14 Ways to Make a Man Realize He’s Losing You

To say that relationships are difficult to handle is sometimes an understatement, especially if you are with someone who is not yet ready to make changes for you.

A large number of women do not receive the love and respect they deserve from their partners simply because they are giving too much.

Relationships are about giving and taking, and if you’re giving all the giving and he’s just getting everything and he’s not giving himself, some things need to change.

These indicators will make him think about the consequences of losing one of the best things that ever happened to him.

How to Make a Guy Realize He’s Losing You

1 – Stop Being Available.

It sucks when a man is taking you for granted, something for granted.

If that’s the case, you can give him a subtle dose of his own medicine, making sure you’re not around when he needs you.

Back off from telling him the details of your life.

Make him guess where you are and what you’re doing.

Don’t use this tactic too quickly, because it won’t be effective.

You need to stay with him long enough so that he realizes something is wrong and he will be forced to find out what it is.

This should make you try harder to improve your relationship and your life.

2 – Mention Plans For The Future Without Him.

If you show him or tell him that you’re going out with your friends for the weekend and coming back on Monday, he’ll wonder why you’re going out with them and not him.

Maybe you want to tell him that you’re going out with work friends, guys and gals, and you don’t plan on coming home because you’re going to a party at a friend’s house.

The vaguer you are, the better.

This will have you worried about what you’re going to do because drinking and distance are never a good combination.

No doubt this can be a slap in the face that he needs to change his ways immediately, or you will be gone forever.

3 – Relax With The Answers.

Men don’t like clingy girls; there is no doubt about it.

If you really want to get him moving, relax when replying to his messages.

Make him wait for your answer; this will make him worried.

This will make him realize that he has to work harder to get your attention.

Keep doing this until you see your relationship improve.

Otherwise, you’ll have your signal to dump him and move on to a man who truly wants you and is willing to show it every day.

 4 – Treat Yourself.

When you take the extra steps to take care of yourself, you make him afraid of losing you.

Maybe you want to hit the gym and lose a few pounds, shop for lingerie, or head to the spa for a complete body makeover.

It doesn’t matter, as long as you know that the focus is exclusively on you.

It’s guaranteed, it will make him worried that he’s afraid of losing you.

5 – Stop Being Clingy.

Truth be told…

You don’t give your man a chance to miss you if you’re always hanging on to him.

This isn’t really doing anything useful for you.

If you want your man to be afraid of losing you, you need to let him know that you are independent and that you don’t really need him.

When your partner sees that you are stronger than he thought, he will realize that he is a better fit or he may lose you.

6 – Take Big Steps Backwards.

This one is tough, but if you want your man to be scared of losing you, it’s important to make sure you’re vague more often.

Sometimes a girl has to be a little mean!

If your man isn’t paying enough attention to you or is acting rude, it’s best to start getting a little distant from him.

When you do that, you force him to wonder what you are doing and where you are.

When he finally decides to ask if it’s okay, just stay calm and tell him it’s okay.

Don’t stop what you’re doing and don’t pay attention to it.

If he can’t figure that out, he definitely has some problems.

Put the pressure on him to take action to fix things.

If he’s not interested in doing something, it’s time to kick his unhappy ass.

7 – Don’t Be Nice.

Many women just want to please their men.

This is a great trait in a healthy and happy relationship.

However, when you want to make him realize that he’s losing you, it’s important that you don’t give him everything.

It just smothers the change and reiterates the message that you are happy and everything is fine.

Stop trying to please him all the time, and he’ll start thinking something is wrong.

Wow, what a novelty!

Make sure he’s being the highest priority for you, simply because he doesn’t deserve it.

If you let him take advantage of you, he will.

Never forget that.

Try to be a little picky and see what happens.

He’ll see that you’re serious and he’ll change his tone and demeanor quickly.

The tables will turn and he will do everything in his power to make you smile, and that’s exactly what you deserve.

8 – Go Out With Your Own Friends.

Often, in relationships, you end up going out with friends you have in common, not someone who thinks you’re very special.

This is a big mistake in the big picture.

As a couple, you are already sharing a lot.

Leaving a little to the imagination is a fabulous thing.

You don’t need to share your friends with it.

If some of your friends are men, even better!

The point is to make him care about who you are and what you’re doing.

This trick will show your man that he better not hurt you, he better admire you and do his best to make you happy.

It takes sacrifice on both sides to maintain a relationship, and it’s time to move that relationship forward.

9 – Show Your Independence.

When you show your man that you are a strong, independent woman, he will see you with envy in his eyes.

Men really like a girl who can take care of herself.

If you are clingy and needy, he will run you over.

Make sure he knows you don’t need a man to make you happy.

With this attitude, you will make him think twice about who you are and what you mean to him.

And if he’s got the brains, he’ll redeem himself and he’ll work to prove he knows how to take care of you and love you, just you.

10 – Be Attractive.

When you show that you look attractive, you are creating a desire within him, and he will do whatever it takes to get your attention.

If you get all dressed up, the first thoughts that will cross his mind are that you’re doing this for another man.

This will be enough to make him start to worry about how much he is neglecting you in this relationship and how much more you deserve.

Hopefully, you’ll see an immediate change in his behavior, and that should get your relationship back on track if that’s what you still want.

11 – Just Be You.

Make sure you don’t fall into the trap of letting him treat you like you don’t deserve anything.

You deserve the best in life and you should be given that respect just for being yourself.

Your man has no control over you, and there is no doubt that you must have the confidence to make the decisions you want, not just what you think he wants.

Let him know that you are not easy to please, but do so in a friendly manner.

If you’re too unbiased, he might start to see you in a negative light, and that’s not what you want.

Show him what you have to offer and that any man would want you just because you are you.

He needs to think, see, and feel that there is no other person like you, and that will make him work even harder to make sure he doesn’t lose you.

Making him worried is a good thing.

12 – Don’t Accept Being Number Two.

Relationship experts say you should never accept your man treating you like he’s number two in the relationship.

If he makes plans with his friends and they ignore him, you need to make sure he’s not available to fill the void.

Making him afraid of losing you isn’t difficult if you’re willing to use a few innocent tricks.

If he knows that you are always available to him, he will not like you and will just assume that you have nothing better to do than please him.

Don’t let him take you for granted.

Believe in yourself and what you want and never let him make you settle for less than you deserve.

13 – Use Social Media To Show That You’re Having Fun!

Social media is good and bad for relationships.

In that case, you can use his Facebook or Instagram account, which of course he’s following, for fun.

This is especially effective when he’s not in the picture.

This will help you show the world that he is not the most important person in your life and will make him want you more.

He’s going to realize he wants to be that man, and he’s going to start acting on that desire now.

If he’s always over-analyzing things, this tactic should work wonderfully.

Be consistent in your posts and show him that you’re having fun doing different things with a wide variety of friends.

Boys, in general, don’t think about emotional romance as much as we do, and from time to time, you need to remind him to wake up and get to work to prove he deserves you.

14 – Give Up Being Interested In His Life Stories.

A surefire way to make him worry is to make sure he knows that you’re not as interested in him as you used to be.

Make him realize that you have much better things to do than listen to what he has to say.

This may seem a little harsh, but sometimes, the answer is tough love.

You can try texting someone when they’re in the middle of a story; it will make him think about what is so important that you cannot listen carefully to what he has to say.

Using these tips at the right time will give him the signal that if he’s not already worried about losing you, he better start staying now.


How to make a guy realize he is losing you or has lost you is not easy.

Use these pointers and tips to help you end a relationship or to strengthen it.

Follow your intuition, head and heart, and you will discover the man you deserve.