Find out why you’re afraid to love (Decryption based on your star sign)


Aries, you are a pioneer and like to live a hundred hours. You cherish your independence and your space more than anything else. You are not afraid to move forward alone. In fact, you are even more efficient this way.

You are selfish, self-absorbed and obsessed with your own needs. You feel like you have neither the time nor the energy to take care of someone else. In matters of love, your greatest fear is that a partner will slow you down, that it will rob you of this freedom that you hold so dear. You are afraid of losing this sense of autonomy that is burning with fierce fire in you.

In truth, you dream of a relationship, of a love for two. You are passionate and love to love with all your might, but you are afraid of losing this space that you need. You want a secure relationship, without jeopardizing your freedom and from your experience, things often happen differently. You have already left someone or stopped loving them because you were running out of time. You are afraid of losing your identity again.

Opening your life to someone is also difficult for you. You are impulsive and you have already fallen in love quickly, investing yourself in someone before you really get to know them.

You knew the burning passion, but ended up being consumed in an instant and that is why today, you find it difficult to get attached. In fact, you find it hard to commit for fear of engaging with the wrong person.

Opening yourself is not something you do naturally. Love terrifies you because it involves revealing your true identity and you are afraid of being rejected or judged. You are rigid in appearance, but gentle in reality. Some people reproach you for being selfish and you can be, but you are especially anxious like all of us. You are afraid to reveal your personality.

Getting someone into your world is difficult and if you get there, it’s only because that someone is special. Once you develop feelings for someone, you love with a furious passion. You are afraid that this intensity will turn against you, we do not all carry the same passion within us and you would not want to scare someone because of this. And you could quickly suffer, in case your feelings are not mutual.

You are afraid to let someone enter your world, change your routine and your lifestyle, allow them to push your limits and finish the broken heart.


You are stubborn and routine. You hate change, it even terrorizes you. Your comfort zone delimits your intimate sphere and you only let a few people enter your private space. You have erected a real wall and people often find you distant, even cold. You also built a fortress, preventing love from entering.

You are terribly afraid of losing your independence. You have not counted on anyone except you for so long, perhaps even learned that few people would be there for you that you have no desire to feel dependent on someone. You are afraid to lean on someone and then be abandoned.

You give the impression of being calm but deep down, you are a true romantic , waiting for a love story that lasts for eternity and therefore stability. You are flirtatious but you have trouble finding someone who matches you since you are hoping, deep down, for a lasting relationship.

You don’t want to reorganize your life and adapt it to someone who will eventually go away and force you to start all over again. By falling in love and becoming a couple, you may finally feel that sense of security that you dream of. But the idea of ​​finding that security and eventually losing it terrifies you. You do not want to know security and stability so that they ultimately escape you.

You may have thought you found the right one, but you ended up suffering. You are afraid that you will end up no longer needing you, then you tend to forget yourself for the benefit of the other. Thus, many have taken your kind for granted and for weakness.

You are so generous that you may have already been with partners who did not respect your limits. Now you have a hard time letting a man approach you and giving you the chance to experience something new. It is therefore difficult for you to know whether or not you will find this eternal love that you have always dreamed of.


You are unpredictable. The only thing that is predictable with you is the fact that you will never stop changing your mind. Your curiosity about life, others and everything around you is limitless.

You are afraid of love because you are afraid of being limited in one way or another.

You belong to an air sign, airy and tending to flutter, without ever staying in place. You like having the choice and a relationship scares you, in the sense that you would always wonder if this person is the right one or not. Part of you is afraid of constantly wondering about your other possibilities. You also live with the fear of losing your interest in your partner.

You want to love, as flirty as you are and even if you are attracted to new things. You dream of meeting someone who is full of resources, who matches you and who broadens your horizons. You are afraid of falling in love and that it is not enough, you are afraid that it is not as important as your desire for freedom and your curiosity.

What scares you the most is the calm that love brings. You are thirsty for experiences and changes and you are afraid that a stable relationship will only bring you boredom. You constantly need to have this feeling of discovering and evolving over the course of life. You are afraid that love will be a brake on all this.

Nothing scares you more than a predictable and orderly life. If you find yourself in an organized life or if you are not intellectually or s exually stimulated, you are doomed to go. You don’t want to love someone and then realize that you don’t love them anymore.

You are also afraid of getting lost. Part of you thinks that loving means losing your adventurous nature, your social life and even your free spirit. You tend to go from one overnight relationship to another and not to get too involved.

But once you allow yourself to invest, you sacrifice and give yourself, maybe a little too much. You are too generous and have certainly lost some feathers. Maybe keep your distance so you don’t lose your identity.


