There are many different things that are not attractive to many different men.
Some things are general and some things are very specific.
Here are five of the most common reasons a man chooses to consider a girl “not for dating.”
1. Inability to Satisfy Your Mental Ability.
This has nothing to do with intellect or education.
Some of the “smartest” people don’t have the ability to have an interesting and fun conversation with anyone.
It’s not about specific topics either; I just mean the ability to talk freely about something and nothing, and enjoy every second of hearing new thoughts, ideas, ideologies, concepts, and questions that captivate me and create new neurological pathways in my brain.
If his mental or emotional capacity is not challenged by yours, you are not worth his time.
2. Inability to Satisfy Your Physical Capacity.
Most men are physically needy.
Some are more sensitive to touch than others, but we are very visual and sensual creatures.
Most loving men have a lot of love to give, and they love to give love.
This does not mean inappropriate public display of affection or forced appropriate affection; it just means letting physical attraction naturally run its course and feeling the affection.
It means feeling his touch most of the time he’s with you, and it can be in a million different ways.
Be creative and show your love how you would like it to feel.
3. Inability to Satisfy Your Adventurous Nature.
Men in the wild are hunters and adventurers.
We like to try new things, especially the ones that challenge us, and we love doing those challenges.
Nothing is more boring than a girl who either a) doesn’t support our adventurous nature – whether it’s skydiving, Muay Thai kickboxing, or something as simple as traveling to a new place every month to explore – or b) she doesn’t have the same kind of desire for new skills and knowledge.
No real man wants a girl who is satisfied as little as possible with him or herself.
4. Inability to Meet Your Spatial Requirements.
Any real man in his 20s is in the midst of the most important period in his career where he is trying new things like entrepreneurship, starting or changing jobs, and finding himself for the future of his and his family’s lives.
The last thing he needs is a girl who gives him emotional stress.
Understand his agitation, support him and challenge him to do better.
Maybe once try saying, “No, I want you to work on what you had to work on, see you in a few days” and see how much more he’ll love you.
After all, if you’re the chosen one, he’s doing it for you too.
5 . Inability To Satisfy Togetherness Concept.
It’s not all about you, nor is it about him.
If we’re dating, it’s about us.
We introduce ourselves to the world together now, so what you do reflects on me and vice versa.
There are certain sacrifices that need to be made.
Also, that means there has to be solid communication about everything because as we get to know each other more deeply, we need to see all layers of the two – the goofy, the serious, the sensual, the hungry, the angry – – and a simple conversation helps a lot.
