10 Signs On How To Tell If He Likes You More Than A Friend
Ok, there is a guy you really like and you think he likes you too. So far you’ve been hanging out as friends and having a lot of fun, but the uncertainty is driving you crazy! We listen to you, it can be frustrating to guess and not be sure where you are standing.
You want to know for sure if he likes you as more than just a friend, but how do you do it? How can you be absolutely sure? There are some signs that could help you figure out if you are only imagining things or if what you think is true.
If you want to change your status with this guy, pay attention to these 10 signs on how to know if he likes you more than a friend.
1. He wants to know everything about you
What if a casual comment occurs to you and he pressures you for more details to find out what happens? That is a sure sign that he likes you, that he is romantically interested in you. Can’t seem to get enough of it and wants to know everything there is to know about your story.
A good friend would also be interested in the story of your life but pay attention to how he approaches learning that story, it’s on a whole different level. He wants to know more because he wants to understand you, so he sees you as more than a friend.
2. Your opinion matters
Guys don’t like long stories, gossip, or “serious” conversations, but that changes once he’s really interested in a girl. So if he starts paying attention when you speak and tries to remember what you said, then it means that he is listening and that, ladies, it is a sure sign of liking.
Pay attention the next time you spend time together. If you remember details about past conversations, rejoice that things are going in the right direction.
3. Keep finding excuses to touch you (not in a rude or inappropriate way)
If he really likes you, he will want to be as close to you as possible and will find any excuse to touch you in an innocent and playful way. For example, he reaches out so he can pull an eyelash away from your cheek or touch your hand when he’s telling a story. Have you noticed that about your boy?
4. You catch him looking at you often
Ok, this is tricky because it’s not just a man thing, but a human thing to look a lot at someone we really like. So if he looks at you frequently, he is likely attracted to you. But tread carefully here because he may like what you see, but if you don’t do anything else, maybe you should just forget about it and move on.
This sign must be considered in context. He is looking at you and what else is he doing or not doing?
5. Keeps in touch by text messages throughout the day
Have you had text message conversations during the day? I don’t eat every minute, but you know, like a real conversation with its stops, pauses, and starts. So, be very happy because things are going more than good.
Men usually don’t text without a reason, but if he really likes you, he’ll text you just to let you know he’s there and how you’re doing. Also pay attention, because if he really likes you he will use some emojis like a or a
Another sure sign that he likes you via text message is that he’ll send you one first thing in the morning. Were you surprised by a morning text message from him? That is amazing, it means that you are his first thought in the morning. Good for you!
6. He will want to make you feel good by congratulating you
One sign that he likes you more than a friend is that he likes all things related to you. And not only that, it will let you know what things he likes and why he does it. Well, because it wants to make you feel good. He will say things like, “You look good today” or “I like the way you smell” or “That hairstyle really works for you.”
Note that not all men are so verbal with their compliments, some may feel uncomfortable saying them because they are not used to saying things like that. Maybe he takes the roundabout route and laughs at something funny you just said, that’s the best compliment (he thinks you’re funny).
If he really likes you, he will go the extra mile to make you feel good, even just by smiling when he sees you wearing something that makes you look attractive.
What if your guy is a co-worker? How can you tell if he likes you more than a friend? There are a couple of signs you may need to pay attention to be sure.
7. At work, you are the one to whom he pays attention
If you are not a newbie to work and he spends a lot of time talking to you, then he may be interested. But pay attention, if all your conversations are related to work, then his interest in you is as a coworker, now if your conversations leave the workplace, then his interest is definitely personal.
Has he invited you to lunch? That’s great! that’s a sure sign that he wants to talk to you in a more relaxed setting, sometimes the work environment is not conducive to romance. It can be difficult to show your true self when you have someone watching. He invited you to lunch so he could “research” you more.
Does he regularly bring you things that you haven’t asked for, like a cup of coffee, a breakfast, or flowers? If you’re the only one who gets that kind of attention from him, then do a happy dance because he really likes you.
8. He lights up around you
Have you noticed that when you walk into the room he raises his eyebrows and smiles at you subtly? There should be other changes like in his voice or in the way his entire behavior lights up. If he is consistently happy with you, it is a sure sign that he really likes you more than just a friend.
9. He also shows you interest in his virtual world (also known as his social networks)
If your guy is active on social media and paying attention to all the things you post, if he starts liking or, better yet, commenting on them, it’s a sure sign that he really likes you. It will do things like view your Instagram stories or click on your photos and leave you little comments about them. He will talk about what he saw in one of those posts as “that family reunion looked like a lot of fun.”
Pay attention or check how he is on social networks because that is key.
Lastly, you can tell if a guy likes you more than a friend by observing his body language. There are a few body language signs that can confirm your suspicions.
10. All of his body language will gravitate towards you
By body language, we mean eyes, smile, eyebrows, torso, hands… you get the idea. When you are talking to a group of friends, does he lean his feet and torso towards you even if he cannot turn his whole body? That’s a good sign because it means that he finds that you are the most interesting in the group.
The same applies if the conversation is just between the two of you, leaning your torso and feet towards you means you have your full attention. That is always good.
Did the following scenario happen while the two of you were chatting? While they are talking, he leans towards you, but then he is interrupted by a third person, he just turns his head but keeps his torso towards you … if yes, then start your happy dance because he is totally interested in you and does not want anyone to intrude on his private time with you. Yes!
If you know what to look for, you will notice that guys are pretty obvious about their feelings. So if you want to be sure how it feels, look past those little hearts in your eyes and really take a look at it. Sooner or later, you will see one of the 10 signs we just talked about.
Caution is always advised because some signs can be tricky, so it would be a good idea to put them in context and not just take them at face value.
Good luck deciphering the signs! We hope it goes well for you.