do, we say too.
We will bring uncomfortable conversations because we would rather put the truth on the table than not be true to ourselves and who we are, which is women who say it the way it is.
7. The Alpha Woman Has Few “Damsel In Distress” Moments.
Have you ever driven with a woman on the road and she changed her own flat tire?
She’s probably an alpha female.
We don’t mind having a man help us with the most challenging work, but if he’s not around, we’ll figure out how to do it ourselves and not complain about it.
8. The Alpha Female Is Genuinely Busy And It Frustrates Our Suits.
We’re probably in a leadership position or, at the very least, killing everything we do.
This means that we dedicate a lot of our time to doing the things we love and want to do, whether it’s our career, hobbies, or the sports we participate in.
It’s not that we don’t want you to be a part of it or we’re not interested, but we’re a challenge to take the time – and not in a game-like way, but in a “we have more important things to do” way.