Today, we’re going to talk about seven signs when a man is interested in you.
There is no woman or man alive who does not want the occult manual of the opposite gender.
We all want hidden signals to tell us what the other person is thinking.
Wouldn’t you love to know what he’s thinking about you right now?
What does he want you to do next?
Is he really the guy for you?
Here are some things you need to know about men. And unfortunately, we can’t read minds. That’s why I’m going to give you these seven unusual signs that a man is interested in you.
1. His friends know about you.
Guys are really quick to talk about that special girl they really like. If it’s you, he’ll talk to them about you. Because when a guy is into you, he will pull you into every area of his life.
Watch out for this sign that a man has a crush on you, and then meet his friends along the way. This is probably the most flattering way to do it for him, and he’ll notice. He will pull you deeper into your life the more you put effort into your friends.
2. He wants you.
You have his attention. We are in this new era of blue screens everywhere and ADHD is becoming the common way of describing a person. I have at least half a dozen people in my life who think being ADHD is actually cool in some way. At least you’d think about it from the way they brag about it.
When you have his attention, he will listen carefully. He will really pay attention to his words.
He might bring up something you said in a previous conversation. He will ask questions or seek your opinion and will actually answer for you.
When you have a man’s attention, he makes eye contact with you.
I know a guy’s eyes can wander from time to time. If you want to know why men look at other women, there is a reason and it has nothing to do with respect.
Men will make a point of focusing on you when they are interested. When you have his attention, he will be leaning toward you. His body language, well, actually, we have no room for error here.
He will want to approach you and turn his body to face you more directly, which is an important sign that a man is interested in you.
3. He can’t keep his hands off you.
I’m sure you know a woman who looks like a person with a bunch of kittens at a cat festival. I think the official term is “tendency to touch”.
Perhaps you have experienced this once or twice in your life. The reason a guy does this is that men are very tactile when it comes to beauty.
We see something that catches our attention and we want to touch it. It’s like the fulfillment of this cycle in our heads. It’s very hard for a guy to resist this urge to touch something that we find really interesting, attractive, or beautiful.
When you use all these products to make your hair, your skin, your lips, every inch of you so soft, how can we resist the urge? It’s very tempting.
And… no, that’s not an excuse for creepy paws. It’s just a simple stated fact.
Most guys show their physical affection with a lot of respect. He often touches your arm when he’s talking or your back and holds your hand when the time is right. These public displays of affection show your respect, affection, attention, and desire.
4. He initiates calls and sends you text messages.
First, he is the one who initiates. This one will probably be at the top of your “Oh man, I wish…” list, am I right?
Most women have experienced the incredible power of deafening silence when texting a guy.
That’s the problem. A guy can feel it in his heart when a woman is testing him.
We got used to this vibe from a woman. It all started when we were buying drinks at women’s bars and we took a shit test at almost every opportunity in conversation. You may not have noticed that you were doing this, but we feel it in every cell in our body.
The test is when you are bothering a man and then you test your masculinity by exhibiting naughty girl behavior to see how a man reacts to you.
Guys know when you’re practicing your old tricks. I know you’re screaming at your screen right now, saying, “Carlos, I would never treat a man like that.” You did and it’s okay because it was expected back then.
Now that we’re a little older, testing needs to stop. It’s more about open communication and avoiding games.
So when you text a man in a way that seems to want a response a little too quickly, we’ll feel pressured by it.
Then we feel a little anxious because we probably like you, but now we’re a little confused.
Why all this anticipation all of a sudden?
Are you being needy? Oh no!
That’s how panic goes. And that’s how guys think, ladies.
So when you unexpectedly receive a text message from a man, your eyes light up and you get that deliciously amused feeling in your belly that tells you a man is into you. And…you should, because that’s definitely a sign that a man is into you.
Let me give you a key point which is one of the most important things you can learn about dating a guy.
The way to get a man to text you more is to text you a little less than he would like. The more a guy wonders where he is with you, the better for you.
5. He adjusts his life and habits to see you.
Guys are just as busy as girls. We’re a little firm in our ways.
When a guy meets a woman who’s worth it to him, he’s willing to make some changes. He will adjust his life to pull you closer to him and adjust his schedule to accommodate you. He will change some of his routines just to make you happy.
The guys will make room for you to think it’s worth having him.
6. He talks about what you have in common.
One of the most indirect signs that a man has a crush on you is that he’s going to talk about things you have in common.
Many women miss this sign that a man is into you because they are hearing him describe specific things he likes and point out certain characteristics.
But, some guys don’t do it right away. Instead, he might speak a little more indirectly about how you fit into our lives.
At the end of the day, men are thinking about how the relationship would work if things progressed and we married you.
If you expect a man to tell you how much he loves your hair, beauty, wardrobe or whatever, he may already be telling you that he really likes you with all the things he sees you have in common.
In the end, the things you have in common will make you a successful couple.
7. He keeps coming back for more.
This signifies that a man is into you is always underestimated by women.
Guys range from obnoxious and confident to overly shy.
When a guy likes a girl, there’s one thing we want to do and that’s to be around her or just have her see us.
The problem is, these idiots and arrogant guys are usually the first to approach you, right?
These are the guys who have the guts to come and do the “unthinkable” which is to start a conversation with you.
That nice, quiet, shy guy over there in the corner.
You see him, right?
He’s the one who’s been minding your beer all night, trying to find the right selection of words to win your heart.
Of course, he wants to avoid rejection. This is also the guy who usually freaks out and goes home early to have some fun with Netflix.
You have to understand that a man’s greatest contribution to your romance is simply continuing to ask you out and coming back for more.
He’ll call you if he’s genuinely interested in you, and he’ll also make an effort to see you regularly. It’s not just about having a Saturday night date.
When a man is into you, he wants to spend more time with you, no matter what you do together.
If a guy invites you to hang out with him and watch movies at his house, grab a quick coffee after work, or meet in the laundry room on Sunday afternoon, it’s an almost definite sign that he’s into you.
Men bond simply by spending time with you. This is how men often fall in love with you without you even realizing it.
I’ve heard women complain that the guy in their life didn’t go out every night, was cheating and reckless. They didn’t realize they were pushing a guy away who was actually falling in love with them.
If you’re wondering, does this guy really love me?
Is he escaping?
In fact, a man shows certain signs when he thinks you might be the one.
More importantly, he’s really looking for a very special sign in you that tells you whether or not he can move on with you, commit to you, and propose.