To those who want to please everyone

You can’t please everyone, some people won’t like you no matter what you do.

You have to accept this now.

I have had great difficulty accepting it over the years. There were times when I wondered why I was being teased by some, why they said certain things, why they were talking behind my back, why someone wanted to see me fail in life.

It is something that is really difficult to accept. It’s so easy to want everyone’s acceptance. You can easily get lost wanting to satisfy everyone you meet in life. You can easily worry about what people think of you.

But you are not on Earth to carry this burden.

Your job is not to try to please everyone. Don’t be so sensitive to how others feel about you. Don’t take everything you are told so personally. Stop trying to want to make everyone happy and want to make everyone happy. It’s impossible. When you try to be what everyone else wants you to be, you risk losing your uniqueness and, therefore, your excellence.

Realize that life literally puts the right people in your life and takes out the bad ones. Do not try to fight against it. You are where you are meant to be.

When you choose to be a world servant, you lose sight of what life wants for you and you begin to put the needs of others first.

Life has big plans for you. Listen and respond to what it tells you.

When you put your attention and focus on life, you get a peace and fulfillment that you could never get otherwise.

Not everyone will like you. Not everyone wants you to be successful. It’s normal. You have no control over it. Forget the need to please and be accepted.