Cancer, you belong to the sweetest and most attentive sign of the zodiac. You care deeply about others and are not afraid to show your sensitivity. You love people and you invest 100% in your relationships, without even thinking that you could suffer.

You are loyal and devoted, even when you are in contact with selfish or toxic partners. You may have ever made unhealthy compromises for the sake of a relationship or sacrificed your well-being out of love and you may have suffered because of someone who didn’t show you any gratitude. You don’t want to relive this type of disappointment and the pain that comes with it.

You are afraid of love because you do not want to feel depreciated. When you love, you offer your heart and your soul and you are afraid of receiving only indifference in return. Like your counterpart, the Scorpion, you are afraid of not being loved as intensely as you like.

When it comes to love, your expectations are high and that’s what makes you a bit on the sidelines, because you don’t want to settle for mediocre love or just be an option . If it’s not a fairy tale, you feel like it’s not for you.

You don’t want to waste your time with someone who is not the right one. Love is serious business for you, something you don’t take lightly. Choosing to love someone is choosing the long term. You want closeness and need emotional security more than anything else.

Your past disappointments and injuries have traumatized you. You’re afraid of getting the wrong idea, of a relationship that ends up shattered. You are afraid of falling in love with someone who is not reliable.

Your sensitive nature makes you afraid to open up. Basically, you are anxious and you constantly wonder if you are good enough. And you are afraid to let in someone who feels the same.

You are terribly afraid of rejection and of being “seen”. You fight in order to be able to open up, also because you are afraid of revealing your sweetness. You are afraid to reveal your sensitivity and your kindness and thus be at the mercy of another. This is why, it seems easier to take care of others, since it assumes that you will not be vulnerable … And to open up to love is to be at the height of vulnerability.


House five, home of lovers, love and expressiveness is that of the Lion. You love everything related to love. It is among the things you prefer. You love falling in love, you love talking about love, you love love.

Falling in love is easy; staying that way and finding the right person is much more difficult. In a sense, you are afraid of love because you are afraid of being disappointed. When it comes to choosing a partner, you are extremely difficult and demanding, lest you settle for the wrong person. And that is normal, but in your case, it is a bit excessive and it becomes an excuse in order to repel potential partners.

Leo, you belong to the most generous sign of the zodiac and you prefer to give than to receive, but you need someone who is as generous as you. Gifts don’t interest you as much as affection and emotional chemistry. You are afraid that your emotional needs will not be met and you know that in this case, you would quickly tire of your partner.

You need admiration, respect and dedication. It is possible that these are things that you have given before, without receiving them in return. You may have loved more than others and may have experienced more heartache than average.

You no longer want to know this sadness. You are terrified of reliving the pain of separation and even more terrified that you may be lied to. Let’s be honest, your past has left you with a few trust issues.

One of your biggest fears in love is that your partner may no longer love you. And that is partly due to your anxieties. You are so afraid of rejection that you tend to push others away before they do it themselves. You let love slip through your fingers, convincing yourself that letting someone go is the best thing to do.

Your pride and your pragmatism are very important to you and you are afraid that love will compromise these qualities because as soon as it is love, you let yourself be guided by your feelings and your instinct.

You need to be in control and so love scares you since you absolutely don’t want to give up on that. You don’t like losing power and having feelings such as love, jealousy or grief. Your need for independence is fundamental and losing it terrifies you.


People will only see what you allow them to see. You live surrounded by protective walls and excel in the art of hiding your so-called flaws. You struggle to feel beautiful and dignified. This inferiority complex stems from your analytical and critical nature. Yes, you are hard on others but you are harder on yourself. You have a heightened awareness of your shortcomings and weaknesses.

You dream of perfectionism and your demands prevent you from realizing that you are worthy of being loved. So you get into a vicious circle and attract only emotionally unstable, destroyed and lost people, as if you only felt worthy of those. You are afraid of being with someone who deserves you, because you would be constantly afraid of not deserving them.

You have a deep fear of love because of what real chemistry entails. The idea of ​​opening yourself up and exposing yourself terrifies you. Not only are you afraid that your sensitive and vulnerable heart will be discovered, but you are also afraid of discovering things about yourself that you do not like and that therefore may not please the other.

Your expectations of yourself are so high that you are afraid of not meeting those of a potential partner. This is another part of your life where you let your analytical thinking take over your feelings.

Perhaps you have become aware of this dream that you harbored without knowing it – being discovered by someone. Intimacy scares you, but deep down, you dream of it more than anything else. Maybe by letting someone in, you were heartbroken and ended up alone or unloved. You now carry with you a constant fear of being betrayed and subconsciously repel all potential partners.

