Want to make your passion flow for you?
Fortunately, it’s not difficult!
Here are some surefire ways to make yourself irresistible to him.
He will be obsessed with you!
So, you met a guy you can’t get enough of.
Charming beauty, great personality, and a smile that makes your heart melt.
You want him to like you too, but how?
When it comes to bagging your crush, the devil is in the details.
Here are the top 10 ways to make yourself irresistible to him.
1 . Trust
We love a guy who is confident and self-assured.
It shows us that he is entrepreneurial, assertive, and comfortable in his own skin which is very attractive.
The same goes for the gentleman, ladies!
Man or woman, confidence is attractive.
Men are naturally attracted to a woman with confidence.
It shows that we have self-confidence and are not afraid to pursue what we want in life.
Trust is charismatic and people are naturally drawn to it.
If you’re confident, or you’re just faking it until you make it, it shows that you can take care of yourself and be comfortable with your own body and mind.
Men love it!
2 . Use A Good Perfume
This one is pretty obvious.
With or without exaggeration, we should all take care of our personal hygiene.
Shower, deodorant, you know what to do!
It’s a fact of life that we all love good smells, and if it’s someone we’re attracted to, that makes them ten times more attractive!
Studies and research showed that vanilla was one of the men’s favorite scents on a woman, along with light, spicy floral scents.
Apply some perfume to places like your neck, the inside of your wrists, your elbows, and behind your ears.
Like us girls, guys love a woman who smells good.
Don’t overdo it though!
You don’t want him to be hit by a wall of strong perfume.
From experience, it doesn’t go down well!
3 . Don’t Be Afraid To Talk To Him
Yes, I know it’s scary.
We’ve all been through this.
But if you want to move him from a name you don’t even know to a potential boyfriend, you’re going to have to talk to him at some point!
An important part of anything that develops into a fully developed dating or relationship is getting to know the person you are interested in.
Like any relationship we form, be it friendship or otherwise, getting to know each other takes time.
So don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation if you can and get to know the man you are so in love with.
You never know, you might have a few things in common!
Do you know what three simple words can change the course of your relationship?
See, these words seem really basic; however, once you understand what their true power is over the mind of man – you will be surprised.
4 . Praise Him
It’s always nice when, out of nowhere, someone pays us a compliment.
It makes us feel good and reinforces good self-esteem.
The same goes for guys too, girls!
Like us, men like to feel appreciated and understood.
So if there’s something you really like about him, tell him his great sense of style or he’s a brilliant conversationalist, tell him!
“I love your sense of humor. You’re so funny!”
“You have great taste in music!”
Not only will it make him feel good, but it will also make him remember you and want to talk to you more.
The two of you can find common ground to come together.
Maybe you like the same band or have the same favorite team!
Just don’t overdo it, as this can seem scary or nerve-racking!
5 . He Used To Smile!
Remember the phrase “Smile and the world smiles with you”?
When we smile, endorphins are released into our bodies.
Endorphins make us happy and happiness is contagious.
Like when we yawn when someone else yawns, when someone smiles, most of the time we can’t help but smile too.
Smiling not only makes the general conversation more pleasant, but it opens up our body language, makes us appear friendly and approachable, sending out positive vibes that naturally draw people in.
And let’s face it, we’re all weak for someone with a killer smile!
So don’t be afraid to show off those pearly whites!
6 . Take The First Step
Throughout history, we have been taught that men must always take the first step.
If a woman asks a man out, it weakens him.
If you like a guy and want to ask him out, ask!
You shouldn’t have to hold back just because of gender.
Also, guys like it!
Yes, you heard right!
In a survey conducted by Lavalife, 95% of men surveyed said they felt hot if a girl asked them out.
In a modern world where women have more autonomy than ever before, becoming more and more the breadwinners at home and exaggerated in their own right, why shouldn’t you ask that gorgeous man out?
Be bold and go for it!
The worst he can say is no.
If that happens, don’t take it personally.
Rejection is part of the dating world.
If that happens, just grab your chin and move on, you’ll be fine!
7 . Show, Don’t Tell
Your close circle of friends can enhance your best qualities, be it a great sense of humor, generosity, a good listener, etc.
You want your crush to see that you are as awesome as your friends say you are.
“Show; do not say”.
Says dating expert Matthew Hussey: “People don’t like to hear things.
This makes them feel like they are being asked to believe something that may not be credible.
However, they want to discover things.”
If someone told you they were the nicest person on the planet, would we believe it?
But if that person performs an act of kindness, that is, takes care of the less fortunate and doesn’t expect anything in return, he doesn’t need to tell us that he is a good person, his actions show us that he is.
So if you want him to appreciate certain traits about you, show them off.
Be kind, considerate, outgoing, etc.
Actions really do speak louder than words.
8 . Flirt
Being a little flirty is a good way to tell him you’re interested.
Laugh when he tells a joke, smile a little when he greets you, or gently touch his arm when you are talking or about to make trails.
As we mentioned earlier with regards to compliments, these are also an effective way to get his interest, making him feel good about something.
When it comes to women, every man wants to feel like a superhero.
They like to feel appreciated and needed.
Then ask his opinion on something, i.e. “Hi, what do you think of this…?”
Or ask a favor: “Hi, could you help me with this?” Be sure to thank him later.
In addition to the basic ways, it will make you feel useful and will really give your ego a boost!
Or if you’re really confident to flirt, tell him directly.
As we mentioned when taking the first step, a direct approach can go down well with a lot of guys.
It shows right away that you’re interested in giving him the green light to ask him out… if you haven’t already!
9 . Don’t Go Crazy With Makeup
When we like someone, we want to look our best in order to catch yours.
We’re going to take a little more time with our hair, we’re going to wear nicer clothes, and we’re going to up the ante a bit on the makeup.
We often think that guys like women with a lot of makeup, but the truth is they don’t.
Men see a few inches thick foundation and spider-shaped false eyelashes as a major deterrent.
Of all the men I talked to about makeup, all said they preferred a natural look on girls, even no makeup at all!
Keep it simple and natural.
Enhance your best features and avoid overdoing it.
10 . Be Yourself
I know this sounds like the worst advice in the world, but it rings so true, especially when it comes to dating and relationships.
You want your crush to like you, so don’t try to be something you’re not just to impress him.
This will not only make you unhappy, but it can cause real friction in any friendship or relationship when you are not the real you.
So be fabulous!
If he doesn’t like it, it’s time to move on.
There are many more men out there who would kill to have you by the arm.
But if he does, then fantastic!
Thanks for reading!