Finding a drinking partner is difficult, finding “THE right one” is even more difficult. Letting go of a drinking partner is painful, letting go of THE good is stupid and many of us commit this kind of stupidity. Some realize it and go back but for others, it is already too late. We are terrified of the commitment or do not feel ready, it is too early and the truth is that generally, it is a terrifying step. It is the most important decision of a lifetime and we are bound to be afraid of it. But know that we are a man, a real (or a woman, a real) when we face this terrifying thought and fight it with our love.
We focus here on men but it is a truth about anyone who has a perfect partner in their life without fully committing to it. Love will always trump any thought and doubt that intrudes on our minds, but it takes courage. Here are some of the things that a man does when he finds the right one.
There are different types of people, with different personalities and manias that distance them from certain people and bring them closer to others. Love is always unconditional and you must realize that a person capable of seeing beyond your imperfections and your weaknesses will be the one who will stay by your side by winds and tides.
However, there are some undeniable characteristics that make him the ideal man. Many of us are able to survive with others, but few of us are able to live happily with someone. I am not saying that you will be happy throughout life but simply that a real guy will know that happiness is worth fighting alongside you. Here are some of the characteristics that a real man will demonstrate and that will set him apart, but remember that the only thing that matters is unconditional love.
At the end of the day, this unconditional love will make him better and give him the strength to face anything by your side.
1. HE’S NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT
When he finds the perfect girl, he will have the guts to hold on to her. He will not let his mind trap him by forcing him to act otherwise. As I said earlier, engagement is a terrifying thought, but if you love someone sincerely and they mean a lot to you, you will be able to push those thoughts away and accept that person into your life.
Expressing yourself and verbalizing it is another sign of your psychological commitment to this lady and your desire for the whole world to know.
When people look to the future, they see a lot of different things. The future is not a pretty sight for everyone. People who have had a difficult life expect nothing good from the future. People don’t really believe in them until someone else begins to believe in them. When a real man meets the right girl, he will be injected with a cascade of positive waves and even if the future seems terrifying to him, he will no longer be afraid of it. He will be ready to fight anything and overturn the implacable plans of fate because the power of love has always been able to overturn the fate of men. He is the source of stories now inscribed in the annals of history. Such is the immeasurable power of love.
Guys reluctant to fight for them often succeed, as if by magic, in finding the power to be strong for their spouse. They will reach the highest peaks just to make her happy. These guys, incapable of considering compromise or sacrifice for another person will be able to give up everything for the right girl. However, you need to make sure that such a man keeps his originality and his ambitions intact. You owe him that. Never let it become miserable just for your good.
2. NEVER TRY TO CHANGE IT
The perfect woman doesn’t need to change and that’s how he sees her. He will appreciate this person and do everything in his power to keep him as he is. He won’t want anything else. He will make sure that this lady knows her worth and he will not miss any opportunity to prove to her what she is worth.
As I said earlier, love is an unconditional bond. We all have small imperfections and flaws that scare us. They instill fear in us and make us think that in a certain way, we do not deserve to be loved because our scars and our wounds cannot be accepted by anyone and therefore we get lost. In the process, we also begin to deny ourselves any potential love. But whoever is the right one will stop us in our race and this leak has been going on for many years now. It will lead you to believe that whatever happens, you are worth it.
All the girls have somewhat bizarre whims and habits. They are linked to their personality and make them what they are. This is the case for everyone. The good boy will not only tolerate these somewhat strange behaviors but will find them more adorable! He will encourage you to do what you want, whatever it is and despite everything. He will not force you to become someone else. For nothing in the world, he will not want you to become a tasteless and bland version of yourself. He will love your originality.
3. IT WILL LEAVE NO SIGNIFICANT DETAILS TO REACH IT
When you end up meeting the love of your life, things automatically seem more beautiful, happier, more colorful and better than anything you could imagine. Generally, you become calmer and happier, which is why these little details that usually annoyed you no longer seem important enough to be fought or become subjects of argument.