You constantly balance between extreme paranoia and excessive confidence. You need someone to trust but you are afraid of falling in love with someone who will be more important to you than you are to his. Another consequence of your inferiority complex.


Libra, although your sickly indecisiveness and your fear of loneliness can push you to have more tomorrow adventures than necessary, you have a deep desire to like to have your head spinning.

You belong to one of those signs that dream of true love. In fact, finding a partner that matches you is one of your life priorities. You want a deep, meaningful relationship and you will be satisfied with nothing less in love.

You dream of a love that pushes you to give your body, your mind and your soul to another. But your desire for love like this is in constant struggle with your fear of reality.

A bit like Virgo, you have a heightened awareness of your own faults. Certainly because you are a little too concerned about reflecting an ideal image of yourself and because you are too interested in what other people think.

You are charming, excel in the art of light conversation, are smiling and affable but you are afraid to go beyond appearances. Intimacy scares you because you don’t want to immerse yourself in the mad realm of feelings. You are deep but do not know how to manage your feelings. So you talk a lot, but don’t say too much.

You are afraid to reveal your weaknesses because you do not like to be a source of disappointment. You are more concerned about hurting others than hurting yourself. That everything is always peaceful and harmonious is so important to you that you tend to ignore the problems and muzzle your own pain.

All of this has brought you grief and made you feel lonely. This is something that you now avoid by leaving first, thus avoiding being abandoned.

You are so afraid of loneliness that you reject love rather than welcoming it with open arms. Your way of operating is strange: you run away from love so as not to be abandoned.


It is clear that your frank fear of love is born from your deep fear of betrayal. You naturally find it difficult to trust others, especially those close to you. And this fear is even deeper than you might think, it is accompanied by a fear of rejection and abandonment.

But the thing you’re even more afraid of, more afraid of than being betrayed or trusting the wrong person, is being “discovered.” You expect others to be 100% honest and open with you, but you only show them what you want them to see. You seem friendly and warm, but in reality you are so reserved and unwilling to talk about yourself that people don’t even realize it.

Some people say you are mysterious and you are indeed secret. You may seem calm and calm, but you are hiding a lot of emotions in yourself. And your partners quickly realize that they will never really know you. You are afraid to love because you are afraid to reveal your true identity to the wrong person. If you open up, you want it to be for life. You will confide your secrets, your thoughts, your feelings, your shame, your past and what you are to one person.

He will be the person you will love with a burning and fierce passion. And you’re afraid of doing that only to end up being betrayed, your heart crushed and almost irreparable as it may have been in the past, because you did something you never did: expose yourself, show a great love to face only disloyalty.

If we had to choose only one word to describe you, it would be; intense. Your intensity is overflowing, especially when it comes to love, and you never do anything in half, especially in love. When you love, you love deeply, completely and to a certain extent, unconditionally.

You love love and passion and even your arguments are ignited. You are frankly honest. You’ve already been told that you “do too much” for those you love. Since you are afraid of giving that impression again then, you are trying to stay in control, refusing to be rejected again.

You are afraid of being dependent on someone. You have already loved deeply, authorizing this person to become your universe. To a point where your partner was your one and only source of happiness and comfort.

After this aborted relationship, you did a lot of work on yourself to find joy and it took you a long time. You are afraid to love because you are afraid of losing yourself again to someone.

But your fear secretes, perhaps the most buried is the fear of happiness. You take everything so seriously in life that it almost becomes a matter of life and death. Life is like a roller coaster and you just don’t know how to embrace happiness when it is in front of you.

True love can be in front of you and all you can do is tell yourself that it’s too good to be true and then do what you always do: be taken by paranoia, enter into a logic of self-destruction and sabotage.


Sagittarius, you are energetic and curious and have an incredible thirst for life. You dream of love, but even more intense experiences and adventures. For you, a boring life means not living at all.

You are afraid of love because you are afraid of being bored or boring. You want passion and excitement every day and you are afraid of not experiencing it if you are content with love and its routine.

Your hardened celibacy stems not only from your fear of monotony but also from your impression that you must proudly protect your freedom. You are naturally agitated and nomadic, afraid of staying in one place for too long.

You don’t sit still and run away before getting too close to someone. Your fear of engagement is not really one, but rather comes from your fear of monotony.

You are afraid that love is only synonymous with slowing down and you do not want to sacrifice the things that are most dear to you. No longer traveling, no longer meeting new people, having new experiences would mean giving up the life you love.

You are afraid of love because you do not want to give the impression of someone being a cannonball. In truth, you know very well that if someone is to be afraid, it is rather your half and not the reverse.

