4- Girls want to be flirted, that’s why they make them difficult
No, no and re-no. Alpagising a girl more or less vulgarly in the street , whistling or even rubbing her in the metro is clearly not a good strategy to seduce a girl. On the contrary, this rude behavior is akin to harassment, which is to say the safest way to scare away any woman.
In the United States, a law has been passed in California to prevent se xual assault on American campuses: the “Yes Means Yes” which unambiguously defines the (very clear) contours of consent . And this “Yes, it’s yes” also applies to the field of dredging. Of course, there are codes implicit in the game of seduction (wait three days before calling again, wait a few hours before answering a text …). But in general, if a woman wants to go out with a boy, she makes it clear and quickly. Running after a girl who said “No thanks” will surely not make her change her mind. Worse, the heavy insistence makes pass the pretender for a desperate psychopath. And we don’t want that, do we?
5- The guys want s e x, the girls want to get laid
On the one hand, men, these horny animals shielded with testosterone who would only think of lust and would have a dick instead of the brain . On the other, the prude young women fed on romantic comedies, who fantasize about Prince Charming and dream only of one thing: to get married and have lots of children (until the end of time).
Strangely, this ancestral conception is widely shared, even today: a national survey “Context of s exuality in France” (CSF 2006) revealed that 73% of women and 59% of men agreed with the idea that “By nature, men have more s exual needs than women . ” Except that this very living myth is false. As researcher Kristen Mark told the Huffington Post , “research has shown that the partner who is less eager to have s ex can be both male and female. And this is not the conclusion of ‘one study. In my own research, based on three different panels of couples, I didn’tthe woman is also a s exual being: she is able to tape her boyfriend against a wall by giving him a voracious “I want you” or have an infinite fear of commitment. Just like a boy can dream of starting a pretty little family without being a castrated one.