What to do when he suddenly stops texting you: 15 rules to follow

You go out and meet a guy who is cute, interesting, and funny. Life is suddenly good for you. They can exchange numbers and start texting. They text each other for weeks and even start dating. Over time, her texting starts to dwindle, and eventually one day she stops texting you and doesn’t even reply to your messages. You start wondering what you did to get the guy to stop texting you. Everyone hates when a guy stops texting them for no reason. It sucks when a boy blows you up. The weeks you texted and hung out made you think you had a connection. So you wonder why, out of nowhere, he doesn’t text you anymore. You don’t know what to do or how to react.

1. Don’t blame yourself

The first thing to remember when a guy stops texting you is not to take it personally. Don’t even get it off your phone by throwing it against the wall. It is nobody’s fault. The guy couldn’t be the culprit either. Remember that not everyone ignores text messages. At one point or another, you have forgotten to reply to a text message. It could have been busy and forgotten. Maybe that’s why he doesn’t answer you. There are many reasons why they don’t respond to you, but either way, you shouldn’t blame yourself. Do not start running scenarios in your head for which you do not respond. Just give him time and he will start texting you again.

2. Give him some space

When a guy stops texting you, don’t keep texting him continuously. Give it space because it might be exactly what it needs. He might be overwhelmed by all the text messages you sent him for weeks without a break. Make sure the guy has enough room to start missing you. Have some self-control and refrain from texting him. If she starts texting you out of nowhere, don’t ask her why she was silent or respond right away. Take some time before responding. Your delay will make you curious and want to keep texting you.

3. Ask him why he stopped texting

If you can’t move on with your life without knowing why a guy stopped texting you, go ahead and ask him. You have to be careful when asking. Ask the guy in a polite and funny way what made him stop texting you. It hurts when a guy ignores you, but it hurts even more when he’s repulsed by your rude behavior. So be nice if you want me to text you again.

4. Think about moving forward

If it’s been more than two weeks since he stopped texting you, then it’s about time you started thinking about moving on. Don’t obsess over a guy who might have already forgotten you or is taking you for granted. Consider going ahead by exposing yourself. There are many more guys who are willing to date and are willing to text you as often as you like. Try blind dates and online dating and you will forget about him.

5. Stay busy

One of the things you can do when a guy stops texting you is to distract yourself. Stay busy so you can forget about it. This is the time when you start to follow up on that program that you missed or go to the gym as you had planned. Stay busy with work or hang out with your friends. Over time, it may come out of nowhere and start texting you again.

6. Call him

There’s something you need to know about how to call a guy who stopped texting you. If you’ve texted a guy multiple times without him responding, don’t call him. It is obvious that they are ignoring you and they are guaranteed to ignore your call. If you’ve texted him once and haven’t gotten a response in two days, you might want to call him and find out what’s going on. Be sure to call only once to see how you are doing. Calling multiple times is a lot weirder than texting her a few times. The guy may be waiting for your call to start texting you again.

7. Don’t ask his friends

When a guy stops texting, never try to communicate with his friends. It’s wrong to think that you can call their friends out of nowhere and ask why they haven’t texted you in weeks. However, if you have become friends with one of his friends, you can ask him if he has been in contact with your boy. Remember not to keep your hopes up. There’s a high chance that if he hasn’t been texting you for weeks, his friends might not notice.

8. Don’t text him continuously without a reply

It’s never a good idea to keep texting a guy continuously after he stopped texting you for weeks. It will make him think that you are insecure and this is never a good look for you. It will seem desperate to him and it is always possible that he was simply busy and did not have time to answer you. If you’ve sent him two unanswered texts, give him time. He will soon start texting you again when he has time.

9. Don’t make accusations

When a guy stops texting you for weeks, don’t panic and start making accusations. When you accuse him of something he didn’t do, he will spoil any connection you had with him. If you see him active on social media but he doesn’t respond to you, don’t start accusing him. You do not know the reason for his silence. This will only annoy him and the chances of him texting you again will be slim or nil.

10. Remember if he has plans

You should try to remember if he told you that he was going to be busy at work and that is why he stopped texting you. You could have forgotten that he told you that he would not be available or that he forgot to tell you. All you have to do is try to remember if he told you or is just avoiding you. If he had plans, he will eventually text you again.


11. Know the 24-hour rule

When a guy stops texting you, it’s hard to avoid the temptation to text him. It is important to be calm and avoid texting him continuously. You don’t know why he stopped texting you. So if you want me to text you again, learn about the 24-hour rule. The 24-hour rule requires you to send only one text message during 24 hours. Make sure the boy doesn’t seem so desperate. You can send another text message after 24 hours. If you text him multiple times without a reply, have no hope that he’ll text you again. Let it go. However, if he suddenly texts you out of nowhere and doesn’t give you a reason, be careful with him.

12. Accept what happens to most women

As beautiful and desirable as you are, you should know that many women like you have been the victim of men who stop texting them for weeks and then out of nowhere reappear and start texting again. This is how most guys are. You just have to know that you are not the only victim. It has happened to many women. You just have to learn to cope.

13. Have the “whatever” attitude

The best thing to do for yourself is to have a “whatever” attitude. You don’t need to worry about why the guy won’t text you for weeks. Have the attitude that if he wants to text you, he will. It is difficult to separate from such a stressful situation. However, it is important that you have a “whatever” attitude or you could go crazy trying to figure out why he stopped texting you. It might surprise you that he texts you out of nowhere, so stay calm.


14. Use other ways to communicate

When a guy suddenly stops texting you and you don’t know what’s up, you can try communicating with him through other social media platforms. If you followed him on social media like Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter, use them to find out what’s going on. Ask in a fun and polite way so you don’t sound like a stalker. You can try sending him a funny photo or video that he likes and when he replies, remove it from there.

15. Ignore him when he answers weeks later

When a guy stops texting you for weeks and then out of nowhere texts you trying to figure out what you’re doing, just ignore him. He just started texting you because his previous plan to date someone else didn’t work out. He’s texting you again because you were his backup plan. Ignore him and don’t let him take you for granted. You may not know why a guy stopped texting you. The only thing you can do is know how to deal with the situation. If you don’t have the patience to wait for a guy to start texting you again, keep going. You deserve to be with someone who won’t ignore you. Therefore, never settle for less.