21 Things The Most Attractive Women Do on First Dates (According to Men)

It might surprise you to learn that many men think as much about making first dates work as women do, and while this doesn’t necessarily make the next date less stressful, it might help you to know exactly what it is that attractive women do to make themselves so memorable. right away.

And for starters, you should keep in mind that the first date isn’t a big deal for you.

While both men and women tend to overthink things before our first dates, the things that keep us nervous and irritated vary quite a bit.

Women are often concerned with establishing a connection, feeling chemistry, and never running out of things to say, while men tend to wonder if this will be casual or something more serious.

In general, women consider a date to be successful if the man is polite, seems interested when we talk and we run into someone we want to spend more time with, while men consider a date to be successful if… well, actually, it met many of the same criteria.

Yes, men and women are different, but not in as many ways as we used to think

But you don’t have to take my word for it.

Men on Reddit talk about these kinds of topics all the time, and when someone visits the AskMen forum to find out what men really think about something, many people are happy to explain in detail what their fellow “Redditors” want to know.

In a recent thread, a woman asked, “What is the most attractive thing a woman can do on a first date?”

Read On To Learn About These 21 Things Men Say The Most Attractive Women Do During An Amazing First Date!

1 . They Keep Their Phones Away

“We had a first date last night.

Neither of us looked at our phones the entire time until we looked around and realized they were cleaning the restaurant.

Three hours passed quickly, with no phone interruptions.”

2 . They Get Physical (Touch and Hug)

“The best way to show obvious interest is to be a little practical.

If you’re interested, tap him somehow.

Breaking the touch barrier and initiating some physical contact, even just a little, increases the intimacy of the encounter.

If you’re attracted to him, that’s a green light that you’re interested.”

3 . They Give Intense Stares

“Look back before disappearing from sight at the end.

Like, let’s say you’re getting into a taxi.

Just before you close the door, you get up again, look over the door and take one last look, then walk in and out.”

4 . They Take Action

“Once, I was dating a girl and I finally got to kiss her, but it was pretty light because I was still nervous.

She looked at me and asked, ‘What was that?’ Then she grabbed my shirt, pulled me up, and kissed me more deeply. I was smiling for a whole month.”

5 . They are punctual

“Show up on time”.

6 . They have good manners

“I had a few dates where the women showed up late, but I always got a text message update with an apology.

Sometimes unavoidable in São Paulo when you don’t live/work in the same area, but as long as you let me know and you’re polite, I honestly don’t mind.”

7 . They Show Interest

“Be interested in what I’m saying.

Kiss Me. I am a simple man”.

8 . They Take Initiative

“On one of the best dates I’ve ever had, the woman kissed me as soon as I opened the door and we introduced ourselves, to ease the pressure of worrying about a first kiss at the end of the night. I loved it”.

9 . They Make Eye Contact

“Deep eye contact and pleasant smell.”

10 . They Listen

“Show real interest During the date and afterward as well.

I’m not saying you need to be everywhere, listening to everything and such, just show genuine interest in the overall event, whether that’s starting conversations, or having a say in where to go.

(I’m tired of how many people don’t say where they want to go, if I’m asking you it’s because I don’t care, stop pretending it’s the same with you)

11 . They Mention A Second Date

“After the date/at the end, show that you want more.

There’s nothing more amazing (at least to me) than a woman confident enough to show that she likes you and is eager to go after you.”

12 . They Are Bold

“I also had a different girl who took me to the college library after our date and dared me to kiss her in the hallways. I won the challenge.”

13 . They Keep Things Light

“Talk to me like we’re not on a date.”

14 . They Actively Participate

“Active participation in starting and maintaining the conversation. It is a double way path”.

15 . They laugh

“Smile and laugh at our stupid jokes.”

17 . They are Discreet Savages

“A light sarcasm or dark humor.

Nothing crude and forced, but a stealthy, discreet allusion somewhere in the conversation that is undetectable to the untrained ear.”

18 . They Love Word Games

“High-level puns with no excuses.”

19 . They Are Human

“Really, just be a normal human being who has a solid sense of humor.”

20 . They Take the Lead

“To me, the most attractive thing a woman can do at any time, even on a first date, is taking charge.

Lead, be assertive, take initiative.”

21 . They Check In

“Tell me, ‘Let me know when you get home safely.’ It guarantees a second date, I know she is a good girl and raised right.”


The next time you prepare for a big, exciting first date, remember that men care just as much as you do, and in many cases, they are just as concerned as you are about making a positive first impression.