In all relationships, there are minor conflicts and disputes. This does not mean that the relationship has reached a point of no return. Love is a journey to the heart of sorrow, joy, tragedy, and happiness. It is dotted with sad moments and events capable of breaking you. However, if your companion really loves you, these things will become simple obstacles that you will have to overcome together.
You will never conceive of these obstacles as roadblocks, but simply as something that both of you will have to step over when you encounter them. It’s actually quite simple. Your companion will give you the motivation and the courage to cross them each time they stand in your way. He will be your light in the darkness.
When an argument arises in your relationship, you will both know when to end it. A man knows that sometimes he will simply have to let you win and acquiesce for the sake of your happiness; this will lead you to him and to love him more. You will even apologize to him when you act childishly. At the end of the day, no argument will take precedence over your couple. You will understand this, both of you.
What is more, you will realize that he is trying to control his anger. If he had fits of fury in the past, you will notice a major change on this point. He will try to stay calm and take it upon himself in those moments when before he would have exploded.
You will see your companion happy and seeing him happy will make you happy.
4. HE WILL NOT HIDE YOU
The first sign of the seriousness of a relationship is when your partner begins to talk about your relationship and your happiness. This shows that he is sincerely eager to get involved and that he does not see himself living with anyone other than you.
Your companion knows that you are not there to make a tapestry. He knows you like to stand up in the crowd and show off your uniqueness in one way or another. He will make sure everyone knows that you are his girlfriend and that he loves you with all his heart.
Whether you are at a family reunion or a party, he will be extremely proud to introduce you to everyone and all his friends. He’ll let you star and won’t need anyone’s approval to love you. If friends or loved ones have a problem with you or don’t like you (in one way or another), they won’t care. He knows that only what he thinks of you matters.
Getting approval in our society is sometimes extremely difficult and we really don’t have to. But for this purpose, we assign ourselves different roles. You may have noticed that you act differently depending on the person in front of you. With some people, you can laugh like a hysteric; with others, you can only sit calmly and tapestry.
But, your companion will know your true personality and appreciate your originality. You will not be afraid of anything in front of him and he will make sure to accept you for what you are and not for what you are not. It will not cover you with false admiration.
5. HE IS NOT AFRAID TO TALK ABOUT THE FUTURE
He will not be afraid that his freedom will be taken from him. In fact, he will see this as an opportunity to finally have a partner 24/24 hours and 7/7 days with whom he can share his plans for the future. A man, a real one will not shy away from discussing the future, whether it be housing or marriage projects. He will finally realize the importance of talking about the future with his partner without any fear or hesitation.
A real man is a man who wants to spend eternity with you and make plans for the future. He will not only think of realizing his dreams and realizing his ambitions but he will try to make you a place among them. If his wish is to buy a house and settle in the countryside, he will also take into account your preferences. Before making a major decision, he will discuss it with you. But he will be sure of one thing: he is unable to imagine a future of which you are not apart. You are inseparable and love is what binds you together for eternity.
6. EVERY DAY WILL CONSIDER ANOTHER OPPORTUNITY TO PROVIDE YOU WITH LOVE
A real man will never miss a chance to prove to his beloved that he loves her with all his heart. Whether it’s a small compliment or a big bouquet. Since he knows how difficult it is to find THE perfect person, proving his love for you will be the most important task of his day. This can be manifested by a kiss on your forehead daily before you go to work or by something you’ve been wanting for a long time.
A man, a real one will treat THE woman like the partner of a lifetime, a true friend. He will not hesitate and will never be embarrassed to express his love to him and that is what makes a man, a MAN!
Often, little things and little things can make a difference. Chivalry is a forgotten concept. However, it is no less important. A real man will do those little things that will make you blush. Sometimes he will surprise you with dinner and other days he will cook for you. All of these things will convince you of his love and the fact that fighting for him is worth it.
In the end, I just want to say that a man, a real one, the one who wants to spend eternity with you will be different. Most men will do all of these things, but the big question is, for how long? If a man continues to do these things, even when you no longer expect them, you are a lucky woman because men like that are becoming scarce. You need to make sure you give them the support and motivation they need to keep them who they are for you. You must also love him with all your soul. He deserves it!