It’s really important that you know what you want in a relationship.
Please make sure he knows this from the start.
If you’re looking for a man to spend the rest of your life with, but you’re dating a guy who specializes in commitment avoidance, you’re the only person who’s going to get hurt.
Ask yourself if the man you’re dating is just getting into the dating scene and moving from one woman to another, or if he’s looking for the girl he doesn’t want to be without.
You need to ask yourself tough questions and face reality to find out if he’s really married or not.
Of course, this article can be difficult to read, but the sooner you find out where your relationship is going, the better for YOU!
Here are some solid signs that he doesn’t want to marry you.
Signs He Doesn’t Want To Marry You
Sign One: The Crazy Exes!
If a guy has been through some past relationships, that’s good.
That means he’s not afraid to commit to a woman for a decent amount of time.
This is definitely a good thing.
However, if he tells you that all ex-girlfriends are crazy, you should consider this a warning that he may never want to marry you.
Maybe the exes really were crazy, but more likely they wanted something a little more serious, so he panicked and ran away.
You might believe you’re different from all the other women he’s dated, but you’re not.
Sign Two: Sending Hints
Men, in general, aren’t stupid, and they understand when you drop hints about wanting to get married.
The point here is that you don’t have to keep giving clues.
If he wants to marry you, he will ask.
Pushing you to do this is never the right thing to do.
It’s better to be so awesome that he can’t stand the thought of you being with another man, so he kneels down and asks the question.
This is something you don’t control.
He has to make the decision and he needs to marry you.
Sign Three: Distant Marriage Date
Perhaps you convinced him to ask you to be his wife.
It’s a great start, but if he keeps putting off the wedding date into the future, that’s a gigantic sign that he really doesn’t want to have your hand in marriage.
Some men feel pressured and only ask the woman to marry him so she stops bothering him.
Along the same lines, sometimes it’s friends and family who make the effort.
Keep your eyes peeled for this sign.
Sign Four: Waiting for the Perfect Moment
If your man is always making excuses as to why he hasn’t asked you to marry him yet, you should consider the fact that he won’t marry you.
Excuses get you nowhere, and if he’s always overly stressed about work or keeps fighting with his family, there’s a good chance that won’t happen.
If a guy really wants you, he won’t let any obstacles get in the way.
In fact, he will do everything in his power to make the time right for him to marry you.
Sign Five: No Family Time
This is a very bad sign.
If your boyfriend has family and you haven’t met them yet, there’s a good chance you never have.
When a guy loves a girl, he wants to show her off, and that includes his family and friends.
There’s no doubt that if he plans to spend the rest of his life with you, he’ll flaunt you like you’re a gold medal.
On the other hand, there’s the small chance that you won’t know his family for geographic reasons or because they’re incredibly dysfunctional.
However, if that’s the case, he should have already discussed it with you.
Sign Six: He Seems to Be Somewhere Else
If your man is acting distant, like he’s about to break up, it could be a sure sign that he really wants to break up.
When a guy doesn’t have the confidence or courage to talk about his true feelings with the woman he’s supposed to love, he’s definitely not marriage material.
Sign Seven: He Doesn’t Make it Official In Public
If he sometimes just holds your hand in public and introduces you to people with only your first name, this is a sad sign that he is not confident in your relationship.
When a man plans to marry a girl, he wants to make sure everyone knows that the two of you are off the market.
That cheeky thing doesn’t make sense when you want to get married.
He must be proud that you two are a couple.
If he doesn’t look proud, consider it a big hint that he doesn’t want to be with you forever.
Sign Eight: You’re Not In His Future Plans
You don’t have a summer vacation planned together or he has no plans for you to move in together, and he never plans anything with you.
That means you are not in our plans for the future.
Maybe you’re just the girl of the moment, as much as it hurts.
If he really loved you, he would be imagining and including you in his plans for the future.
When that’s not the case, it’s best to end the relationship and move on before you hurt yourself further.
Sign Nine: He Is Not Interested in Getting to Know Your Loved Ones
When a man doesn’t want or isn’t interested in meeting and being a part of your family, he doesn’t want you in the long run.
Think about this for a minute.
Wouldn’t you like to meet the family of the person you want to marry?
This is obvious.
That’s the last straw.
If he doesn’t take the initiative to show or say he wants to meet your family, you know he doesn’t want to marry you.
Sign Ten: Disinterest in Your Pleasure
This is another sign that he doesn’t want you in his life the way you want him.
When a man wants his needs met in bed and he’s not interested in securing your orgasm either, it shows he’s not the guy you deserve.
If you’re just a tool to pleasure him in bed, you need to let go of him and move on.
When a man truly loves a woman, he wants to make sure he’s pleasuring her in bed beyond her imagination.
Signal Eleven: Canceled in His Social Networks
If you’re never mentioned in his social media, Facebook, and Instagram posts, it’s a surefire way to say he’s never going to marry you.
What he is telling the world is that you are not important to him and he is flying alone.
Worse yet, if he hasn’t changed his relationship status to mention you, he should be kicked the hell out of there quickly.
That’s not what you deserve, so if that’s the case, you have to make a decision.
If he cared about you, he’d be showing you off to everyone.
Sign Twelve: “I Love You” Flows Frequently
Some men get too early in the relationship, and they tell a girl they love her — almost like it makes no sense.
Anyone can say those three words.
The hardest thing is saying them and feeling them.
If he’s telling you how much he loves you after the first date, you better not understand.
It takes time for love to develop and grow, and that means it’s fake if it’s not given you time.
Sure, you might be flattered at first, but the feeling will fade and you’ll be left with wasted time.
Don’t let that happen.
Sign Thirteen: He’s a Sweat Machine
Some men are naturally nervous, and that’s okay.
But if your guy breaks out in a sweaty storm and can’t find words when you bring up the subject of marriage, he’s never going to ask for your hand in marriage.
Truth be told, he doesn’t even want to think about marrying you.
If you really want to get married and he shows he can’t even think about it, then you need to break up and move on.
Sign Fourteen: He Can’t Make A Decision
When a guy can’t even decide which pants to wear, what makes you think he’s going to make the final decision to marry you?
Indecision is a super-strong indicator that he will never have the courage to ask you to marry him, even if he wants to.
This is very sad and very true.
Sign Fifteen: The Maybe Man
If you mention the wedding theme and he responds with a gray “maybe”, it just won’t happen.
Especially if someone asks him about it and he doesn’t give a definitive answer.
The man you deserve to be with must want to grab you and scream, “That girl is mine!”
Sign Sixteen: He’s always making excuses
If he’s always making excuses when you start talking about marriage, he’s never going to ask you to walk down the aisle with him.
Maybe he wants to get a better job first or wait until his cousin gets married next year.
It doesn’t really matter, because if he’s just a bag of excuses, you need to take that as a hint that he’ll never follow through.
You deserve to be with that special man who treats you like gold, the man who wants to marry you, the guy who can’t imagine being without you in his life.
If he doesn’t want to marry you, you need to consider the fact that he might not be the boyfriend you thought he was.
Final Words
Relationships are not easy.
It’s important that you keep an open perspective when it comes to figuring out if your boyfriend is the right guy for you.
It’s no use staying in a relationship that isn’t healthy or dangerous.
So paying attention to the warning signs of a bad boyfriend is the key to your happiness, saving you more heartache.
When looking for the man you want to marry, consider each of these signs separately that he’s not ready to bond and build a family.
Love is blind and sometimes it is better to give up rather than settle down and knowing that you will never get what you want which is the happily ever after.
Think with your head, not just your heart.