Your partner will have to adapt to your personality and not the opposite. The only way to do it is yours. You need someone who lets you flourish and shine, lets you do whatever you want and accompanies you along the way. You have already had the impression of being held back by love and you are therefore afraid today of never finding the right person.

Although you have a reputation for being flirtatious, you are extremely devoted in love. You are an idealist, particularly in love and you are afraid of posing with the wrong person and being content with mediocrity. You don’t want to get attached to someone and end up discovering that they “just don’t understand you”.

You hate nothing more than being emotionally manipulated and you have been in the past. You will not support it any more and you no longer have the patience to cry. If things don’t go well, you leave. Your simple logic and boundless honesty save you every time. Honestly you don’t want to have to deal with a worsening or falling apart situation.


You have an impressive mastery of yourself, you are responsible, motivated and disciplined. You are afraid of love because it is inherently dangerous and unpredictable. You need to think, analyze and have a plan. Love can be uncertain so you exercise great caution. You don’t want to open up, just to wreck your life or make you lose control.

You hate failure and love is not an area in which you want to fail. You are realistic and do not see life in pink, nor love. You know that once you give in, it will be for life. You do not like compromises and you carry a lot on your shoulders. In fact, love is an investment in your eyes. You invest your efforts, your time, your money and yourself. Failure in this area would be a huge shock and make you feel like you have been used and impoverished.

It is difficult to conquer yourself but once your walls have given way, you are invested and loyal to excess, almost stubbornly. And this scares you because you know that you will not leave, even if you had to.

It is difficult for you to turn around when you have entered someone’s life and let them enter your own. It is not easy to get to know you and you are careful when it comes to choosing the ones you let go in more depth. You don’t want to give up what you have taken so long to gain. This is also linked to your fear of failure. You don’t want to do this and find yourself alone.

Your pride and the vision the world has of you are paramount. You’re terrified of love making you look like an idiot. You are afraid that the pain following it will become public and turn into humiliation. You don’t want to appear weak.

You want to give the impression of being strong. You don’t want your vulnerabilities and anxieties to show through, so you tend to turn away from your feelings and build defenses. You have no problem letting others rest on you, but loving would mean relying on someone else and that is what scares you. Because you would no longer have control or control.


You have a deep need for solitude and freedom. You see the world as a place full of possibilities. You are afraid of love because you do not want to feel limited or hindered.

When you are in love, you are loyal and devoted. You offer your partner the independence you wish to receive in return, considering him as an equal and you are anything but possessive but you are afraid of not receiving the same thing in return.

You have already experienced stories that have collapsed because your partner wanted you to choose him at the expense of your independence. It was suffocating. You are an idealist and dream of a true love but you have this great capacity to distance yourself from yourself and you use it to maintain your independence, thus living many stories with no future.

But that doesn’t mean you don’t want to find a partner. You are just afraid that you will not find the ideal partner, someone who can understand the importance of your individuality in your eyes.

You don’t want to be in a relationship in which each of you would lose sight of what you really are. You know from experience that it is difficult to find someone who understands your unconventional outlook on life and your freedom of mind, someone willing to rewrite the rules of love by your side.

You don’t want to be normal and random. You are concerned that your relationships will lose authenticity as you try to check off the items on the list and do what is expected of you. You don’t want love like everyone else.

You are also terribly afraid of not being accepted, of not receiving validation from others. And this is due to the high demands you have on yourself as well as your pride. You are afraid of love because it means being transparent 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. You are afraid of being honest about your personality.

You are intuitive but you trust everyone. Some might even say that you are naive and gullible. Your kindness has already been abused. Your reason takes precedence over your feelings and you no longer want to lose your head. You are afraid that love will make you stupid. You have depended too much on others in the past and ended up alone. You are afraid of reliving the same thing.


Pisces, you’re afraid of being taken advantage of. You are selfless and do everything you can to help others, never expecting anything in return. You accept many things and more than finding love, you want to help others.

You are often attracted to tortured souls and your need to help others often pushes you to set no limits. You have often had the impression of being used. You are afraid of love because you no longer want to experience such a sensation and you know that you cannot help but give yourself entirely to others.

You thought you were in love many times. People have only one thing to do: tell you what you want to hear, so that you feel like you’re in love. It is not your fault, you are an incorrigible romantic, looking for his half . But it never lasts and you have experienced, again and again, only disappointments. You are afraid of love because you know that you get attached too quickly.

You want to avoid having a broken heart at all costs, it has happened too many times. Your loyal and considerate nature is solely responsible. You are an unconditional generous and you have known only too many partners who were just taking, until nothing was left.

You no longer want to experience this void. You are afraid that another sorrow, another abandonment, another blow will permanently break you and prevent you from ever having faith in love again.