Have you found the perfect man?
Are your friends jealous of your fabulous relationship?
Does your mother make him his favorite meal when you visit?
In case you haven’t seen it before, here are 10 signs he loves you.
Sometimes, ladies, we find a guardian!
Sure, he might not be perfect, he leaves the toilet seat up and hasn’t eaten a vegetable since he was three, but he’s still perfect.
How do you know?
Because he loves you.
Here’s how you know he adores you (and that it’s okay to ignore his lack of ability to put the cap back on his toothpaste).
1 . He Is A Gentleman
Guys who adore their women are true gentlemen to them.
Around his friends, he burps, farts, and uses foul language.
Around his friends, he will act the same way.
But next to you, he wears a clean shirt, uses a napkin, and opens the car door.
2 . Your Parents Love Him
You’re probably asking how your parents fit into this situation, but this is a sign that he adores you.
My mom has never (I mean never) liked any guy I’ve ever dated.
My dad was a little less opinionated, but he also had a baseball bat.
Parents will not lie to you.
If they think he’s scum, you’ll never have a moment’s peace.
They see how he treats you and judge him with a very biased opinion.
So, if your parents love your boyfriend, it’s a sure sign that he adores you.
3 . He Always Pays The Bill
As I mentioned before, if your man adores you, he won’t ask you to pay.
Men have very fragile egos and it’s important for them to prove they can be the provider.
If your guy tries his hardest to work hard and prove he’s a hard-working man, he adores you.
4 . He Puts Your Needs Before His
If a man really adores you, he will put his needs before yours.
This occurs on a few different levels.
For example, your choice of dinner is more important, your feelings come first (if you’re not comfortable with him dating his ex, he’ll stop).
5 . You Come Before Friends
Any guy who adores you will make a point of coming before his friends.
If he makes plans with you and his friends invite him to watch the game, he will choose you.
It might seem like this should be expected, but to be honest, most men don’t really think about these things.
Guys are a big part of any man’s life, and saying no to them, to dating you, is just begging for a good tease.
If he says he’d rather be with you then he definitely adores you.
6 . He Tries New Things
Men are determined in their ways.
If they don’t like something, they don’t like it.
If they can’t dance, they don’t try.
There are many men who are afraid to try new things, not because they are afraid, but because they don’t want to make a fool of themselves.
If your guy is willing to try new things (anything from sushi to skydiving) then rest assured, he loves you.
This guy is more than willing to make a fool of himself in front of you simply because you want to try something new with him.
7 . He Is Considerate
A guy who adores you will be more than happy to show you that.
He asks about your day and really listens when you talk.
He encourages you to succeed and takes care of you when you are sick.
He offers to bring you chocolate when you have PMS.
When I told my ex that I had cramps, he said “okay, see you in a week”.
Serious.
If he goes through his monthly madness with you, then he adores you.
8 . He Can’t Go A Day Without Hearing From You
I’m about to date a guy I almost never hear from.
We hope to have our first official meeting next week.
However, we don’t get to the point where he texts me once a day or asks about work.
Every now and then we text and say hi.
How he acts after our meeting is how I’ll determine whether he’s worth examining.
Constant contact is the key.
Any guy who adores you will want to hear from you every day.
He will go crazy when you don’t call or text him and he will be sitting by the phone waiting to hear from you.
When you don’t contact him, he will contact you.
He has no choice, his heart can’t take his absence.
9 . He Does Things He Hates Because It’s Something You Love
You really want to see that new French movie, but he just doesn’t like it.
He has that expression on his face.
You know the look, say “Please let me stay at home, I’d rather gouge my eye out with a pencil than watch that movie.”
What he says is, “Of course, I would love to see that movie with you!”
He loves you.
10 . He Remembers Everything
One of the best signs that he adores you is that he remembers everything you say to him.
Your birthday?
He remembers.
Your favorite flower?
He knows.
He’s like a walking encyclopedia of all the things you love and he does his best to make sure you know it.
Often, sentences begin with, “I remember you telling me…” He wants you to know that he pays attention.
Men aren’t as easy with their emotions as we are and if you see these signs you can be sure he adores you and can’t get you out of his head.
