How to make a girl fall in love with you
It takes a lot of sacrifice to make a relationship work, especially at a time when quick fixes are the norm. So something as small as showing appreciation for your girl could go a long way in making things work out between the two of you, even if things seem to be falling apart. Without further ado, here are some of the things you can do for your girl in an attempt to keep the fire burning:
1. Congratulating your girl regularly will make her love you
Ok, we all know that it takes a century for your girl to put on makeup and another century to do her hair. It also sounds almost miraculous how it fits into your jeans so you can look good when the two of you are out on a date. Truth be told, your girl does a lot of things to keep you interested in her, and most of the time, these things go unnoticed. So as a man who is interested in making his girl fall in love with him over and over again and thus keeping the relationship afloat, he must learn to appreciate and compliment her. Does she and her hairstyle look like a million dollars? It wouldn’t hurt to let you know. Women are emotional beings and they need security, and that is exactly what you must do for your girl so that she will love you forever.
2. Your girl will love you more if you listen to her regularly
As mentioned above, your girl really goes through a lot and since she is a superwoman, she often does it even without your help. In fact, all your girl could ask for is a listening ear. So when your girl comes to you to complain about her best friend Keisha who stole her hairstyle, boring as it may sound, just listen. By doing so, you will take a lot of pressure off your girl and she will be eternally grateful. Who knows, just hearing her complain about seemingly feminine issues could go a long way toward saving their relationship. Not listening to her regularly can make her feel emotional, and whether you like it or not, your girl could end up finding someone to listen to her and her problems. And believe me There are about a billion other guys who are willing to listen to her rumble all day while they give her a foot massage. Don’t believe me. Well, try to check his DMs and get mesmerized. That said, try to listen to her even if you don’t feel like it and you will make her love you.
3. Make your girl your number one priority and she will love you even more
Someone said the cavalry is dead, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go to 1956 with your girl. It wouldn’t hurt if you opened doors and pulled out chairs. Even if you just argued and are still bitter, put a coat on his shoulders the moment it starts to snow or rain. The goal of doing this is to make sure your girl feels wanted. If your girl feels wanted, she will want you back, and this is how your relationship will stand the test of time. On top of that, make sure you are attending to her emotional needs and putting her before any other woman in your life. This will certainly make your girl feel very lucky to have someone like you, causing her to fall deeper into the den of love with you. So if it is true that the cavalry died, then it’s time for you to find a necromancer to solve you, just kidding. No black magic here, please.
4. Your girl will love you if you stay clean
Research says that women are drawn to natural musk, but that doesn’t excuse you from taking a shower every now and then. Even if you don’t like to trim that beard every now and then, just do it for your relationship. As a man, you not only have to take care of your woman’s emotional needs, but her physical needs as well. Take the time to iron that shirt and polish your shoes because your shoes are the first thing your girl looks at and if they are not clean she will not be happy with you. If you don’t know a thing or two about cleaning, it’s never too late to give it a try. Just be sure to sign up for classes online, or else make Google your friend. I’m sure if you ask your girl for help, she will be more than happy to help you because when you look good, your girl earns the compliment. Then, dear men, it doesn’t hurt to give your girl some ‘street cred’ as it will make her love you even more. You want her to love you, right? The obvious answer is yes, so start working on your cleanup.
5. Serenade your girl out of nowhere
If you choose to doubt the power of using music to make your girl love you, then look at the music industry today. Trey Songz, Chris Brown, Miguel, Neyo, and August Alsina (just to name a few) have been known to drive women around the world crazy. And why is that? Because romantic music / voice speaks directly to a girl and her soul. You may want to request singing lessons to save your little girl and your relationship in general. Learn to play emotional tunes on a guitar or piano. If not, then do your best to wow your girl with some remarkably hot vocals. Hit those high notes and you will definitely make her eat out of the palm of your hands, making her love you even more. We are not all born crooners, but luckily we can learn from time to time, making us feel like we won a lottery in the end. Remember, you don’t have to be as good as Chris Brown, just don’t croak like a frogman. There is a clear difference between “croon” and “croak”.
6. She will love you more if you are a clown
No, don’t paint your face if that was the first thing that came to mind. What I mean by being a clown is being fun and fun. Your girl will never fall in love with you if you are the type who takes life too seriously. Have you ever heard the phrase “all girls just want to have fun?” Well, it doesn’t get more true than this, especially when it comes to your relationship between you and that girl that you would like to refer to as ‘the only one’ from time to time. With that said, it is imperative that you try to learn a couple of funny jokes and stories. The great thing about being funny is that you don’t have to be natural. It all starts with seeing the good in every situation and being honest about it. It’s all about having positive, upbeat vibes that will make your girl and your relationship thrive.
7. woo your girl, her family and her friends
Trust me, your girl almost always makes romantic decisions based on the opinions of her family and her closest friends. So if you end up disliking you, then you and your girl probably won’t do so well. That being said, if you want your girl and your overall relationship to be successful, then stop feeling overly emotional about taking your girl and the rest of her squad out. Be a gentleman and have fun when you are around them, and they will definitely be a good word. You must also be in a position to extend the same courtesy when it comes to your family and you will surely win. If your family approves and speaks highly of you, then you are surely winning and she will definitely want you even more.
8. Don’t worry about the little things and she will love you even more.
So you called your girl ten times and she didn’t answer? Ignore and focus on other things. But if you want to start texting a million and asking where she was, then the picture you’re painting of your girl is that you’re insecure. A girl will never have a relationship with an insecure person, period. So if you want her to love you, then you have to let her be the emotional person in the relationship because that’s how it works and not the other way around. If you call her and she doesn’t answer, leave her alone. Most of the time, your child will call you when she can and give you an explanation. Even if he doesn’t, it’s not your job to make a mountain out of an anthill because that won’t make him want you.
9. Being mysterious makes me love you
If your girl is always thinking of you, then you can be sure that she will fall in love with you even more. If she always finds something surprising about you, it will keep her intrigued because she just doesn’t know what other cool items you’ll get out of your proverbial magic hat. For example, you can take her to the downtown Chinese restaurant and order your food in Chinese, catching your girl off guard. If you want your girl to love you and keep the relationship going, then try to be mysterious. Being mysterious in a relationship does not mean keeping secrets, it means always improving yourself so that she takes delight in discovering your other hidden qualities. Keep in mind that ignoring her will only make her emotional and should not be considered mysterious. Mystery is an art that takes time to achieve,
10. Keep time even if your girl doesn’t
It will take your girl about two hours to put on makeup, three hours looking for the perfect shoes and another five hours trying on dresses. She is doing this so I can see you good. Don’t go planning a revenge mission to get revenge on your girl because it will only show that you are a weak person. If you want to keep your girl and relationship intact, you have to be the exact opposite without being emotional about it. Trust me, your girl will love you more if you keep time, even when you go out on dates. Once again, for her to love you even more, learn the art of keeping time and you will be safe.
What other things can you do to make her love you more?
Unfortunately for most men, asking her to be his girlfriend and to accept is not the end of the road. The only way to keep her interested and invested in the relationship is by working hard without taking shortcuts. You can always be her cheerleader, control her, and always reinvent ways to love her more. Last but not least, also remember to focus on your own thing. If you keep prioritizing her and don’t take care of yourself, then your value as a man disappears almost immediately, and we don’t want that to happen now, do we?